tres

Ladies: How do you feel about your guys "fluids" gross? awsome?
Guys: How your ladies feel about it?

My SO is not fond of my fluids at all. Even the pre-cum, she must wipe it off. Even though she loves giving BJ'S (which is always good). I'm not asking for her to take it in her mouth, but when I do finish anywhere other than inside of her, I can see the obvious look of discust on her face. Is there anything I can do to at least bring her to a neutral position about it? In all honesty, it almost kills my orgasim buzz...

I know there are some women out there that just love the stuff.. and then there is my SO. How can I make her feel at least somewhere in the middle about it?

elsesomebody

My wife doesn't like the taste of my pre-cum, but she doesn't find the cum disgusting to look at.

Dingo2879

I'm not sure you can make her like it man... If she hates it now, I see little hope in her ever loving it.. The best scenario is that she just get's used to it, but even that is going to take time... My best advice is to meet her in the middle somewhere. Accept the fact that she is never going to crave it, and hopefully she will try to get over being disgusted by it.

Bill O'Rights

Anybody else get this feeling of deja vu?

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"My SO is not font of my fluids at all. Even the pre-cum, she must wipe it off. Even though she loves giving BJ'S (which is always good). I'm not asking for her to take it in her mouth, but when do finish anywhere other than inside of her, I can see the obvious look of discust on her face. In all honesty, it almost kills my orgasim buzz"

Rinndalir

Wife doesn't like to swallow it so I usually don't cum in her mouth, other than that she doesn't mind it at all, she has no problem with me cumming anywhere on her body. I don't think that she craves it or anything, but rather she knows how much I get off on shooting it on her tits and her ass and especially her face. And she will let me cum in her mouth, she just has to spit it out soon after, and I'd rather see it on her anyway so we usually skip on that.

I have had a gf who reacted like that though, when she went on the pill we talked about ditching the condoms and she said she'd rather keep them because the thought of the stuff inside her or on her grossed her out. She never got better, but she never really liked sex anyways (personal issues) so that may not be the best example.

la petite moi

I dont know what it is- it's probably the texture- but I do not really like this pre-cum or cum. The cum burns my throat like crazy, and the pre-cum is just...weird feeling/tasting.

I have no problem with having him come on my back, ass, boobs, etc. It's just the taste that makes me go 'bleh'.

tres

Not asking her to crave it...just not to be discusted by it

tres

I looked all the threads in this section before I posted. I apologize it's been brought up before

Ilow

When my g/f went down on me for the first time, I gave her a "warning" before I came, as I had out of courtesy for my other g/f's, but my g/f thought this was the silliest thing she'd ever heard of and said something to the effect that if she wasn't going to let me finish in her mouth, then it's a glorified handjob and I didn't need her for those! She says that my man-mustard doesn't really taste like anything at all although she's had some guys who had a strong taste. I have no idea why mine would taste better, except that I seldom eat red meat, but since she gives the worlds best blowjobs I'm not complaining.
As far as girls having a revulsion to the substance in general, there is always the possibility that it is a result of other, more global hangups about sex (but then since I study a fair amount of Freud, it's only logical that I would think that, right?).

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kutulu

Pete and Repeat went on a boat. Pete fell in, who's left?

Anyhow, I'll put my 2 cents in. My wife used to be grossed out by it. As time went on she started to let me cum in her mouth, even though she didn't like it. She'd promptly spit it out. Even later on, she started to swallow what got in her mouth and clean up what is left. Now it's gotten to the point where I can do whatever I want, and she seems to love it. I can shoot all over her face and body and she licks it up and swallows it.

Hang in there, there just might be hope.

Cimarron29414

tres,

I can pretty much guarantee that no one has ever discussed how your girl doesn't like semenal fluid. If so, this is a SMALL world.

Personally, I would be thankful with the BJ's and not make an issue of it. Just have her shoot it on your chest and you can clean it up. Problem solved.

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Jim Kata

Whoa....your girlfriend knows whats up

sara2104

yah BOO on the taste i only swallowed once but i had a little to drink ever since then NOPE sorry not gonna happen!!

WineDrinker

Someone mentioned the cum burning their throat, sounds like in that case they're possibly alergic to her man's cum. I've heard you can get imunized against the allergy if you see a doctor.

Gilda

This is exactly my attitude when it comes to giving a guy a blow job.

It's been a while since I've gone down on a guy, but it was always my favorite part of my sexual relationship with a man, and after the first couple dozen or so, I didn't have any problem with the taste or with swallowing. I seem to be in the minority here, though.

Don't know what to do about her not liking it. She may never come around, and she may eventually get used to it.

abaya

I don't think it has anything to do with allergies or past sexual traumas or anything like that. It's an individual thing. Men, have you tasted your own cum? Actually, not just tasted it, but squirted a few tablespoons of it down your throat? The fact that most women don't like the taste of cum is an empirical fact: most cum tastes like shit. Or cum, rather. If cum tasted okay, most women would be downing it in gulps, begging for more. Some of them do... they're lucky. But for me, there's only been one time when cum tasted decent (almost sweet), and I didn't mind swallowing it then. Otherwise I would rather spit it out or have it go somewhere else (which I don't mind at all, because I love making my bf cum, esp. from oral sex). Believe me, I would LOVE to love my bf's cum... but I just can't acquire the taste, as much as I try.

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Ilow

Hey, we all appreciate effort like this. Desire on the part of the woman is what differentiates a good blow job from a great blow job. (IMHO )

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visotech

I think its only natural that most of our gfs aren't cumswapping pornstars about it...Yeah it kills the buzz for a bit, but I've learned to live with it, and for that, every once in a while she swallows

Sage

I'd say she's got some hang-ups, perhaps little ones, about spooge. Talk to her about it, not in a "Geez babe I'd love it if you did cum shots for fun" sort of way, but in a "hey, is there something deeper you're not telling me" sort of way. Communication!!

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Uuudar

My ex would let me cum in her mouth, but would never swallow. I don't think she was a big fan of the taste and texture. My current SO loves the taste of my pre-cum and thinks my cum is ok. Not her favorite thing in the world but she swallows most of the time. She's swell

StickODynomite

I dont mind the pre-cum but I cant stand the cum at all (texture or taste). My man doesn't mind that I don't swallow the stuff. I do let him cum in my mouth, I dont mind it as long as I get to spit it out and I kinda feel like it's the least I could do. Anyway, he doesn't complain.

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im2smrt4u

She swallows (most of the time) so no problems here!

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doncalypso

My girlfriend rarely goes down on me and refuses to swallow....

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bad jane

cum in general, love it. i enjoy the taste, the texture, the smell--everything. the only time i won't swallow is when i'm sick, but i don't do a lot of bj's then either. if my head and throat are filled up with my own gunk--no room for his too! but every guy i've ever been with has been pretty understanding about that.

if anyone had hang-ups about cum/bj's in the beginning of my current relationship--it would have been my bf. took me a while to convince him that it's very pleasurable to me too. he'd never had a partner who enjoyed it. first time i took him in my mouth after he'd been inside me, he was floored. i didn't think it was all that odd but i guess many women don't care for their own taste either?

i'm afraid i don't really have advice...i've always enjoyed watching my partner cum and i love when he cums in my mouth. i've helped friends learn to appreciate giving a good bj but never had one tell me she found cum disgusting.

jhkayakr

My wife needs to talk to you...lol.

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Scarlet

I read once that meat and dairy products give it a bad taste. You could try laying off those and eating more fruit and see if it becomes more palable for her. I like swallowing myself, but it was something that developed over time. In my 20's, I didn't feel that way.

snowy

I love cum, as long as it ends up in my mouth or in a condom. Anywhere else...no thanks...It's not that it's disgusting, it's that I can't help thinking of the untold thousands of sperm trying to valiantly fight their way towards fertilization. No thanks.

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xxSquirtxx

I LOVE doing that - and also kissing him after he's gone down on me. Yummy!

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ShaniFaye

I love the taste of cum, pre or otherwise.....Im with bad jane and squirt there are times I will *fight* dave to let me finish him with a bj after we've been fucking to finish him off because I love the taste of him (and me) so much

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tres

I wish my girl was like the two of you

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snowy

I'd like that if we weren't using condoms...latex tastes ucky.

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lurkette

I swallow when I give ratbastid a bj, but it's not my favorite taste. I have to get water immediately afterward. For me it's not the taste so much as the texture. Same when I let ratbastid come on me - it's gooey and gets crusty fast. But it's my ratbastid's cum, so I like it

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ngdawg

Love giving them...taste is bleh, but it's been my (former youthful) experience that there are some men's cum that tastes ok and others just are horrible. Whether diet really plays a part, I have no idea. Husband's taste awful, but I will swallow on rare occasions-the taste isn't forever and I actually dislike precum more than cum-it's thicker or something.
What I'd like to know is, from women with men who got vasectomies-did the taste change at all?

tecoyah

Heh........It would seem , from a scientific study taken from a not so random sample that indeed....there is little change, and quite palatable.

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Gilda

Another vote with jane and Shanifaye. BJ's are the one thing I really, really miss about a sexual relationship with a man.

little_tippler

I've never had a problem with swallowing cum or the sight of it...just seemed natural to me to do that. I don't think it tastes of much, sometimes it can taste a bit weird (if he's eaten something that affects the taste), I like it on my body because it's sexy...eh. No hangups there. Makes me gag sometimes if he comes in my mouth, but only because sometimes it's a lot and he shoots it hard! cum is cool with me

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Acetylene

I don't mind cum in my mouth but it hurts my throat so I usually don't swallow.

I don't mind it on my body but I don't like the way it feels when it dries (sticky) so I usually want to wash it off pretty quickly. Not the cum's fault.

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hobo

my girl told me she didn't want to try swallowing, but the first time we did it she accidentally swallowed on reflex and said it wasn't too bad, except it kinda felt like it didn't go down right away, and left an odd feeling in her throat for a while. she also doesn't like too much precum, but she is okay with some. i'm not complaining.

i love the taste and smell of her. while down there, the sensations drive me wild. i can't imagine not enjoying going down on her.

pig

you could always try the ninja attack plan. every time she turns around, you're in ninja gear, jacking off and shooting it at her. Run away, hide, pretend it wasn't you. Three months later, the idea of having you cum on her / near her only after sex will be such a relief that she won't blink an eye at it.

or you could try reverse psychology. at the end up sex, run out of the room telling her that it embarrasses you to have to see her look of disgust when you blow your top. pity points?

besides that, i'd just say it's going to just have to be one of those things you have to accept, and maybe it gets better....but don't count on it. be prepared to have to deal with that look every time you pop one outside her.

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