wristbandgoth

Everyone who reads this, sorry in advance for such a random question.

Im new to the forum too, please be nice.

My girlfriend and I just had our first time last week, on a monday. Im in college and shes in high school(me=freshman, her=senior, respectively) We are both 18, I am a month older than her. May 14th will be nine months for us. This last week, her dad was out of town and her house was empty, except for her twin sister who wasn't around much, and in about 5 days, we had sex about 18 times. My question is, is that at all odd or bad? I don't know what it is. Before sex, we couldnt get enough of everything but sex. And now it seems we can't get enough sex. When we are around each other and alone, we just have to have each other. I feel weird though, because im just worried that its not normal. I have never felt this way with some 20 odd girls that I have been together with in my short time on the planet. I love her so damn much and vice versa and we just have to have each other when we are alone.



is that bad? not normal? damaging to a relationship? thanks.

maleficent

We're always nice here... it's what we do

Long as you are using protection, and you remember to take care of other bodily functions... it all should be good.


/me waits for the responses to come about the twin sister joining in

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sailor

Nope. Nothing wrong with that

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Charlatan

Did the twin sister join in?!?!?

Sorry, just making Maleficent's wishes come true...


Seriously though, there is nothing odd about young people having a lot of sex and wanting to have more... Drink deep from that cup because before you know it you will be 50 and not only will you have a smaller cup to drink from but the waitres won't be around to refill it all that often... That said, the quality of drink will be outstanding.

In other words, plays safe and enjoy yourselves... you are only young once.

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vanblah

There's nothing wrong with lots of sex. I remember those days.

There is something called "Honeymoon Cystitis" that is associated with frequent sex though.

edit: Forgot the link->http://honeymoons.about.com/cs/femal...a/cystitis.htm

Meditrina

ahhhhh to be young and in love.....

I don't see anything wrong with it, as long as you are safe.

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BigBen

Buddy, you could have asked if 30 times in 30 hours was too much and you would get a resounding "NO!" from this pervert collective you have stumbled onto here... (I love you all, you freaky perverts )

Remember that everything in moderation creates a good balance.

You lucky dog. I look at that time in my life and smile. Have fun, experiment, BE SAFE (thanks for the sobering thought Mal) and get caught in the moment.

Ummm, I would like to ask what would happen if the parental figure arrived on-scene unexpectedly. You might want to find an absolutely secure location.

If she wants it, and you want to give it, why should you question how much is too much?

OH, I GET IT!!! YOU ARE BRAGGING, YOU LITTLE SHIT. SHAME ON YOU TO RUB OUR FACES IN IT. AFTER ALL WE HAVE DONE FOR YOU!!!

HALX, I DEMAND YOU BAN THIS KINKY MONKEY. That way, you can have more time for what is truly important (ahem) and not waste the sex-time on the TFP.

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Sage

hahahahaha!

Martel and I used to have sex like... three or four times a day over the course of four days when he'd come up during the first few months of our relationship.

It's totally normal, as long as you're being safe about pregnancy and STDs and all that, it's healthy too. Unless her dad walks in on you two.

That being said, you both need to get your asses to a doctor to get the full spread of STD testing. DO IT! Better safe than sorry!

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Martian

My girl and me are six months in and we still have se about 6-8 times a day on a normal day. The first night we started we were up until 6 am, grabbed about 3 hours of sleep and then woke up and were back at it all the next day.. can't even guess the number of times. Our best estimate was about 50 tmes within those four days (I have my own apartment and had those days off work, which made it easier). we both ended up very sore and very happy.

So, no. As long as you both want it and take the proper precautions, I reckon it's all good.

abaya

Martian, damn, what do the both of you do for a living?? Do you both work at home? Do you have maids to clean the house while you fuck 6-8 times a DAY?? Sheee-it man... that's... admirable.

Enjoy those times while you got 'em (I say this to the OP, too)... real life comes up to bite you in the ass pretty quick. ktspktsp and I go at it like rabbits on the weekends unless there are other circumstances... but when we first got together and lived a few blocks away from each other... Mmmm, the memories!

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Martian

abaya, we don't get a lot of time together, since I'm near Toronto and she's in Detroit right now for school. Let's just say that the minor concerns like sleep and housework go out the window when we're together. We have to make ourselves eat (because, let's face it, that's a lot of burned calories).

I work an afternoon shift, so we have a lot of time together in the morning. We'll wake up around 7:00, have sex two or three times, take a shower (together usually, which ends up leading to another couple of times), grab a bite to eat and relax for a few minutes until I have to leave for work. Then when I get home It's usually another couple of times before we fall asleep. If I'm scheduled off or take a day off when she's up it's not that hard to fit that in. Keep in mind that breaks in between are pretty much just long enough for a very horny twenty one year old to get it up again, since we can't seem to be together and not want each other.

I know it won't last and that we'll eventually calm down (although after this long into it, I'm wondering exactly when), which is why I fully plan on enjoying it while I can. I'm very much in love with this girl and suspect I'll be spending the rest of my life with her, so I'd like to be able to look back on this time with her fondly in the years to come.

If I were talking about this anywhere other than the TFP, I don't think I'd even bother to post the numbers because we've come to the mutual agreement that nobody would believe us if we told them. I mean, hell, we consider ourselves restrained if we have sex twice in one day, which is funny considering that average for a lot of couples is twice a week.

Occasionally we go so much that I just can't come up enough for another round (I've never had problems with stamina, but I have my limits; I'm still not sure how I managed that first weekend), but fortunately we have, ahem.. other means when it's just not hard enough for the normal way.

And in case you hadn't guessed, I usually end up taking a day off when she's up. I work in tech support, so I have the choice of going to work and trying to placate morons who can't figure out how the internet works or staying home and fucking like mad with a girl I'm madly in love with and find incredibly sexy. What would you do in my position?

lindseylatch

holy crap, 20 chicks in 18 years? day-yum.

I would say that much sex isn't normal, but it probably isn't damaging the relationship. Like everyone else, I think it's totally okay, as long as both parties are into it.

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wristbandgoth

thanks everybody, i feel alot better now.

for the advice and making me feel welcome.

abaya

Well gee, Martian, depends what position you're talkin' about... missionary? side?

No really though, I have no problem with your frequency! I just couldn't grasp how you did in a 7-day-a-week basis... until I read your second post and realized that you were in a long-distance relationship. Well of COURSE you're gonna be able to fuck 6-8 times a day in that situation (same situation, myself)! I just didn't know how you'd do it while living in the same town with regular jobs and stuff. Nice one!! Keep it "up" while ya can...

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Martian

Someone who feels my pain on the long distance issue (and we can be more creative about positions than that, although we do like missionry.. can't go wrong with the classics). I've gone just over a week now without holding her (or doing anything else with her, for that matter) and it's starting to really get to me. 250 miles apart isn't so bad as all that, but it's enough that I just can't afford to go down there all that often, nor can she manage coming up here every weekend.

Hmm.. I smell a new thread...

But yeah, that does have something to do with the frequency of the sex, although something tells me that while we'd cut back some if we saw each other daily, I'm not sure it'd be all that much.

Lead543

Holy wow 18 times in 5 days!
HOW ARE YOU STILL WALKING?!
As long as you're safe and not pulling any muscles, I say, go for it. But BE SAFE!

TroutKind

it's not about the quantity but the quality, or is it the other way around? tear it up man!

Martian

TroutKind - I think it's both. If you want someone that badly that you're having sex that often, the sex is amazing.

Or that's my experience, anyway.

RMMsGirl

IMHO, I really don't think there's such a thing as too much sex.. maybe that's just me. It sounds like you guys had a lot of fun. Just make sure you're being safe.

Anxst

As long as you can both walk without pain, you're fine. I was once on the 3-4 times a day plan......for over 6 months straight. Ah, those were the days......

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Acetylene

Crikey, I got "honeymoon cystitis" six times last year. I was just calling it UTI. Somehow "honeymoon cystitis" isn't any less embarassing :P

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Apache

I say there's no much thing as to much sex

If your not normal then neither am I

Aladdin Sane

Can I have the twin sister's number?

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Fett56

I'm dating a twin too, and the other day accidently called my girl by her twin sisters name. Boy did that suck.

TM875

All I have to say is congrats and good luck!



Oh, and fuck you, you lucky sonofabitch.

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777

Wow, that's a lot of sex. Are you sure the twin didn't join in? Are they identical? Can you tell the difference between the 2 sisters? Could each twin have slept with you without your knowledge?

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herostar

No problems, just watch out for yeast infections and/or urinary tract infections.... Happened to me once and it SUCKED@!!!

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Hardknock

What a problem you have there...

Biscuit Buns

Oh, how I miss that. Damn, damn, damn.

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chickentribs

/chickentribs thinking to himself

"Well... I'm not that old. What's he doing I'm not??? He must be counting in the metric system. He said Canada, right? No, that wouldn't make sense.... Mayybeee - dog years? He doesn't think if you do it that way you get dog years, does he? No. That's just stupid. hmmm, He said tech support. That's gotta build up a bit of aggrevation to work off. Could be. - Wait! No... It couldn't be -"


Hey Martian - your not counting those like push-ups are you??

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Martian

chickentribs - not at all.. we're just really in love and really enjoy sex. Each session lasts between 20 and 40 minutes, on average. The trick is the time in between. We'll have sex multiple times with only 5-10 minute breaks. Do the math, you figure in the 7-8 hours we have before I go to work and 2-3 after I get home we've got more than enough time. (It helps too that we both only need about six hours of sleep per night to function normally).

EDIT - and if you're thinking about those first four days, well... let's just say we didn't exactly make a lot of public appearances. We had to physically stop and make ourselves eat.

jhkayakr

I wish I had that problem...enjoy while it lasts

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chickentribs

Oh I believe ya Martian! fun sex can make a shut-in out of the best of us! The above quote is the best part, though!

and this...

Keep letting her hear it!

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doncalypso

I've said it before and I'll say it again... there is not such thing as too much sex!!!!

I want it 24/7 and throughout my entire life as a sexually active person I have never been satiated. The way I see it, the word "enough" doesn't even fit in my sexual vocabulary so I don't see how the hell there could ever be such a thing as too much sex.

Maybe I'd have a different perspective if I dated a woman who was a total nympho, but in all my relationships thus far I've always been the one who wants sex more, and it's always turned off my partners to one extent or another.


Does anyone around here know how I could shut down my sex drive so I can finally find some peace and contentment with my life?

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