Any men here ever cried after sex
 

(idea taken from the last time you cried thread)

I think its a pretty well known fact that after sex "women" (not at all meant to say ALL women) have been known to cry afterwards.....in my case its almost always been a good cry because of the overwhelming emotions that can take place during the act of lovemaking.

So....does it happen to men? Any of you guys care to admit misting up, boohooing, crying...whatever you wanna call it?

I've never heard of a man crying after sex. Come to think of it, I've never heard of a girl crying after sex either..

I've never felt like crying after having sex.

I don't cry, but I do need a hug afterwards.

Carn if you google crying after sex it will bring up a multitude of places to read about why it happens. :)

I think I cried hours later after realizing I left it in with no condom. I've had some very sensual sex that seems to enhance the relationship, but I don't think I've ever been close to tears though.

well, I had a cry when I found out how much she charged. :lol:

Just kidding

But really, I did cry once. after my last girlfriend and I had break up sex.

I have never cried after sex, but have seen a girlfriend cry afterward when it was her first time (was not a bad cry)...

i have never cried after sex either, I dont think I have ever made a girl cry either, I guess I'm not as good as cala555

My wife often cries after sex. I don't think I ever have, at least that I can remember.

In college, the first few times we were together, my gf and I both cried during and after sex. We were deeply in love, and the emotions were overwhelming. Ironic thing is that our fights were extreme in the other direction. She once threated me with a butcher knife. Twenty years later I am often reminded of her by a scar on my left shin. Ouch.

i've cried after..but not so much after sex as right after i orgasm..i want to curl up and be cuddled and a few times i've gotten all teary eyed and sobby...my last bf cried once...and a few of my male friends have cried after having sex with someone they really love..its just like such an intense connection sometimes you just cant help it :)

ach... I dont cry. ever.

My wife and I usually are giddy afterwards. We even have good laughs. It's not a negative response to performance, but more like the mutual enjoymentt. Of course, I don't usually cry when I'm happy (unless I'm laughing really hard).

My ex used to cry every once in a while after sex because of the emotion involved, like you Shani.

I have twice (I think) for the same reason... It's not any kind of pain, just being awash in a sea of emotion.

Mostly though it makes me, and her, more 'awake' than anything. Often there was more a feeling of giddiness afterward than anything else.

edit: We're talking about a "misting up" kind of thing, right? 'Cause I find it hard to think of a good sexual encounter involving real crying....

I've never cried after or during sex, or been with someone who did.

I only cry because my ass hurts :)

Serously I can't remember crying - but we have shared many extra-sensitive-intimate moments :)

i cuddle, no cry

I've had a fair bit of sex with different individuals and no crying has ever taken place. If it did, i'd feel uncomfortable and worry about regret on her part.

I nearly did cry once but only because of an intense coital headache ;)

I almost cried once because I got a really severe cramp in my left calf right as I ejaculated while taking my girlfriend doggie-style. That cramp was very intense and hurt like a motherfucker.

SHIT, That seriously happened to me about 2 nights ago. I thought my leg was going to fall off because the cramp was SO bad. I got a nice leg massage afterwards, so it wasn't that bad.

I was really confused the first time my girlfriend had tears in her eyes during/after sex, kinda freaked me out until she said they were good tears :).... I myself have never cried after sex though, most of my sex related crying has to do with not getting any because of a long distance relationship ;)

I've never heard of anyone crying after sex, male or female, and I personally never had experienced crying after sex, on my part or hers. Quite honestly, if a girl I sleep with cries after sex, be it a girlfriend or otherwise, I would be creeped out and probably wouldn't sleep with her again. I just find that a bit odd.

my boyfriend and i are usually really giddy afterward too. sometimes i tell the best jokes after sex. it's like all barriers are down, and we are emotionally really close to each other (well, physically too...but i think that goes without saying).

Once.


She somehow during the clean up portion of our evening kicked me in the nuts. I think I teared up a little.

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Sorry, but that's just too funny.

And on topic, I have never cried. But I can relate to the two gentlemen above me who had their calves cramp up. I had my whole thigh cramp up when I was on top with one foot firmly on the bed surface. I almost fell over. Very very painful, but not tear inducing.

I haven't been with anyone who cried either.

I'm a girl...I've never cried after sex. Not even the very first time (as far as I can remember - it's been a while). Nor have any men I've ever been with cried afterwards. I don't think I could put up with that. LOL :hmm: But then again, I'm not the cuddly type after sex either. I'm much more like a man in that respect. "Are ya done? Okay...get off of me. I'm tired. I'm going to sleep." :lol:

My boyfriend has never cried after sex. I think if he did I wouldn't quite know how to react. I have cried a few times after sex and thought I was the only one. And its just a few tears that slip out so my boyfriend doesn't get all worried about it.

I have nothing to add to the statement above, except my agreement.

I cried once after sex, but only after I sobered up and saw who I had slept with. ;-)

I think it's about unanimous. Men either don't or very rarely cry after sex.

I don't think it's a machismo holding back tears thing. There's just no urge.

I don't mean to laugh at your misfortune, but this is too funny...
:lol::lol::lol:

Big boys don't cry...
 

I think the type of crying ShaniFaye was talking about is kinda like a build up of nervous tension and sometimes when women orgasm, it acts as a trigger to release that tension in a overwhelming flood of emotion. The emotion can be released as tears, laughter and even muscle spasms...

At least this was the explanation a girl gave to me, on why she was rolling around the bed in a fit of hysterics (just after her orgasm)... Either that or my tiny cock was tickling her tuppence! :D

Never cried after sex. Been freaked out by women crying after sex, but never cried myself...


Now, crying to GET sex... that's a whole other question isn't it? :lol:

And this, OK, is why you need to focus on her orgasm. :lol:
Damn....beat me to it. :p

And, no...I can't recall ever having cried after sex, nor do I recall "her" crying, either. Now I feel like like I'm missing something. :(

I have this thing with women crying that I just can't handle it really well at all. I think if a girl cried after sex I wouldn't know what to do at all. It would be weird.

Only when I can't cum

I've never cried...I wouldn't have the energy to expend! Crying is way too exhausting!!

My wife of 10 years though did cry on our first time...In fact it was somewhere in the middle of the act that she started to cry...I asked her what was wrong? and she replied...."I just want to know that I'm your woman?" Well, you can only respond one way when you are in that position....So, I told her "Of course you are honey, there's nobody else....I really care about you!" Which wasn't a lie...but at the same time...I was really more concerned about the climax! However, my confession to her finished the night for our love making....she was way too emotional and there was just no going back...she told me how much she loved me and it ended with a night of holding. It was that night that sealed my love for her...afterall I definetely knew how she felt about me and that she didn't take the act of love making lightly. It's been 14 years and she hasn't cried since (during the act that is!).

I've been known to cry before sex (more like a whine)
Only times after sex are when she turns on the light

I had a girlfriend who cried the first time we had sex, and not in a good way. It turned out that she had been raped at 12 yrs old and it caused her to relive that, but I didn't know that at the time so it freaked me out pretty good.

Myself, never, sex is just not something associated in any way with anything that would cause me to. My wife is the same way, she either gets playful or touchy/cuddly or just demands more, but never crying.

I cry after really especially powerful orgasms, but not very seriously--more just some tears and whimpers. I also get really clingy which is occasionally annoying to Kel if he is thirsty or something ;)

I cry after sex all the time, but that's because of the pepper spray.

"I've been known to cry before sex (more like a whine)
Only times after sex are when she turns on the light" Very funny TNJ4555! I needed that laugh.

lapdances are so much better when the stripper is crying...

Only if it gets too rough and I get kicked in the face or something.

never been with a guy who cried before, during, or after sex.

The only time I can remember crying after sex was the time my GF and I were going at it with her sitting on the kitchen table. While screwing I pulled out too far and slipped out of her. On my next thrust I scraped my dick on the sharp table edge. The sex was over and I was in exreme pain.

I've never cried after sex. Jeez.

I get hungry, though. Very hungry. And so I head for the fridge as soon as I can make a graceful exit.

If the fridge was empty, then I guess I might drop a tear or two.

i can't think of a reason i would cry during or after sex.. been overwhelmed a few times, but never anything close to tears..
i tend to get real attentive afterwards though. its also my favorite time to "explore" :P

hhmmmm..no but i get sex usually AFTER she cries :D maybe cos the guards are down,..i dunno... but hey it works every time :)

oh and virginity sex..(and a few times after that.plus a few more) ..but thats like that for most girls i think...

I've cried a couple times after sex. Sometimes in that calm quiet time right after some really monumental sex it is a bit overwhelming to realize how close I can be to someone.

I've also had sweat get in my eyes during sex in the middle of the afternoon in an unairconditioned house in Texas. Goddamn it was so hot in the house, the windows were open, and both our bodies were covered in sweat so we were sticking together. That sweat in my eyes stung like a motherfucker.

I'm with you on this one. Crying after sex? That's just wacked. I'd be thinking to myself, "this chick's a nutjob" while simultaneously planning my escape route.

BHG!
 

Yes. Yes they are.

I've ordered pizza after sex...does that count?

with or without pepperoni -- because it makes a difference...:D


I'm like a 2 year old sometimes, crying is something I associate with frustration and anger and being frustration, anger and frustration aren't something that I would associate with sex (unless it was really bad). Crying because of emotions does not compute with me but I suppose it would be possible.

Now that's funny, I don't care who ya are.

My wife cries after sex sometimes. It's not a bad cry, she tells me she is just so overwhelmed with emotion.

It's a known medical fact, that after orgasm, women release Oxytocin, the very hormone that bonds them with their children, etc. Reaffirms the age old... sex is much more emotional for women.

/me <--- is not complaining :)