Any men here ever cried after sex - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

ShaniFaye · 03-05-2005, 07:09 AM

(idea taken from the last time you cried thread)

I think its a pretty well known fact that after sex "women" (not at all meant to say ALL women) have been known to cry afterwards.....in my case its almost always been a good cry because of the overwhelming emotions that can take place during the act of lovemaking.

So....does it happen to men? Any of you guys care to admit misting up, boohooing, crying...whatever you wanna call it?

Carno · 03-05-2005, 07:14 AM

I've never heard of a man crying after sex. Come to think of it, I've never heard of a girl crying after sex either..

I've never felt like crying after having sex.

lukethebandgeek · 03-05-2005, 07:18 AM

I don't cry, but I do need a hug afterwards.

ShaniFaye · 03-05-2005, 07:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Carn

I've never heard of a man crying after sex. Come to think of it, I've never heard of a girl crying after sex either..

I've never felt like crying after having sex.

Carn if you google crying after sex it will bring up a multitude of places to read about why it happens.

absorbentishe · 03-05-2005, 07:21 AM

I think I cried hours later after realizing I left it in with no condom. I've had some very sensual sex that seems to enhance the relationship, but I don't think I've ever been close to tears though.

ICER · 03-05-2005, 07:40 AM

well, I had a cry when I found out how much she charged.

Just kidding

But really, I did cry once. after my last girlfriend and I had break up sex.

cala555 · 03-05-2005, 07:46 AM

I have never cried after sex, but have seen a girlfriend cry afterward when it was her first time (was not a bad cry)...

sammy776 · 03-05-2005, 08:11 AM

i have never cried after sex either, I dont think I have ever made a girl cry either, I guess I'm not as good as cala555

raveneye · 03-05-2005, 08:29 AM

My wife often cries after sex. I don't think I ever have, at least that I can remember.

Aladdin Sane · 03-05-2005, 08:44 AM

In college, the first few times we were together, my gf and I both cried during and after sex. We were deeply in love, and the emotions were overwhelming. Ironic thing is that our fights were extreme in the other direction. She once threated me with a butcher knife. Twenty years later I am often reminded of her by a scar on my left shin. Ouch.

KinkyKiwi · 03-05-2005, 08:58 AM

i've cried after..but not so much after sex as right after i orgasm..i want to curl up and be cuddled and a few times i've gotten all teary eyed and sobby...my last bf cried once...and a few of my male friends have cried after having sex with someone they really love..its just like such an intense connection sometimes you just cant help it

Strange Famous · 03-05-2005, 09:31 AM

ach... I dont cry. ever.

Willravel · 03-05-2005, 11:06 AM

My wife and I usually are giddy afterwards. We even have good laughs. It's not a negative response to performance, but more like the mutual enjoymentt. Of course, I don't usually cry when I'm happy (unless I'm laughing really hard).

TexanAvenger · 03-05-2005, 11:40 AM

My ex used to cry every once in a while after sex because of the emotion involved, like you Shani.

I have twice (I think) for the same reason... It's not any kind of pain, just being awash in a sea of emotion.

Mostly though it makes me, and her, more 'awake' than anything. Often there was more a feeling of giddiness afterward than anything else.

edit: We're talking about a "misting up" kind of thing, right? 'Cause I find it hard to think of a good sexual encounter involving real crying....

herostar · 03-05-2005, 12:34 PM

I've never cried after or during sex, or been with someone who did.

freeload · 03-05-2005, 03:13 PM

I only cry because my ass hurts

Serously I can't remember crying - but we have shared many extra-sensitive-intimate moments

Hampshire · 03-05-2005, 05:15 PM

i cuddle, no cry

bing bing · 03-05-2005, 05:34 PM

I've had a fair bit of sex with different individuals and no crying has ever taken place. If it did, i'd feel uncomfortable and worry about regret on her part.

I nearly did cry once but only because of an intense coital headache

doncalypso · 03-05-2005, 08:48 PM

I almost cried once because I got a really severe cramp in my left calf right as I ejaculated while taking my girlfriend doggie-style. That cramp was very intense and hurt like a motherfucker.

omega2K4 · 03-05-2005, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by doncalypso

I almost cried once because I got a really severe cramp in my left calf right as I ejaculated while taking my girlfriend doggie-style. That cramp was very intense and hurt like a motherfucker.

SHIT, That seriously happened to me about 2 nights ago. I thought my leg was going to fall off because the cramp was SO bad. I got a nice leg massage afterwards, so it wasn't that bad.

visotech · 03-05-2005, 11:33 PM

I was really confused the first time my girlfriend had tears in her eyes during/after sex, kinda freaked me out until she said they were good tears

.... I myself have never cried after sex though, most of my sex related crying has to do with not getting any because of a long distance relationship

Rdr4evr · 03-06-2005, 12:34 AM

I've never heard of anyone crying after sex, male or female, and I personally never had experienced crying after sex, on my part or hers. Quite honestly, if a girl I sleep with cries after sex, be it a girlfriend or otherwise, I would be creeped out and probably wouldn't sleep with her again. I just find that a bit odd.

forkies · 03-06-2005, 06:56 AM

my boyfriend and i are usually really giddy afterward too. sometimes i tell the best jokes after sex. it's like all barriers are down, and we are emotionally really close to each other (well, physically too...but i think that goes without saying).

World's King · 03-06-2005, 12:42 PM

Once.

She somehow during the clean up portion of our evening kicked me in the nuts. I think I teared up a little.

LoganSnake · 03-06-2005, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by The Original King

Once.

She somehow during the clean up portion of our evening kicked me in the nuts. I think I teared up a little.

Sorry, but that's just too funny.

And on topic, I have never cried. But I can relate to the two gentlemen above me who had their calves cramp up. I had my whole thigh cramp up when I was on top with one foot firmly on the bed surface. I almost fell over. Very very painful, but not tear inducing.

I haven't been with anyone who cried either.

xxSquirtxx · 03-06-2005, 09:30 PM

I'm a girl...I've never cried after sex. Not even the very first time (as far as I can remember - it's been a while). Nor have any men I've ever been with cried afterwards. I don't think I could put up with that. LOL

But then again, I'm not the cuddly type after sex either. I'm much more like a man in that respect. "Are ya done? Okay...get off of me. I'm tired. I'm going to sleep."

Sugar&Spice · 03-06-2005, 09:48 PM

My boyfriend has never cried after sex. I think if he did I wouldn't quite know how to react. I have cried a few times after sex and thought I was the only one. And its just a few tears that slip out so my boyfriend doesn't get all worried about it.

Redlemon · 03-07-2005, 05:05 AM

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Originally Posted by visotech

I was really confused the first time my girlfriend had tears in her eyes during/after sex, kinda freaked me out until she said they were good tears

.... I myself have never cried after sex though,

I have nothing to add to the statement above, except my agreement.

richb01_99 · 03-07-2005, 05:05 AM

I cried once after sex, but only after I sobered up and saw who I had slept with. ;-)

Unright · 03-07-2005, 05:30 AM

I think it's about unanimous. Men either don't or very rarely cry after sex.

I don't think it's a machismo holding back tears thing. There's just no urge.

doncalypso · 03-07-2005, 05:43 AM

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Originally Posted by richb01_99

I cried once after sex, but only after I sobered up and saw who I had slept with. ;-)

I don't mean to laugh at your misfortune, but this is too funny...

Stug · 03-07-2005, 05:53 AM

I think the type of crying ShaniFaye was talking about is kinda like a build up of nervous tension and sometimes when women orgasm, it acts as a trigger to release that tension in a overwhelming flood of emotion. The emotion can be released as tears, laughter and even muscle spasms...

At least this was the explanation a girl gave to me, on why she was rolling around the bed in a fit of hysterics (just after her orgasm)... Either that or my tiny cock was tickling her tuppence!

Charlatan · 03-07-2005, 06:16 AM

Never cried after sex. Been freaked out by women crying after sex, but never cried myself...

Now, crying to GET sex... that's a whole other question isn't it?

Bill O'Rights · 03-07-2005, 06:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Original King

She somehow during the clean up portion of our evening kicked me in the nuts.

And this, OK, is why you need to focus on her orgasm.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Charlatan

Now, crying to GET sex... that's a whole other question isn't it?

Damn....beat me to it.

And, no...I can't recall ever having cried after sex, nor do I recall "her" crying, either. Now I feel like like I'm missing something.

ruggerp11 · 03-07-2005, 07:12 AM

I have this thing with women crying that I just can't handle it really well at all. I think if a girl cried after sex I wouldn't know what to do at all. It would be weird.

cameroncrazy822 · 03-07-2005, 08:14 AM

Only when I can't cum

sterba · 03-07-2005, 08:49 AM

I've never cried...I wouldn't have the energy to expend! Crying is way too exhausting!!

My wife of 10 years though did cry on our first time...In fact it was somewhere in the middle of the act that she started to cry...I asked her what was wrong? and she replied...."I just want to know that I'm your woman?" Well, you can only respond one way when you are in that position....So, I told her "Of course you are honey, there's nobody else....I really care about you!" Which wasn't a lie...but at the same time...I was really more concerned about the climax! However, my confession to her finished the night for our love making....she was way too emotional and there was just no going back...she told me how much she loved me and it ended with a night of holding. It was that night that sealed my love for her...afterall I definetely knew how she felt about me and that she didn't take the act of love making lightly. It's been 14 years and she hasn't cried since (during the act that is!).

TNJ4555 · 03-07-2005, 09:11 AM

I've been known to cry before sex (more like a whine)
Only times after sex are when she turns on the light

Rinndalir · 03-07-2005, 09:30 AM

I had a girlfriend who cried the first time we had sex, and not in a good way. It turned out that she had been raped at 12 yrs old and it caused her to relive that, but I didn't know that at the time so it freaked me out pretty good.

Myself, never, sex is just not something associated in any way with anything that would cause me to. My wife is the same way, she either gets playful or touchy/cuddly or just demands more, but never crying.

Acetylene · 03-07-2005, 02:13 PM

I cry after really especially powerful orgasms, but not very seriously--more just some tears and whimpers. I also get really clingy which is occasionally annoying to Kel if he is thirsty or something

03-05-2005, 07:09 AM	#1 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	Any men here ever cried after sex (idea taken from the last time you cried thread) I think its a pretty well known fact that after sex "women" (not at all meant to say ALL women) have been known to cry afterwards.....in my case its almost always been a good cry because of the overwhelming emotions that can take place during the act of lovemaking. So....does it happen to men? Any of you guys care to admit misting up, boohooing, crying...whatever you wanna call it? __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

03-05-2005, 07:18 AM	#3 (permalink)
lukethebandgeek Chicks dig the Saxaphone Location: Nowheresville OH	I don't cry, but I do need a hug afterwards. __________________ Yes, band camp is all it's cracked up to be. So I like Chrono... So what?

03-05-2005, 07:40 AM	#6 (permalink)
ICER Chilled to Perfection Location: Dallas, TX	well, I had a cry when I found out how much she charged. Just kidding But really, I did cry once. after my last girlfriend and I had break up sex. __________________ What's the difference between congress and a penitentiary? One is filled with tax evaders, blackmailers and threats to society. The other is for housing prisoners. ~~David Letterman

03-05-2005, 07:46 AM	#7 (permalink)
cala555 Crazy Location: In a house	I have never cried after sex, but have seen a girlfriend cry afterward when it was her first time (was not a bad cry)... __________________ -- CALA555-- "Win if you can, lose if you must, but always cheat" Jessie "The Mind" Ventura

03-05-2005, 08:44 AM	#10 (permalink)
Aladdin Sane Degenerate Location: San Marvelous	In college, the first few times we were together, my gf and I both cried during and after sex. We were deeply in love, and the emotions were overwhelming. Ironic thing is that our fights were extreme in the other direction. She once threated me with a butcher knife. Twenty years later I am often reminded of her by a scar on my left shin. Ouch. __________________ Ceterum censeo Carthaginem esse delendam.

03-05-2005, 07:14 AM	#2 (permalink)
Carno Junkie	I've never heard of a man crying after sex. Come to think of it, I've never heard of a girl crying after sex either.. I've never felt like crying after having sex.

03-05-2005, 07:21 AM	#5 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	I think I cried hours later after realizing I left it in with no condom. I've had some very sensual sex that seems to enhance the relationship, but I don't think I've ever been close to tears though.

03-05-2005, 08:11 AM	#8 (permalink)
sammy776 Upright	i have never cried after sex either, I dont think I have ever made a girl cry either, I guess I'm not as good as cala555

03-05-2005, 08:29 AM	#9 (permalink)
raveneye Born Against	My wife often cries after sex. I don't think I ever have, at least that I can remember.

03-05-2005, 08:58 AM	#11 (permalink)
KinkyKiwi "Without the fuzz" Location: ..too close for comfort..	i've cried after..but not so much after sex as right after i orgasm..i want to curl up and be cuddled and a few times i've gotten all teary eyed and sobby...my last bf cried once...and a few of my male friends have cried after having sex with someone they really love..its just like such an intense connection sometimes you just cant help it __________________ Some mornings, it's just not worth chewing through the leather straps. Play with each other. Play with yourselves. Just don't play with the squirrels, they bite.

03-05-2005, 09:31 AM	#12 (permalink)
Strange Famous follower of the child's crusade?	ach... I dont cry. ever. __________________ "Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate, for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain without being uncovered." The Gospel of Thomas

03-05-2005, 11:06 AM	#13 (permalink)
Willravel ... a sort of licensed troubleshooter.	My wife and I usually are giddy afterwards. We even have good laughs. It's not a negative response to performance, but more like the mutual enjoymentt. Of course, I don't usually cry when I'm happy (unless I'm laughing really hard).

03-05-2005, 11:40 AM	#14 (permalink)
TexanAvenger Born-Again New Guy Location: Unfound.	My ex used to cry every once in a while after sex because of the emotion involved, like you Shani. I have twice (I think) for the same reason... It's not any kind of pain, just being awash in a sea of emotion. Mostly though it makes me, and her, more 'awake' than anything. Often there was more a feeling of giddiness afterward than anything else. edit: We're talking about a "misting up" kind of thing, right? 'Cause I find it hard to think of a good sexual encounter involving real crying.... Last edited by TexanAvenger; 03-05-2005 at 10:04 PM..

03-05-2005, 12:34 PM	#15 (permalink)
herostar Psycho Location: South Dakota	I've never cried after or during sex, or been with someone who did. __________________ Got time to chill?

03-05-2005, 03:13 PM	#16 (permalink)
freeload Done freeloading here Location: on my ass :) - Norway	I only cry because my ass hurts Serously I can't remember crying - but we have shared many extra-sensitive-intimate moments __________________ The future ain't what it used to be. Last edited by freeload; 03-05-2005 at 03:19 PM..

03-05-2005, 05:15 PM	#17 (permalink)
Hampshire Crazy	i cuddle, no cry

03-05-2005, 05:34 PM	#18 (permalink)
bing bing Addict Location: Melbourne, Australia	I've had a fair bit of sex with different individuals and no crying has ever taken place. If it did, i'd feel uncomfortable and worry about regret on her part. I nearly did cry once but only because of an intense coital headache

03-05-2005, 08:48 PM	#19 (permalink)
doncalypso TFP Mad Scientist Location: Philadelphia, PA	I almost cried once because I got a really severe cramp in my left calf right as I ejaculated while taking my girlfriend doggie-style. That cramp was very intense and hurt like a motherfucker. __________________ Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation

03-05-2005, 11:33 PM	#21 (permalink)
visotech Insane Location: San Diego, CA	I was really confused the first time my girlfriend had tears in her eyes during/after sex, kinda freaked me out until she said they were good tears .... I myself have never cried after sex though, most of my sex related crying has to do with not getting any because of a long distance relationship

03-06-2005, 12:34 AM	#22 (permalink)
Rdr4evr Banned	I've never heard of anyone crying after sex, male or female, and I personally never had experienced crying after sex, on my part or hers. Quite honestly, if a girl I sleep with cries after sex, be it a girlfriend or otherwise, I would be creeped out and probably wouldn't sleep with her again. I just find that a bit odd.

03-06-2005, 06:56 AM	#23 (permalink)
forkies Tilted	my boyfriend and i are usually really giddy afterward too. sometimes i tell the best jokes after sex. it's like all barriers are down, and we are emotionally really close to each other (well, physically too...but i think that goes without saying).

03-06-2005, 12:42 PM	#24 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	Once. She somehow during the clean up portion of our evening kicked me in the nuts. I think I teared up a little. __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

03-06-2005, 09:30 PM	#26 (permalink)
xxSquirtxx More anal, less shenanigans Location: Always lurking	I'm a girl...I've never cried after sex. Not even the very first time (as far as I can remember - it's been a while). Nor have any men I've ever been with cried afterwards. I don't think I could put up with that. LOL But then again, I'm not the cuddly type after sex either. I'm much more like a man in that respect. "Are ya done? Okay...get off of me. I'm tired. I'm going to sleep." __________________ .

03-06-2005, 09:48 PM	#27 (permalink)
Sugar&Spice Psycho	My boyfriend has never cried after sex. I think if he did I wouldn't quite know how to react. I have cried a few times after sex and thought I was the only one. And its just a few tears that slip out so my boyfriend doesn't get all worried about it. __________________ -Speak your mind even if your voice shakes

03-07-2005, 05:05 AM	#29 (permalink)
richb01_99 Upright Location: Austin	I cried once after sex, but only after I sobered up and saw who I had slept with. ;-)

03-07-2005, 05:30 AM	#30 (permalink)
Unright Crazy Location: Florida	I think it's about unanimous. Men either don't or very rarely cry after sex. I don't think it's a machismo holding back tears thing. There's just no urge.

03-07-2005, 05:53 AM	#32 (permalink)
Stug Crazy Location: UK	Big boys don't cry... I think the type of crying ShaniFaye was talking about is kinda like a build up of nervous tension and sometimes when women orgasm, it acts as a trigger to release that tension in a overwhelming flood of emotion. The emotion can be released as tears, laughter and even muscle spasms... At least this was the explanation a girl gave to me, on why she was rolling around the bed in a fit of hysterics (just after her orgasm)... Either that or my tiny cock was tickling her tuppence! __________________ and so ends the thought process for another day...

03-07-2005, 06:16 AM	#33 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	Never cried after sex. Been freaked out by women crying after sex, but never cried myself... Now, crying to GET sex... that's a whole other question isn't it? __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

03-07-2005, 07:12 AM	#35 (permalink)
ruggerp11 Cautiously soaring Location: exploring my new home in SF	I have this thing with women crying that I just can't handle it really well at all. I think if a girl cried after sex I wouldn't know what to do at all. It would be weird. __________________ Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it. --Mark Twain Do What makes you happy --Me BUT! "Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu

03-07-2005, 08:14 AM	#36 (permalink)
cameroncrazy822 Junkie Location: MD	Only when I can't cum

03-07-2005, 08:49 AM	#37 (permalink)
sterba Upright Location: Michigan	I've never cried...I wouldn't have the energy to expend! Crying is way too exhausting!! My wife of 10 years though did cry on our first time...In fact it was somewhere in the middle of the act that she started to cry...I asked her what was wrong? and she replied...."I just want to know that I'm your woman?" Well, you can only respond one way when you are in that position....So, I told her "Of course you are honey, there's nobody else....I really care about you!" Which wasn't a lie...but at the same time...I was really more concerned about the climax! However, my confession to her finished the night for our love making....she was way too emotional and there was just no going back...she told me how much she loved me and it ended with a night of holding. It was that night that sealed my love for her...afterall I definetely knew how she felt about me and that she didn't take the act of love making lightly. It's been 14 years and she hasn't cried since (during the act that is!).

03-07-2005, 09:11 AM	#38 (permalink)
TNJ4555 Tilted Location: Jersey	I've been known to cry before sex (more like a whine) Only times after sex are when she turns on the light

03-07-2005, 09:30 AM	#39 (permalink)
Rinndalir Insane	I had a girlfriend who cried the first time we had sex, and not in a good way. It turned out that she had been raped at 12 yrs old and it caused her to relive that, but I didn't know that at the time so it freaked me out pretty good. Myself, never, sex is just not something associated in any way with anything that would cause me to. My wife is the same way, she either gets playful or touchy/cuddly or just demands more, but never crying.

03-07-2005, 02:13 PM	#40 (permalink)
Acetylene Addict Location: under a rock	I cry after really especially powerful orgasms, but not very seriously--more just some tears and whimpers. I also get really clingy which is occasionally annoying to Kel if he is thirsty or something __________________ There's no justice. There's just us.