Sparhawk

As far as real, honest conversations go: After sex only

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Charlatan

My wife doesn't like to talk or make too much noise during sex. I've asked her to talk dirty but she says she would just laugh.

I had a girlfriend years ago that would always have a great sound track for sex. We had a regular date on Saturday nights and would always end up back at her place having sex to really aggresive music. It was some of the best sex I've ever had.

I was also with a woman who was a real screamer. Her I just felt embarassed with...

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bender

any type of communication during sex is good and the more the better .... much better

Jaiddin

Talkin for me and the wife is a sometimes thing. mostly its along the lines of moanin, "i'm cummin" etc.


g'damn thats funny.

playwitlips

for me and my girl i usually ask her if it feels good and there isnt too much moaning. theres always some music in the background. we've even has sex to where we could watch tv and still fuck at the same time. but we do talk. its wierd. we can talk like we are talking on the phone, asking how our day was and stuff. but usually the talking stops when she is about to cum and then the moaning and the best stuff happen and at this point i usually go right after she does

cheerios

talented, playwitlips! we have to turn the TV off, I get distracted. (shiny things do that for me).

morlock

Noises? Yes. Saying what you want and asking what they want? Yes. Music? Sometimes? What kind? I prefer Techno or something with a quick beat and steady rhythm, fucking to a live dj is way better than just recorded music. But to get into the mood some light r&b jazz or something like that, but during definately techno. if any at all, It's good to hear your girl when she cums.

Sparhawk

Doggystyle + X-Files?

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dawnylou

Well we both still live with our parents. Bummer!

And so we usually play music and try not to make much noise.

But when they are out there is usually a whole lot of moaning and groaning!
Had so much fun over the last 2 weeks as we were on holiday and had a hotel room to ourselves! But the people next door must've hated us! And next week we are housesitting while his parents are away!

Not so bothered about talking though. I'd rather just get down to it! lol!

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isandro

That rocks!
I love giving orders- the most kinky thing I did was masturbating her and ordering her to beg me to fuck her. It was sort of a game where we challenged each other and if I won, we'd have BADASS sex

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Nova_Dust

We don't talk, we just moan and scream. My ex dirty talked a few times.

Lebell

I think woman are more auditory and men more visual. If you want to turn your woman on men, talk dirty -- be specific and give feedback. I for one respond very well to positive feedback and fun dirty talk!

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Nicki---------I Love your pic of Angelina......totally hot!

i8one2

Well lets see,
we talk during sex , listen to music during sex , put on clothing during and talk and take off clothing during sex, use rope and she moans and we have sex , use floggers and she smiles and asks for more, and we have sex, I tickle her with feathers and she laughs out load while having sex. So I guess one day I'll have to try that quite thing, I just don't know when, cause we are just have too much fun talking.

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Spinach_Indeed

Depends on what type of mood were both ends. Sometimes we'll talk dirty, call each other horrible, horrible names. Make fun of each other. Beg, Plead, Act like sluts.

On other occasions, we've been so into each other, and such in a Love high, that we'll make beautiful mood, only interrupted by whispering each others name or the occasional "I love you"

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butthead

My girl often speaks German to me during our really intense sex (she being German). Anyone else like to be spoken to in foreign languages during sex?

iandj777

Talking dirty is a fucking must! The moaning and screaming is really good too. And music is fun as well...I had great sex to "The Downward Spiral" once. I guess that makes me fucked in the head, huh?

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smithja0423

I don't think i've ever had a conversation about how my day at work was, but I'm not going to tell her to shut up either.

motdakasha

(Random tangent)
If the lights are on, I have to close my eyes or face away from my partner. I'm kindasortanotreally like Amelie in the fact that I can't help but think the faces made during sex are funny/strange. I kinda end up staring at his face mesmerized and end up messing up the timing. Heh.

Anyways, sometimes talking in the beginning is okay, but once things start going usually words can no longer be formed.

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collide

It really depends on the mood and my mental state. Sometimes I love talking dirty and being told dirty things, and sometimes I like hearing about how it feels, or whisper little teasers about what I'm going to do, and vice versa.

Then there are times when I just want to talk about religion:

OH GOD! OH GOD! oh GOD!!

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Daddymem

It's all in the mood...music or talking.

"I want to posess you" sex
music:
NIN
Ministry (the industrial stuff)
Lords of Acid
Scooter
Ambiant (of the faster variety)
Drum N Base (of any kind)
120 BPM (if you are really ravenous)

Talk:
"Oh fuck me!"
"Yeah baby, right there"
"Take me!"
"You fucking animal!"
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Romantic, sensous sex
music:
Kitaro
Andreas Vollenweider
Ambaint (of the softer variety)
Depeche Mode
Jazz on the radio

Talk:
"You are my queen"
"You are beautiful"
"Your skin tastes so good"
"Let me gaze into your eyes as waves of orgasm splash over us" (corny but works wonders if timed correct)
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Anytime sex:
Music:
Easy listening on the radio
Coldplay
U2 (Joshua Tree is superb)
Tangerine Dream
Enya
So many others, too many to list

Talk:
"I love you"
"What can I do to make you moan?"
"Come for me."
"God you feel so good, I love what our bodies do together." (again, corny, but timing is everything)

Talk and music can make or break the moment, usually the music can set the mood, and talk can elevate the mood if apllied properly. Sometimes it is absolutely ok to be completely silent, sometimes moans, grunts and groans are in order. Test the waters lightly and go forward with a smile on your face.....


These are just a sampling of Daddymem's bag of tricks....I can't give away all my secrets

jumpingbeans

I make ape sounds

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Buzz

Yea a little talking is good. moaning too... Music why not. Do what feels right for ya... And I would even leave the lights on. Oh yea!!!!!!!!

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Mephisto2

I like talking nasty during sex, but don't do it all the time.

Sometimes my wife asks me to talk nasty to her, other times she wants to be "loving" and romantic.

Different moves for different moods...

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jibs

No talk unless its "yes yes yes!"

Any noises allowed though.

mrquackers

Talking drives my wife wild. She loves to hear me tell her what I'm going to do (as I'm busy working on another area); what I'd like to do; whispering detailed versions of fantasies she has shared into her ear. I'm trying to encourage her to talk the same way a bit more, too. It's an incredible turn-on for us both.

Occasionally, the talk turns into a little role-playing, with one of us being dominant and making the other beg for something - or 'forcing' the other to do something. It makes for some real nice variety!

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vveronica

Talking can be very stimulating depending on what is being said or done. I mean talking thru a BJ is a bit distracting specially if im the one talking... But depending on situation. anything from a "OH yes!" in a soft play to a "Your my little toy.." while bound helpless and gagged, can be very arrousing.

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sbscout

Suvi, my wife does the same thing! After twenty years, we've talked about just about everyone we know. LOL!!

I still consider the time special because she's willing to take care of my needs even when she's not interested.

Sometimes we talk, sometimes we don't. We still have fun.

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tenchi069

there is some talk, but usually not very involved. sometimes end up talking about cartoons, go figure.

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soxsfans

Yup us too Suvi. I feel like I know our female friends much more intemently than they would probably like. Nothing like getting together for a few beer with friends and not having to wonder, but rather knowing.... "she is shaved", "she has a moon/star tatto"... etc.....

Caser

i've done it before and it was pretty cool

i like tlaking dirty to them its the best hah

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galaxygirl

You could ask my neighbors - its mostly moaning, screaming, and sometimes singing (at least that's what i8one2 calls it when I do it). I like it when he talks to me about what he's doing to me. I am usually too far gone to form coherent thoughts, so he's much beter at the talking thing than I am.

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Achernar

Dirty talk and grunting/moaning.

We also like to agree with each other.

A lot.

boober

I don't believe in the BS that you don't talk during sex. You do what you want. We don't have conversations, but we say what we feel, or whatever. We laugh if something funny happens (damned cat), whatever.

Sometimes sex is just sex, but for us a lot of the time sex is experiencing everything about each other.

Meta

I feel awkward talking dirty. I don't really talk dirty on a regular basis, so starting it up just in bed is kind of a weird thing for me, personally. My girlfriend has less of a problem with it, she can be pretty aggressive when she's, ah, riled up. =)

Mostly though it's moaning and, as someone else put it, talking religion. hehe

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