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cavu · 01-13-2005, 04:53 PM

I know a girl who is a year younger than me, and really to be frank, not really that hot. She is not ugly at all, but just nothing that would make you look while passing in the store. But, for a reason i do not know, everytime she is around me i go crazy. Maybe it is just her attitude, or something, but it definitly gets me going. She will come up to me and lean up against me and sit next to me, just playfull no big deal kind of stuff, but boy does it do something to me. Not a kind of girl that i would usually date, I don't mean to sound like a asshole, just not really my type. One day for example, she came over and sat on my knee/lap. I tried my best to hide the fact that something was rising, I couldn't stop it. lol. I do a lot of sitting down around her

So I was curious if anyone else has ever ran into someone who is not there type and for no real reason at all they are turned on like crazy? Just thought it was kind of interesting.

Samalie · 01-13-2005, 05:16 PM

I have an ex-gf thats the same way - would never come close to even being allowed entry into a beauty pagent/etc, is completely not my type (I prefer large breasts, which she lacks, and cannot stomach the "I need to eat a sammich" look, which she has)

Yet for some completely unfathomable reason, to this day she still could bring me to full attention, despite my being married to an absolutely wonderful woman who IS my type. I can't explain it, can't rationalize it, but for some truely odd reason I'd love to hit it hard.

Only thing I can think of is that she did give me my first blowjob. Mabye its the memory of that.

(edited because I cant type or word sentences worth shit tonight)

Konichiwaneko · 01-13-2005, 07:09 PM

Yes I have a few girls like that. They are kinda typical cookie cutter looks, long brown hair, simple face...but they just drive me crazy.

Mostly because the way they walk, and that innocent and girlish way they move.

Then again something the silliest things I find adorable, like a girl who squeeks.

TM875 · 01-13-2005, 08:20 PM

It's all about attitude. They act like they know you want them, so, subconsciously, you think that you do. People are, and forever will be, most attracted to attention above anything else. If she acts like you're the most important guy in the world - the guy she wants more than any other - you're going to want her simply because she wants you.

MSD · 01-13-2005, 10:23 PM

I know a few like that. Half of the time it's personality, the other half it's pheromones.

Ambient1 · 01-14-2005, 06:45 AM

I know exactly what you mean...

There was this one girl at the office - very plain looking, although she dressed well. She also had this huge mole on the side of her face (think old hag, not Cindy Crawford). She was not dog ugly, but just barely cute... but for some reason I was totally obsessed with her.

Turned out she was one of the most sexually experienced people I have ever known...

It's all in the mind and attitude... (phermones too maybe).

f6twister · 01-14-2005, 09:27 AM

The closest I get is looking at my ex and wondering what I was thinking. Same as yours, not ugly but very playful.

Have you considered that your subconscious may be trying to tell you that what you think your type is what your type really is are two different things?

Samalie · 01-14-2005, 10:40 AM

Not at all - I know what I like, and normally the flat-chested "I need a sammich" type girl just turns me right off.....but her....oh yes her.....mmmmmmmm.....

I wouldn't even want to date her again, even if I was single, nor would there ever be a future with her, but fuck, if I was single, I'd love one good romp in the sheets again, and I have no idea why LOL

doncalypso · 01-14-2005, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by cavu

I know a girl who is a year younger than me, and really to be frank, not really that hot. She is not ugly at all, but just nothing that would make you look while passing in the store. But, for a reason i do not know, everytime she is around me i go crazy. Maybe it is just her attitude, or something, but it definitly gets me going. She will come up to me and lean up against me and sit next to me, just playfull no big deal kind of stuff, but boy does it do something to me. Not a kind of girl that i would usually date, I don't mean to sound like a asshole, just not really my type. One day for example, she came over and sat on my knee/lap. I tried my best to hide the fact that something was rising, I couldn't stop it. lol. I do a lot of sitting down around her

So I was curious if anyone else has ever ran into someone who is not there type and for no real reason at all they are turned on like crazy? Just thought it was kind of interesting.

I'm not certain if I've been in such a situation before, but I think it has something to do with the fact that some women just emit this vibe that naturally "clicks" or "resonates" with you.

skysooner · 01-14-2005, 01:44 PM

I feel this way 5 or 6 times a day. My wife and I are so sexually active with each other that I'm revved up so much most days. There are just some women that know how to walk, smile, etc. that draw you in. Just a thought though, you seem to know this girl a bit better than that. Regardless of how she looks, is she someone that you could see yourself with if she were your physical type? I didn't really think my wife was all that hot when we first started dating. Her hair style, taste in clothes and general shyness just didn't attract me, but the way we talked to each other did. Now she is the hottest thing ever in my eyes.

caz · 01-14-2005, 01:52 PM

Actually I have been in a similar situation . I went to college with a girl that did the same thing for me. Definately not the type of girl that I would normally be attracted to, but I threw caution to the wind and started seeing her. It really didn't last long but it was fun/different while it lasted. Maybe it is worth a try 4 you

desal75 · 01-14-2005, 02:10 PM

Give it a shot, what do you have to lose?

cavu · 01-14-2005, 04:08 PM

yeah i might give it a shot, i would love to be close with her, she drives me crazy.

rainheart · 01-14-2005, 08:54 PM

I know what you mean, I have this thing for a girl I know. Lately though it's been sort of wearing off, I think I saw something in her which ruined it for me =o which is a shame.

cavu · 01-14-2005, 11:31 PM

yeah it sucks when you find somthing that just totally turns you off. I liked this girl for a year, and then i found out more than i wanted to, and now i am sick whenever i see her.

piesen · 01-16-2005, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by skysooner

I feel this way 5 or 6 times a day. My wife and I are so sexually active with each other that I'm revved up so much most days. There are just some women that know how to walk, smile, etc. that draw you in. Just a thought though, you seem to know this girl a bit better than that. Regardless of how she looks, is she someone that you could see yourself with if she were your physical type? I didn't really think my wife was all that hot when we first started dating. Her hair style, taste in clothes and general shyness just didn't attract me, but the way we talked to each other did. Now she is the hottest thing ever in my eyes.

Ditto on this one
I say get to know her and you may end up like this guy above and me and my wife.(dont know him just agree with him)

Craven Morehead · 01-17-2005, 01:34 PM

I think you should go with it and see where it leads. You're half way there, or more. You can not duplicate what's going on with others, regardless how they look. Try it, you might like it.

drakers · 01-17-2005, 03:27 PM

Before I met my wife, there was this girl that I just liked being around, not the prettiest and not usually my type. But I liked her, looks are only skin deep.

01-13-2005, 04:53 PM	#1 (permalink)
cavu Upright	Odd attraction I know a girl who is a year younger than me, and really to be frank, not really that hot. She is not ugly at all, but just nothing that would make you look while passing in the store. But, for a reason i do not know, everytime she is around me i go crazy. Maybe it is just her attitude, or something, but it definitly gets me going. She will come up to me and lean up against me and sit next to me, just playfull no big deal kind of stuff, but boy does it do something to me. Not a kind of girl that i would usually date, I don't mean to sound like a asshole, just not really my type. One day for example, she came over and sat on my knee/lap. I tried my best to hide the fact that something was rising, I couldn't stop it. lol. I do a lot of sitting down around her So I was curious if anyone else has ever ran into someone who is not there type and for no real reason at all they are turned on like crazy? Just thought it was kind of interesting.

01-13-2005, 07:09 PM	#3 (permalink)
Konichiwaneko The Dreaded Pixel Nazi Location: Inside my camera	Yes I have a few girls like that. They are kinda typical cookie cutter looks, long brown hair, simple face...but they just drive me crazy. Mostly because the way they walk, and that innocent and girlish way they move. Then again something the silliest things I find adorable, like a girl who squeeks. __________________ Hesitate. Pull me in. Breath on breath. Skin on skin. Loving deep. Falling fast. All right here. Let this last. Here with our lips locked tight. Baby the time is right for us... to forget about us.

01-13-2005, 08:20 PM	#4 (permalink)
TM875 Addict Location: Amish-land, PA	It's all about attitude. They act like they know you want them, so, subconsciously, you think that you do. People are, and forever will be, most attracted to attention above anything else. If she acts like you're the most important guy in the world - the guy she wants more than any other - you're going to want her simply because she wants you. __________________ "I've made only one mistake in my life. But I made it over and over and over. That was saying 'yes' when I meant 'no'. Forgive me."

01-14-2005, 09:27 AM	#7 (permalink)
f6twister Addict	The closest I get is looking at my ex and wondering what I was thinking. Same as yours, not ugly but very playful. Have you considered that your subconscious may be trying to tell you that what you think your type is what your type really is are two different things? __________________ A little rudeness and disrespect can elevate a meaningless interaction to a battle of wills and add drama to an otherwise dull day. Calvin

01-14-2005, 02:10 PM	#12 (permalink)
desal75 Psycho Location: Western New York	Give it a shot, what do you have to lose? __________________ The Man in Black fled across the desert and the Gunslinger followed.

01-13-2005, 05:16 PM	#2 (permalink)
Samalie Tilted Location: Edmonton, Canada	I have an ex-gf thats the same way - would never come close to even being allowed entry into a beauty pagent/etc, is completely not my type (I prefer large breasts, which she lacks, and cannot stomach the "I need to eat a sammich" look, which she has) Yet for some completely unfathomable reason, to this day she still could bring me to full attention, despite my being married to an absolutely wonderful woman who IS my type. I can't explain it, can't rationalize it, but for some truely odd reason I'd love to hit it hard. Only thing I can think of is that she did give me my first blowjob. Mabye its the memory of that. (edited because I cant type or word sentences worth shit tonight)

01-13-2005, 10:23 PM	#5 (permalink)
MSD The sky calls to us ... Super Moderator Location: CT	I know a few like that. Half of the time it's personality, the other half it's pheromones.

01-14-2005, 06:45 AM	#6 (permalink)
Ambient1 Tilted Location: The Hammer	I know exactly what you mean... There was this one girl at the office - very plain looking, although she dressed well. She also had this huge mole on the side of her face (think old hag, not Cindy Crawford). She was not dog ugly, but just barely cute... but for some reason I was totally obsessed with her. Turned out she was one of the most sexually experienced people I have ever known... It's all in the mind and attitude... (phermones too maybe).

01-14-2005, 10:40 AM	#8 (permalink)
Samalie Tilted Location: Edmonton, Canada	Not at all - I know what I like, and normally the flat-chested "I need a sammich" type girl just turns me right off.....but her....oh yes her.....mmmmmmmm..... I wouldn't even want to date her again, even if I was single, nor would there ever be a future with her, but fuck, if I was single, I'd love one good romp in the sheets again, and I have no idea why LOL

01-14-2005, 01:44 PM	#10 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	I feel this way 5 or 6 times a day. My wife and I are so sexually active with each other that I'm revved up so much most days. There are just some women that know how to walk, smile, etc. that draw you in. Just a thought though, you seem to know this girl a bit better than that. Regardless of how she looks, is she someone that you could see yourself with if she were your physical type? I didn't really think my wife was all that hot when we first started dating. Her hair style, taste in clothes and general shyness just didn't attract me, but the way we talked to each other did. Now she is the hottest thing ever in my eyes.

01-14-2005, 01:52 PM	#11 (permalink)
caz Tilted Location: Illinois	Actually I have been in a similar situation . I went to college with a girl that did the same thing for me. Definately not the type of girl that I would normally be attracted to, but I threw caution to the wind and started seeing her. It really didn't last long but it was fun/different while it lasted. Maybe it is worth a try 4 you

01-14-2005, 04:08 PM	#13 (permalink)
cavu Upright	yeah i might give it a shot, i would love to be close with her, she drives me crazy.

01-14-2005, 08:54 PM	#14 (permalink)
rainheart Psycho	I know what you mean, I have this thing for a girl I know. Lately though it's been sort of wearing off, I think I saw something in her which ruined it for me =o which is a shame.

01-14-2005, 11:31 PM	#15 (permalink)
cavu Upright	yeah it sucks when you find somthing that just totally turns you off. I liked this girl for a year, and then i found out more than i wanted to, and now i am sick whenever i see her.

01-17-2005, 01:34 PM	#17 (permalink)
Craven Morehead Custom User Title	I think you should go with it and see where it leads. You're half way there, or more. You can not duplicate what's going on with others, regardless how they look. Try it, you might like it.

01-17-2005, 03:27 PM	#18 (permalink)
drakers Psycho Location: IOWA	Before I met my wife, there was this girl that I just liked being around, not the prettiest and not usually my type. But I liked her, looks are only skin deep.