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RCR · 04-13-2005, 01:49 AM

Just got back from a great holiday. Of course met a wonderful girl. Had the best week with her, feel like we made a really special connection. Anywho heres to my question. I will see this girl again, but not till june. I dont feel like we are going out, but i def. have feelings for her, and like her a lot.

Before I see her again i have been invited to see another girl in Vienna for the weekend.

The weekend in Vienna wont be spent baking cookies...but i wont see this girl in vienna again for a long while after that. The problem is i am worried i will get really attached to the girl in vienna also.

What should i do?

Thanks in advance,

RCR

tecoyah · 04-13-2005, 02:08 AM

Women are much like Fruit....all delicious, and good for you. Very healthy and seldom can you eat too much. But there will always be one flavour that makes you Salivate.

thalakos315 · 04-13-2005, 02:08 AM

well, even if you do get attatched to this vienna girl. at least you know ahead of time that it is a possibility, and that you know you won't see her again for quite a while.

with that said.. relaxe and take life one day at a time

what happens happens, and theres no sense worrying about something that hasn't happend yet.
i think you might be working yourself up to a point in which you'll be so nervous that you won't be able to enjoy yourself while your there. its only a weekend right? kick back, enjoy the companionship, see vienna, and expect nothing

just my personal opinion

jorgelito · 04-13-2005, 02:39 AM

Make sure you attend an opera while in Vienna. World class...

Besides, girls dig it.

Seriously, go, take a chance. Your heart will let you know.

WillyPete · 04-13-2005, 02:50 AM

There is no 'the right one'.
There is always the 'right one at the time' for you.

You have not made any committments, you are not cheating.
Enjoy it, safely, because someday all this will be gone and you will sit in a rocking chair saying "I shoulda..." to yourself.

RCR · 04-13-2005, 03:24 AM

Fantastic advice,

And the stuff about the fruit is spot on, cheers guys,

rcr

Sage · 04-13-2005, 05:41 AM

speaking from a woman's perspective, I'd feel kinda strange if some guy i met over the weekend devloped feelings for me and then still had them when I saw him in june. Go to this Vienna siren! Perhaps you'll get some "Vienna sausage" if you know what I mean!

Anyway, if you still like the other chick in June, great- right now, you aren't attached to her, and you don't even know if she's still thinking about you- sometimes these great attachments are all in your head. How about going to Vienna, having a TON of fun, then mebbe calling the other girl in a few weeks to see if you feel the same way about her that you do now?

RCR · 04-13-2005, 06:21 AM

The holiday girl and i were basically with each other 24/7 for 9 days. And we have kept in contact via phone and email everyday since i got back on 5 days ago...

Trust me she likes me

rcr

WillyPete · 04-13-2005, 07:46 AM

And post the photos from Vienna on the photography forum.

MrJones · 04-18-2005, 06:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tecoyah

Women are much like Fruit....all delicious, and good for you. Very healthy and seldom can you eat too much. But there will always be one flavour that makes you Salivate.

Damn man, quite some wisdom in that quote!! I would kill for some fruit salad right now.

MrJones · 04-18-2005, 06:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrJones

Damn man, quite some wisdom in that quote!! I would kill for some fruit salad right now.

RCR just hang out with the both of them, more than once, this will make it easier to make this very hard choice. Asentioned before, it's not that you'r in a long term relationship with any of them.. Go and taste the fruit my son

ngdawg · 04-18-2005, 06:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tecoyah

Women are much like Fruit....all delicious, and good for you. Very healthy and seldom can you eat too much. But there will always be one flavour that makes you Salivate.

On the other hand, one bite could tell you that is some nasty fruit....

04-13-2005, 01:49 AM	#1 (permalink)
RCR Crazy	Need advice from more experience forum members. Just got back from a great holiday. Of course met a wonderful girl. Had the best week with her, feel like we made a really special connection. Anywho heres to my question. I will see this girl again, but not till june. I dont feel like we are going out, but i def. have feelings for her, and like her a lot. Before I see her again i have been invited to see another girl in Vienna for the weekend. The weekend in Vienna wont be spent baking cookies...but i wont see this girl in vienna again for a long while after that. The problem is i am worried i will get really attached to the girl in vienna also. What should i do? Thanks in advance, RCR

04-13-2005, 02:08 AM	#2 (permalink)
tecoyah Illusionary	Women are much like Fruit....all delicious, and good for you. Very healthy and seldom can you eat too much. But there will always be one flavour that makes you Salivate. __________________ Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha

04-13-2005, 05:41 AM	#7 (permalink)
Sage hoarding all the big girl panties since 2005 Location: North side	speaking from a woman's perspective, I'd feel kinda strange if some guy i met over the weekend devloped feelings for me and then still had them when I saw him in june. Go to this Vienna siren! Perhaps you'll get some "Vienna sausage" if you know what I mean! Anyway, if you still like the other chick in June, great- right now, you aren't attached to her, and you don't even know if she's still thinking about you- sometimes these great attachments are all in your head. How about going to Vienna, having a TON of fun, then mebbe calling the other girl in a few weeks to see if you feel the same way about her that you do now? __________________ Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi

04-13-2005, 02:08 AM	#3 (permalink)
thalakos315 Tilted	well, even if you do get attatched to this vienna girl. at least you know ahead of time that it is a possibility, and that you know you won't see her again for quite a while. with that said.. relaxe and take life one day at a time what happens happens, and theres no sense worrying about something that hasn't happend yet. i think you might be working yourself up to a point in which you'll be so nervous that you won't be able to enjoy yourself while your there. its only a weekend right? kick back, enjoy the companionship, see vienna, and expect nothing just my personal opinion

04-13-2005, 02:39 AM	#4 (permalink)
jorgelito All important elusive independent swing voter... Location: People's Republic of KKKalifornia	Make sure you attend an opera while in Vienna. World class... Besides, girls dig it. Seriously, go, take a chance. Your heart will let you know.

04-13-2005, 02:50 AM	#5 (permalink)
WillyPete Addict	There is no 'the right one'. There is always the 'right one at the time' for you. You have not made any committments, you are not cheating. Enjoy it, safely, because someday all this will be gone and you will sit in a rocking chair saying "I shoulda..." to yourself.

04-13-2005, 03:24 AM	#6 (permalink)
RCR Crazy	Fantastic advice, And the stuff about the fruit is spot on, cheers guys, rcr

04-13-2005, 06:21 AM	#8 (permalink)
RCR Crazy	The holiday girl and i were basically with each other 24/7 for 9 days. And we have kept in contact via phone and email everyday since i got back on 5 days ago... Trust me she likes me rcr

04-13-2005, 07:46 AM	#9 (permalink)
WillyPete Addict	And post the photos from Vienna on the photography forum.