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bing bing · 01-29-2005, 04:16 AM

for no other reason than something to do with their genitals? That is, they had incurable STD that you had no desire of receiving? They had a small and unworkable penis? Etc. Perceived genital incompatibility if you will.

I know this seems shallow and cold, but I broke up with a girl because she was scared of her vagina. That is, she’d never looked at it, touched it, trimmed, shaved or waxed it. To her, her vagina served no purpose other than to expel urine. That to me was a massive turn off and as a consequence, I could never see it working so i ended it pronto. Ok, that and she wasn’t too intelligent.

ironmaiden7o7 · 01-29-2005, 05:11 AM

I totally understand why you'd break up with someone who's afraid of their vagina, that's ridiculous. But, I do know a few people who are not afraid but doesn't think much of the darn thing. But, lord, no shaving and trimming? That's a bit gross. You did the right thing bro, it's all about cleanliness and acceptance if a person can't be proud of what they are carrying and groom it, then, they won't pay much attention to yours! You should've told her "it's here to stay, you aren't getting a prettier one!" Lol.

Hope this helps.

Holo · 01-29-2005, 06:02 AM

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Originally Posted by bing bing

for no other reason than something to do with their genitals? That is, they had incurable STD that you had no desire of receiving? They had a small and unworkable penis? Etc. Perceived genital incompatibility if you will.

I know this seems shallow and cold, but I broke up with a girl because she was scared of her vagina. That is, she’d never looked at it, touched it, trimmed, shaved or waxed it. To her, her vagina served no purpose other than to expel urine. That to me was a massive turn off and as a consequence, I could never see it working so i ended it pronto. Ok, that and she wasn’t too intelligent.

It wasn't because of her vagina...it was because she had issues with it and it would be a major barrier inyour relationship. You can't fix ppl like that so breaking up was the right thing IMO. Buy her a copy of The Vagina Monolgues and tell her good luck

and read this thread for your other question

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=69023

chickentribs · 01-29-2005, 10:08 AM

OK - she was stupid so I guess it was the right thing to do. But sadly, there are a lot of women out there who were taught by parents, church, state, whoever that the vagina is the true root of all evil. They are literally taught that it is their "bad" area that needs to be locked away.

I'm just saying that a lot of women get past it if they have someone who can help them be comfortable with themselves and and sex. Did I mention that works pretty well for us guys too? I think Holo was right on - I would have bought her front row tickets to a show of women talking about sex and self-confidence. It begs the question - why do women get the powerful "Vagina Monologues", and we get "Puppetry of the Penis" on off-Broadway? I had bad dreams for weeks after seeing that nonsense...

01-29-2005, 04:16 AM	#1 (permalink)
bing bing Addict Location: Melbourne, Australia	Have you ever broken up with someone… for no other reason than something to do with their genitals? That is, they had incurable STD that you had no desire of receiving? They had a small and unworkable penis? Etc. Perceived genital incompatibility if you will. I know this seems shallow and cold, but I broke up with a girl because she was scared of her vagina. That is, she’d never looked at it, touched it, trimmed, shaved or waxed it. To her, her vagina served no purpose other than to expel urine. That to me was a massive turn off and as a consequence, I could never see it working so i ended it pronto. Ok, that and she wasn’t too intelligent.

01-29-2005, 10:08 AM	#4 (permalink)
chickentribs Addict Location: Mansion by day/Secret Lair by night	OK - she was stupid so I guess it was the right thing to do. But sadly, there are a lot of women out there who were taught by parents, church, state, whoever that the vagina is the true root of all evil. They are literally taught that it is their "bad" area that needs to be locked away. I'm just saying that a lot of women get past it if they have someone who can help them be comfortable with themselves and and sex. Did I mention that works pretty well for us guys too? I think Holo was right on - I would have bought her front row tickets to a show of women talking about sex and self-confidence. It begs the question - why do women get the powerful "Vagina Monologues", and we get "Puppetry of the Penis" on off-Broadway? I had bad dreams for weeks after seeing that nonsense... __________________ Oft expectation fails... and most oft there Where most it promises - Shakespeare, W.

01-29-2005, 05:11 AM	#2 (permalink)
ironmaiden7o7 Insane Location: NYC	I totally understand why you'd break up with someone who's afraid of their vagina, that's ridiculous. But, I do know a few people who are not afraid but doesn't think much of the darn thing. But, lord, no shaving and trimming? That's a bit gross. You did the right thing bro, it's all about cleanliness and acceptance if a person can't be proud of what they are carrying and groom it, then, they won't pay much attention to yours! You should've told her "it's here to stay, you aren't getting a prettier one!" Lol. Hope this helps.