Fresno_aztec

So my new g/f is very open with me that she like a lot of different things. She is one of the hottest girls that i have ever laid eyes on and it turns out that she is also one of the kinkiest girls that i think ill ever meet.

I love the fact that she is this open about all of this type of stuff with me and me only...

She has mentioned that she likes to role play, this is something that i have always thought about but never had the opportunity. Its a little hard for me to tell her what i want right now i have told her a few things that shes into but im just wondering what some ideas others may have or exp. that others have had that may help me figure out some good things to try and such.

Its funny, you think about all the things you want in a partner physically and such and then when you seem to get exactly what you wanted or more than that you sometimes hesitate with all the things you thought you wanted to try.

Locke00000

I know the feeling, as my current g/f is so absolutely kinky it is rediculous. We love doing all sorts of weird stuff, including roleplaying. The thing to remember is that the more open you are with what you want, the further you can go. By all means, if she seems to be open to different things, ask her if she wants to try the stuff you havent done before but have an interest in (anal, bondage, fetish, whatever)...

When it comes to roleplay, just remember to seriously approach what she wants and hope she does the same. If one person is really into RP and the other isnt; it ruins the whole thing.

Sage

hrm... sometimes it really gets me off if Martel and I pretend i'm some hot college co-ed who has come over to study and ends up getting fucked... It can get us both really really hot, but sometimes i'll "break character" just to have some reassurance from Martel. I'd suggest sitting down with her and talking about what you hope to get out of role playing. Role playing is kinda like BDSM in that you're entering into a contract with the other person. If you get serious into it, it's like you're both acting out the parts of other people, and you need to know just how far you want it to go. For example, if she's role playing a naughty teacher and you're her teenage student, and she decides that you need a spanking with a ruler, you need to come up with a safe word in order to tell her that you dont want to do that.

Nothing as strenuous as a stop word as in BDSM, but perhaps a cue word or phrase that would let you both know, without breaking character, that you're not comfortable with what the other person is doing. For example, if she said "Oh, you've been a naughty boy, now I have to spank you!" you could say something like "Oh, but I much prefer xylophones!" and that's the cue phrase to let her know you're not cool with the spanking.

COMMUNICATION IS KEY- IN EVERYTHING!

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chickentribs

I had an SO that liked to have me act out actual people from her past - not old boyfriends (that'd be creepy) but rather her 8th grade math teacher she had a crush on or the co-worker she had a crush on but never spoke to. It's fun to hear about somebody's old crushes and you tell stories about yourself you never would have remembered otherwise. Plus, she indulged me in my "Mrs. Robinson" fantasy about the hot mom that lived on the street I grew up on! Coo Coo Cachoo indeed!

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KinkyKiwi

lol chicken tribs that sounds fun! i've wanted to roleplay with biznatch but i dont know if hes into it...or really wants to try it since we havent yet. but i did all teh time with my ex bf, and other girls...i'm very fond of girl scout/old guy, teacher/student, doctor/paitent, delivery guy (or girl)/person whos house it is or cat/mouse

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Bill O'Rights

I used to date a knockout of a little redhead, who loved to get all dolled up and walk unescorted into a bar. She'd seat herself, and start "attracting" attention. She'd get a few guys talking her up and buying her drinks. Then after a half hour, or so, I'd walk in, looking scruffy wearing an old OD green military field jacket, faded out jeans, flannel shirt, and sporting a three day growth of facial hair. I'd find a table, sit down, order a beer and just keep to myself. She would then "notice" me, sluff off her would be paramours, and come to sit at my table, where I would be as lackadaisical about her presence as possible. She'd buy me drinks, and come on to me hardcore. I'd be as disinterested as could be. Meanwhile, her "suitors" are taking all of this in, in utter disbelief. After about an hour or so, I'd turn to her ask her if she wanted to go fuck. She'd acquiesce, whereby I'd take her arm and walk her out of the bar, whilst her fan club would stand slack jawed. I miss her...sometimes. Gorgeous woman. Just not...wired quite right, if you know what I mean.

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chickentribs

Girl scout/old guy sounds like big fun - are Thin Mints included?? Which reminds me, suprising your SO with the right props will make you look like a seasoned professional. For example, it wasn't so much the calculator as it was the pocket protector that nailed the math teacher for me! Getting out of the house and familiar surroundings always seemed to add extra kick to the game.

A last idea, celebrities can be fun too. Unrealistic (Sinatra/Madonna would tear the hell out of each other) or real. As annoying as they were as a couple, I must admit bringing Puffy and JLo into my bedroom was quite fun!

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chickentribs

That's great - I had some guy actually bet me $20 in a bar during one of these games that the girl (my girlfriend) was leaving with him! She was dressed up pretty, um, slutty and when I came in he had been working her for a while. I felt guilty for one second - then realized what an ego this ass must have. He never knew how the guy in thick glasses and a suit 2 sizes too small (my outfit for the evening) took his money and his date.

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Biscuit Buns

I have never RPed, but have always wanted to do the whole sexy librarian/guy asking for help/screwing between bookcases thing. Heh...maybe even sex in a library for real. LOL EEK!

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MrJones

First of all: Bill O'Rights you're story really rocks!! Being a person that always visualises thoughts, I could easliy imagin how it must have been. Can't wait to try it out myself

Personally as most of us in here I'm aslo into the secretary-boss, younger boy - teacher, boy and friends mom thing.
What really turns me on in the secretary situation is the outfit: high black leather boots, black stockings, short skirt and a some kinky see through underwear.
But in the two other situations it ain't about the outfit, but rather the feeling that you hand over complete control to your girl. Acting that it is your first time, asking what you should do, asking if it's ok if you touch her in particular places.
Another thing that really get's me going is when my gf sits on top of me and, I swing my arms to the back and she grabs my hands and holds them at that place so I can't move them anymore (soft form of bondage). When she saw that I liked it that much, also my gf climaxed like amost immediately

Hmmm, still two hours to get home

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vvveronica

well I've done a lot of roleplay and it can be alot of fun. My favorite is the kidnap roleplay where im captured and bound resisting helplessly of course. I had these two guys close to me once played it by using a rented building and 6 tape recorders. They scripted a whole auctioning scenario. the bound and hooded me and then playing the recorders of other peoples voices and their own I was really sure the room was full of people. It was incredible. I was stripped and exhibited to what i thought was at least 10 people and used in sex and auctioned off. Their timing was great and the game was so intense.. I still get a very warm feeling when i think about it.

Gilda

[taking notes: Kidnapped, bound, stripped, exhibited, used for sex, and auctioned]

vvveronica: Ohhhhh, that's great. I got a little warm feeling just reading that. Mind if borrow certain elements of that for a story I've been writing?

Grace and I like roleplaying. The cruel Mistress and the submissive maid is our favorite, and we go all out when we're doing that one. Head cheerleader and the new recruit, and any number of Wonder Woman or Zatanna scenarios work well also, and any number of naughty teacher / secretary scenarios work well also.

Pick something from real life, add sex to it, and you have a RP scenario; just about anything will work.

abaya

Wow, that one made ME feel warm all over... damn, the first time ktspktsp and I made love, he did just that... it was the sweetest, hottest thing I'd ever experienced in a relationship (previous guys were a little less considerate). It would be so fun to role-play that first time again... (Not that we haven't had 3-minute poundings that are incredibly intense and beyond any verbal communication, but the first time is always special.)

Otherwise, yes, I'd love to do a teacher/student thing since there were a couple of 17-year-old boys that I dreamed about when I was teaching high school (I was 23 then).

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MrJones

Boy o boy, you could have made a lot of dreams come true!!!
I remember just the exact situation when I was seventeen. The very boring teacher we should normally get in that year was promoted to director of our school, so they had to find someone to replace him. So they found this cute 22 year old lady who just had finished her studies. Being a 17 yr old (read being horny as hell all the time) I liked her a lot. In class she didn't like me a lott, being a huge pain in the ass (in a matter of speaking). But sometimes we met during the weekends in the local club and then she indeed was very friendly. Never really happened then, I still regret that a lott. So now I'm still hooked up with this fantasy.

Glad my fantasy gave you a warm feeling inside, Abaya. Hope your love also got to benefit from it
I've always been turned on by the fact of an older women teaching me the ways of how to make a woman go completely mad. Hope to really experience this one day, although I'm not that new to the game anymore

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abaya

Oh yes, MrJones, my love will definitely benefit from the fantasies this weekend. Damn, who knows what I was missing when I was teaching school, though! I'd have enjoyed meeting some of my hottie students on the weekends back then... if only I knew I wouldn't get sued or fired! I particularly remember one young man who ALWAYS sat in the front row... (sigh) and yes, he was a ROYAL pain in the ass (the hottest ones usually were troublemakers). I think I really missed out by being such a goody-two-shoes in high school and college, so these high school boys sure got my attention once I got to walk the halls again.

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MrJones

We can now only imagine how it would have been. Kinda funny if you think of it. Two people with the same fantasy, both were the other "party" and none of us got to experience it. But hey, sometimes my gf gets to be the teacher and that's also lots of fun.

Even now I still meet that teacher from time to time, but I'm in a relation now end she already has two kids. Maybe this is wishfull thinking on my behalf, but the way she looks at me, something tells me she also regrets nothing really ever happend

Oh, and about being a pain in the ass. That was just our way to say: hi gorgeous, get rid of that stupid book. Come over here and teach me how to please you! And it worked, cause you still remember him...

Enjoy your weekend

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benjaloo

my old gf and I tried out some gender reversal ones--those were amazingly hot,surprisingly so.