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777 · 02-10-2005, 10:08 AM

I was chatting with a friend of mine a few months back and he made an interesting observation. This one gal he knows is one of the picky-est eaters he has ever met. And when she has sex with her husband, it's in the classic missionary position, lying so that her head is off the edge of the bed. Anything other than that is out of the question and will be promptly shot down.

And so it came down to this, if one is open-minded to different foods, and is always trying something new, then he/she is just as experimental in bed. And if the person is a picky eater, their sex life will follow suit. Myself, I'll eat breakfast for dinner, and I'll scramble my lunch into an omlette of some kind in the morning. I'd like to try everything on that Periodic Table of Sex they sell at Spencer's Gift, and that strap-on thing sounds like fun (since her hands are free).

lunchbox · 02-10-2005, 10:17 AM

I don't know, I don't really have the big experience needed to tell if this is true or not. But my girlfriend is a pretty non-fussy eater and she's pretty open to most things (anal excluded) so I dunno. Interesting observation though.

ShaniFaye · 02-10-2005, 10:19 AM

Im not a picky eater (unless you count the fact that I wont touch Thai food or sushi) and there isnt much sex wise I wont do....unless it involves bodily waste functions

sillygirl · 02-10-2005, 10:39 AM

I am a relatively picky eater, but when it comes to sex, I'll do just about whatever. There are a few things excluded, but... yeah....

Charlatan · 02-10-2005, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by sillygirl

I am a relatively picky eater, but when it comes to sex, I'll do just about whatever. There are a few things excluded, but... yeah....

This describes me...

That said, I was really picky eater when I was kid and didn't get much sex...

Now that I am older I eat pretty much anything... and get a lot more sex...

Is there a connection?

degrawj · 02-10-2005, 10:59 AM

hmmmm.... this is interesting. i've never thought about that before. but now that you mention it, and as i look back at the women i've been with and their eating habits, i would have to say that this holds pretty true. not entirely true, of course, but very close.

i still think i need to conduct further investigation though in order to ensure a more accurate hypothesis. :-)

Val_1 · 02-10-2005, 11:00 AM

In my limited experience, yes this seems to be true (now that you mention it). My ex wife was a picky eater, and was very limited in the sack. My first gf after my divorce was pretty experimental in both food and sex. Perhaps you're on to something.

tooth · 02-10-2005, 11:07 AM

My wife is a picky eater. But she is very open minded in the bedroom.

Halx · 02-10-2005, 11:09 AM

I think it's just a personality type. You'll always find mixtures of different degrees of pickiness.

Seaver · 02-10-2005, 11:24 AM

I've known many girls who are picky about food but try anything in the bedroom

Elusive Dreamer · 02-10-2005, 12:13 PM

my man is the pickiest eater i've ever met!!
he just tried an olive for the first time in his whole life, a few weeks back.
but, he's far from boring in the bedroom

thank god that this food=sex thing does not correlate so evenly for everyone.

Sugar&Spice · 02-10-2005, 03:36 PM

I think it just depends on the person. I am a very picky eater. I don't eat anything spicy and there are only a few vegetables I like. I also must have all my food separated on my plate. But when it comes to the bedroom, I'm into trying new things and I've never had any complaints about being boring in there.

snowy · 02-10-2005, 03:55 PM

I'm not a picky eater and totally open to trying new things.

This is really interesting...my lover will eat anything but was a very picky eater as a kid and is rather (very) restrained in the bedroom...but that's all right by me...brings out my dominant side.

degrawj · 02-10-2005, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl

I'm not a picky eater and totally open to trying new things.

This is really interesting...my lover will eat anything but was a very picky eater as a kid and is rather (very) restrained in the bedroom...but that's all right by me...brings out my dominant side.

Yeah, you are the only one that I could think of that didn't fit this idea. :-) :-) The rest pretty much do.

The Phenomenon · 02-11-2005, 02:25 AM

Im a very picky eater and I am not fussy at all in the bedroom. I like different stuff there

Nancy · 02-11-2005, 03:17 AM

<-- picky about food but certainly not picky about sex

forkies · 02-11-2005, 04:57 AM

me = picky eater, crazy about fun sex
boyfriend = will try almost any new food, unimaginative about sex

ironmaiden7o7 · 02-11-2005, 06:23 AM

I am very picky when it comes to food, I don't eat meat so I'm only limited to other foods, there are only so many things I can eat when I go out.

bubblex · 02-11-2005, 10:24 PM

I'm a horribly picky eater, but I'm very opened minded about sex.

cowgirl02 · 02-11-2005, 11:51 PM

I am a VERY picky eater, and i am willing to try anything sexually, except i cant swallow (but i think thats just a mind thing) and my bf eats anything and everything and he is very open to anything (except the whole strap on idea that is a big NO in our house according to him)

02-10-2005, 10:08 AM	#1 (permalink)
777 drawn and redrawn Location: Some where in Southern California	Picky about Food, then Picky about Sex I was chatting with a friend of mine a few months back and he made an interesting observation. This one gal he knows is one of the picky-est eaters he has ever met. And when she has sex with her husband, it's in the classic missionary position, lying so that her head is off the edge of the bed. Anything other than that is out of the question and will be promptly shot down. And so it came down to this, if one is open-minded to different foods, and is always trying something new, then he/she is just as experimental in bed. And if the person is a picky eater, their sex life will follow suit. Myself, I'll eat breakfast for dinner, and I'll scramble my lunch into an omlette of some kind in the morning. I'd like to try everything on that Periodic Table of Sex they sell at Spencer's Gift, and that strap-on thing sounds like fun (since her hands are free). __________________ "I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip." Roger Zelazny Last edited by 777; 02-10-2005 at 04:40 PM..

02-10-2005, 10:17 AM	#2 (permalink)
lunchbox Thank God hockey is back Location: Deeeeeetroit	I don't know, I don't really have the big experience needed to tell if this is true or not. But my girlfriend is a pretty non-fussy eater and she's pretty open to most things (anal excluded) so I dunno. Interesting observation though. __________________ A common mistake that people make when trying to design something completely foolproof is to underestimate the ingenuity of complete fools. -Douglas Adams

02-10-2005, 10:19 AM	#3 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	Im not a picky eater (unless you count the fact that I wont touch Thai food or sushi) and there isnt much sex wise I wont do....unless it involves bodily waste functions __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

02-10-2005, 10:39 AM	#4 (permalink)
sillygirl Newlywed Location: at home	I am a relatively picky eater, but when it comes to sex, I'll do just about whatever. There are a few things excluded, but... yeah.... __________________ Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken ....absence makes me miss him more...

02-10-2005, 11:00 AM	#7 (permalink)
Val_1 Addict Location: In a State of Denial	In my limited experience, yes this seems to be true (now that you mention it). My ex wife was a picky eater, and was very limited in the sack. My first gf after my divorce was pretty experimental in both food and sex. Perhaps you're on to something. __________________ I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day. -Frank Sinatra

02-10-2005, 10:59 AM	#6 (permalink)
degrawj I'm still waiting... Location: West Linn, OR	hmmmm.... this is interesting. i've never thought about that before. but now that you mention it, and as i look back at the women i've been with and their eating habits, i would have to say that this holds pretty true. not entirely true, of course, but very close. i still think i need to conduct further investigation though in order to ensure a more accurate hypothesis. :-)

02-10-2005, 11:07 AM	#8 (permalink)
tooth Addict	My wife is a picky eater. But she is very open minded in the bedroom.

02-10-2005, 11:09 AM	#9 (permalink)
Halx Please touch this. Owner/Admin Location: Manhattan	I think it's just a personality type. You'll always find mixtures of different degrees of pickiness. __________________ You have found this post informative. -The Administrator [Don't Feed The Animals]

02-10-2005, 11:24 AM	#10 (permalink)
Seaver Junkie Location: Fort Worth, TX	I've known many girls who are picky about food but try anything in the bedroom

02-10-2005, 12:13 PM	#11 (permalink)
Elusive Dreamer Upright Location: chicago	my man is the pickiest eater i've ever met!! he just tried an olive for the first time in his whole life, a few weeks back. but, he's far from boring in the bedroom thank god that this food=sex thing does not correlate so evenly for everyone.

02-10-2005, 03:36 PM	#12 (permalink)
Sugar&Spice Psycho	I think it just depends on the person. I am a very picky eater. I don't eat anything spicy and there are only a few vegetables I like. I also must have all my food separated on my plate. But when it comes to the bedroom, I'm into trying new things and I've never had any complaints about being boring in there. __________________ -Speak your mind even if your voice shakes

02-10-2005, 03:55 PM	#13 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	I'm not a picky eater and totally open to trying new things. This is really interesting...my lover will eat anything but was a very picky eater as a kid and is rather (very) restrained in the bedroom...but that's all right by me...brings out my dominant side. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

02-11-2005, 02:25 AM	#15 (permalink)
The Phenomenon Psycho Location: I think my horns are coming out	Im a very picky eater and I am not fussy at all in the bedroom. I like different stuff there __________________ Do not confuse altruism with kindness, good will or respect for the rights of others. These are not primaries, but consequences, which, in fact, altruism makes impossible. The irreducible primary of altruism, the basic absolute, is self-sacrifice - which means: self-immolation, self-abnegation, self-denial, self-destruction - which means: the self as a standard of evil, the selfless as a standard of the good.

02-11-2005, 03:17 AM	#16 (permalink)
Nancy Femme Fatale Location: Elysium	<-- picky about food but certainly not picky about sex __________________ I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.

02-11-2005, 04:57 AM	#17 (permalink)
forkies Tilted	me = picky eater, crazy about fun sex boyfriend = will try almost any new food, unimaginative about sex

02-11-2005, 06:23 AM	#18 (permalink)
ironmaiden7o7 Insane Location: NYC	I am very picky when it comes to food, I don't eat meat so I'm only limited to other foods, there are only so many things I can eat when I go out. Last edited by ironmaiden7o7; 04-14-2008 at 09:50 AM..

02-11-2005, 10:24 PM	#19 (permalink)
bubblex Upright Location: Houston Texas	I'm a horribly picky eater, but I'm very opened minded about sex.

02-11-2005, 11:51 PM	#20 (permalink)
cowgirl02 Tilted Location: Dallas, Texas	I am a VERY picky eater, and i am willing to try anything sexually, except i cant swallow (but i think thats just a mind thing) and my bf eats anything and everything and he is very open to anything (except the whole strap on idea that is a big NO in our house according to him)