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Old 05-22-2003, 09:50 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Talking During Sex?

Do you like to talk during sex, or do you prefer it silent? How about music? What kind of music? If you talk, what do you like to hear?
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Old 05-22-2003, 10:51 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Moaning, grunting, and screaming only- No talking except for dirty talking.
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Old 05-22-2003, 11:10 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Depends on the girl. You won't be having a conversation while having sex (at least any kind of conversation that requires a significant amount of brain power; all the blood has gone somewhere else), but music and your traditional noises abound.
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Old 05-23-2003, 12:23 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Old 05-23-2003, 04:38 AM   #5 (permalink)
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No requirements, no taboos. Unless you want to talk baseball scores or something like that. I think I would find that a little distracting.
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Old 05-23-2003, 09:24 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Old 05-23-2003, 10:25 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Honestly, I have never done it with music playing. Maybe ought to give that a try sometime.
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Old 05-23-2003, 01:10 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I personally was never good with music, I get distracted and want to go with the beat or something. But with talking... What Greg said...
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but sometimes my girlfriend really gets off on my describing to her everything I feel. How I feel, the motion in and out, what I can feel inside, what her arms are like, etc.
Is so sexy! I love that. But SUB side of me loves the dirty talk, like being degraded, but that only works with the right person...
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Old 05-23-2003, 10:45 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Living in a dorm, music is a must to drown out the other noises :-)
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Old 05-23-2003, 10:53 PM   #10 (permalink)
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shrug weve done it with music on... no music tv sometimes... once during startrek... lights on lights off usually not too much talking.. .but sometimes there is...it varies everytime...
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Old 05-24-2003, 06:06 AM   #11 (permalink)
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not really much for conversations during sex. we'll say stuff like i love you, and the usual noises, but talking isn't really a good idea, can just distract.

music can be good, but i wouldn't advise techno or "The Prodigy - Smack my Bitch Up". just a thought there :P
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Old 05-24-2003, 03:58 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I love to talk during sex, let the person know how it feels, have them tell me how it feels....
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Old 05-24-2003, 06:33 PM   #13 (permalink)
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I love to talk during sex, let the person know how it feels, have them tell me how it feels....
but then again there are times when words are not needed.......


and the kids are down the hall.
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Old 05-24-2003, 06:51 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Haven't had sex with music on, but there's a great variety of other things going on - noises, talk, and so forth. Nothing's really a requirement, I just hang on and enjoy the ride.
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Old 05-24-2003, 06:52 PM   #15 (permalink)
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It better be really damn dirty, or really damn poetic. Otherwise let the bodies do the talking.
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Old 05-26-2003, 09:33 PM   #16 (permalink)
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My wife really gets off when I talk dirty to her, especially during foreplay. Music is another story. I like soft mood music playing in the background and she finds it too distracting. No other complaints, though!
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Old 05-26-2003, 09:39 PM   #17 (permalink)
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my partner and i saw a therapist who suggested talking more during sex , so i bought my partner a mobile phone.

Actually the problem goes back to the late 60's early 70's my first experiences sexually were done to the backdrop of star trek and now i can't get it right off unless i hear kirk or spocks voice.
weird but true
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Old 05-27-2003, 06:34 AM   #18 (permalink)
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my partner and i saw a therapist who suggested talking more during sex , so i bought my partner a mobile phone.

Actually the problem goes back to the late 60's early 70's my first experiences sexually were done to the backdrop of star trek and now i can't get it right off unless i hear kirk or spocks voice.
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Old 05-27-2003, 06:43 AM   #19 (permalink)
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Dirty little stories are always fun.

Dirty little limericks are also sort of fun, but not in the same way.
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Old 05-28-2003, 10:02 AM   #20 (permalink)
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To me, type o negative, october rust is hands down the best cd to fuck to. Lyrics like "i'll do anything, to make you cum" are just great fun. Tracks 3 and 4 are the best, imo. But then again im "gothic" as is my girlfriend. Other than that...i take it as it goes...*nin closer* thats an amazing song to fuck too also..
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Old 05-28-2003, 11:21 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Yes and no. Depens on the partner and mood and how well I know him/her.. Usually it's just few words like "not yet", "feels good", "that hurts" or "harder!!" or something or dirty talking and BDSM play usually includes "confessing" stuff and taking or giving orders, but with my bf we might talk a lot, just casually. When I am not intrested in sex, I might jerk him off and tell him a story, usually featuring some women we know IRL. I think all our female friends have been gone through several times. :P
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Old 05-28-2003, 03:25 PM   #22 (permalink)
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for us its always different, sometimes its quiet, sometimes its just a lot of moaning and stuff and we have also been known to carry on a full conversation... well once we did
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Old 05-28-2003, 08:26 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Old 05-29-2003, 10:19 PM   #24 (permalink)
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not usually, but sometimes my girlfriend really gets off on my describing to her everything I feel. How I feel, the motion in and out, what I can feel inside, what her arms are like, etc. But normal dirty talk does nothing for me, and nothing for her.

same here. she loved every little description of how it felt.
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Old 05-30-2003, 08:22 AM   #25 (permalink)
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no talk for me just music its what ever the fuck is playing
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Old 05-30-2003, 10:48 AM   #26 (permalink)
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i like some talking..sexy stuff...

usually is mostly me doing it, i wish my bf would do it more, tell me stories and fantasies or comment on porn if that's part of it...

but he says it's 'distracting'.

:shrug:

maybe eventually hopefully...
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Old 05-30-2003, 11:52 AM   #27 (permalink)
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Sometimes I just can't help myself.

If it feels really fucking good I am going to let it be known.

Moaning, talking, screaming, it's ALL good.
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Old 05-31-2003, 10:51 AM   #28 (permalink)
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There you go *Nikki*! That's what I like. Maybe it's just an ego thing, but I like to know that my "work" is appreciated. A little feedback lets you zero in on what she likes, and is sexy as hell!
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Old 05-31-2003, 04:15 PM   #29 (permalink)
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If you're looking for a few laughs during sex, just ask during sex, "Can I pee in your butt?"

It's friggin' hilariuos. lol
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Old 06-01-2003, 09:35 PM   #30 (permalink)
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My girlfirend always laughs when we have sex. And that's regardless of what she's reading at the time.
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Old 06-02-2003, 09:38 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Sometimes I talk during sex...usually just the regular stuff:
Do you take VISA?
I'm sorry, did I wake you up?
Why are you crying?
Will I save money if we stop now?

Just the usual stuff...
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Old 06-04-2003, 08:59 PM   #32 (permalink)
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I'm sorry, did I wake you up?
I too prefer this gentlemanly approach.
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Old 06-04-2003, 10:56 PM   #33 (permalink)
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It could be worse. Instead of "I'm sorry, did I wake you up?", it might not be that great to hear "Oh, was that all?"
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Old 06-05-2003, 07:39 AM   #34 (permalink)
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"Oh, Daddy! Daddy!"

"I forgot to clean the cat box."

"Hurry! Hurry!"

"I love you!" "Let's not spoil it, ok?"

... Come to think of it, I prefer NOT talking during sex.
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Old 06-05-2003, 05:10 PM   #35 (permalink)
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Talk is good. Before during and after. As long as it's about sex and not laundry or children or whatever. Thngs like "Oh, that's good", "harder", "I'm cumming", etc. Always say what you want and what you like.

Turn the TV off, unless it's a porno. And keep the volume down, so you can hear the kids. And never, ever have a sports game on! The kids will tell you who won in the morning.

On the radio, like the morning fuck, country music is good. You can both sing to the love songs while fucking. Time it so the news doesn't come on.
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Old 06-29-2003, 10:46 AM   #36 (permalink)
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I love to talk during sex, let the person know how it feels, have them tell me how it feels....

I would have to agree with you. I love to talk during sex. My husband however is very quiet and never says a thing. I have told him that this bothers me and he is doing better in expressing how things feel during sex.
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Old 06-29-2003, 08:49 PM   #37 (permalink)
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talking depends on the mood.

music depends on whether i have roomates or not!
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Old 06-29-2003, 09:48 PM   #38 (permalink)
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Ya know, I never really thought about it. I guess generally I prefer not to do a whole lot of talking, but we do when its necessary to further the process...
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Old 06-30-2003, 04:52 AM   #39 (permalink)
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My partner has been talking very dirty to me during sex and I'm now beginning to suspect she fakes her orgasms yet I'm too ashamed of having this insecurity to talk to her about it. I have the lowest self-esteem evar. LOL
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Old 06-30-2003, 05:02 AM   #40 (permalink)
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Talking during sex is good. Sometimes we talk dirty, sometimes we have a nice boring conversation while the foreplay is going on.

For us it's sometimes the best time to communicate. The nakedness can get rid of any social inhibitions.
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