I'm just curious about peoples reaction to this, but I really get off on giving analingus and most women I've been with like it too. I see a lot of "no way" on this thread for fingers/cocks, but how do you devotee's of anal feel about tongues?

There was some serious research I read a few years back (not fluff in Cosmo...) that looked into whether people that had been ejaculated into had better mood than people that had not (i.e were using barrier contraception).

The findings (from memory) indicated that women taken vaginally, and anyone taken anally had more positive feelings about their partner if questioned some hours later compared to anyone fucked using a condom, or withdrawal.

Oddly, satisfaction with the partner was NOT dependent on having had an orgasm.

As I remember it the research initially intended to show that intercourse to internal ejaculation (regardless of other forms of BC) caused the partners to chemically bond.

I have encountered women who confirm that the feeling of their partner ejaculating into them can make them orgasm themselves - and at least one gay guy I used to work with admitted (although it was unsolicited and caused conversation to die that day in the office) that he loved having his bf come up his ass and then spend the morning feeling it inside. A sure case of TMI.... :(

Not a problem to me, as long as it's clean.

like C-L-E-A-N....

CLEEEEEEAAAAN

geddit?

tongue... always a good thing :D one cannot deny that there are nerves there... ;)

and yes, i second the CLEAN part.... ;) I always shower, clean and do the whole bit before i let my husband anywhere near my ass ;)

sweetpea

I love it when he cums in my ass! But you must be careful about not being too forceful when you cum if she's not used to anal.

Ditto for me, too, Sweetpea. :)

YESSSSSSSSSS for me on that one. :crazy: I love the tongue FAR more than the cock when it comes to my ass. (Pun intended :lol: )

Of course it has to be super clean, but we always make sure of that before engaging in any analingus. Damn, it is hot. :crazy:

Oh... tounge... I think the greatest feeling in the whole world is getting oral sex EVERYWHERE.... when all the juice from me and his mouth just run all together down there... I think it's the closest thing to knowing what it's like to have a blow job that there is for a woman :)

Hmmm...

I must have been mis-informed...

I thought that any kind of anal needed condoms, otherwise there was a risk of infections... Can someone clear that up?

To establish my credentials, I am Quality Manager for a Sexual Health products company.

The answer is that yes, it is best to use a barrier for any anal play.

The best rule is "Never put anything into an ass and then into anything else"

If you delve deeper, you find that there are already significant levels of bad bacteria in your mouth and nose, so if you lick someone's ass and then their pussy they probably won't get problems - however to be sure you should wash before and after with a personal hygeine product that includes a bacteriostatic ingredient (like Triclosan). That prevents gut bacteria from establishing in the vagina.

Use of dams is a good way of preventing transmission of gut bacteria into the vagina, but they're not especially sexy.

If you and your partner are clean and STI free the risks from unprotected genital/anal sex or oral/anal sex are reduced. Nothing in life is risk free.

I gotta say, about 2 years ago I think it was, analingus came up in TFP chat and I was less than enthused by the idea. But, now, I feel entirely differently about it! :thumbsup: Lotsa fun and *very* hot ;)

See above. :thumbsup:

Man, this is a pretty good lasting thread.

I'm on to my next girlfriend and so far "No"

Ah well.

My thought that the ass play is taboo and therefore hot, and the fact that it is tighter than the vagina has always been countered by the fact that poo comes out of there, so I don't usually partake in it. :)

This is the best thread evar! I love reading about all the sweet sweet action!

Just bought my wife an E-glass plug that she absolutely loves! It's so hot that she puts it in and in minutes her pussy is just soaking! =D Hot hot hot!

And the tongue in the ass... that too is so very good!

I am glad this thread is up and running again!

Cheers!

What do you mean by "clean and do the whole bit"?

Also, what's the deal with enemas? Are they a requirement before anal intercourse or just a 'nice-to-have' kinda thing?

Um, never done the enema thing. I usually just make sure I've had a recent bowel movement and shower really well before any anal play goes down.

They're just nice to have. An enema cleans up the rectum pretty good, so if one doesn't like getting shit on one's penis then this is an effective method to avoid that. Just make sure that you use lukewarm water though. The use of hot or cold water will feel extremely unpleasant.

Tristan Taormino had something to say about enemas in this column:

Yes. But there are a few women who are actually able to cum without the help of clit stimulation.


Or if you’re feeling bold - start with the guy’s penis. I did so my first time and it was no problem.


Personally I don’t need preparation. Analingus, butt-plugs or fingers are all nice of course but it’s no problem for me to go straight to business - even without lube. Depends on the girl, really. It’s best to ask the girl in question what she prefers.


Loverboy always comes in my ass and I love it because I can feel his ejection when he does. The feeling is enough to make me cum, actually.

I haven't given my two cents on the cumming in the ass part...

Back when I was a little anal virgin, when Martel and I were shagging like rabbits but I wasn't quite sure what I should be doing with his Magnificent Cocktm and my bum, I asked a gay friend of my exactaly how, indeed, the deed was done. After instructing me on the finer points of anal play, he said "And don't let him cum up your ass- it makes a terrible mess."

Well, guys and gals, I don't know if (because he was a man and all and their bums are always terribly loud and messy at least once a day) he just had bum issues or what, but I've never expierenced this "terrible mess" after semen in rectum. There has been terrible messes *during* the act, including one mess that I just do *not* want to repeat (fortunately Martel loves me enough to discount things that come out of my ass, and I love him enough to discount forceful vomiting all over the bathroom- ain't love grand?)

Semen in Rectum (sounds latin, doesn't it?) = VERY YES. Quite intimate and lovely, least for me :)

wooo! first post of page 4!! I = very AWESOME!!!

sounds like you were the victim of santorum, with all credit to Dan Savage. :D

Ditto for me, Sage. I love when he cums in my ass, and it's really not that messy.
:thumbsup:

heh.. the wife and I have had anal a few times.. and she loves it. She cums quicker than any other position.. and for all you guys who are sying "I dont get it.. it just another tight hole" you're wrong... if you havent guessed by this thread, there are nerves up there that are akin to the GSpot in the vagina. While not scientifically proven, many women have stronger orgasms with anal..

sometime when you're with your goin' down on a lady friend.. stick your finger up her ass .. (which ever way you wanna, a little lube.. a glove, hell even a condom on your finger.. whatever makes it ok with you) and I guarantee that while you may get an initial "ewww .. you wanna what" .. that after the fact they'll be like "OMG .. that was great!!"

don't knock it just because youre afraid of what she ate yesterday .. because any discrete couple will have the sense to be at least semi hygenically reasonable. If it ends up as more than you expected.. there's always the shower and more creative ideas.

My current girlfriend and I did it last night and she didn't exactly enjoy it. We tried it when we both had sex (on all fours) and when I was going down on her. She didn't like it near as much as I did.

LAter that night (after um... 17 vodka shots or so) we pulled out the small vibrator that we have and we used it on me and it got me off really strongly. It was a mess when I finished.

I doubt I could convince her to actually have anal sex with me, but I think I'd enjoy doing things with myself while we're having sex.

This thread should never be allowed to lay dormant more than 24 hours.

I agree!!! :thumbsup:

Hmmm...but what can we add to it that hasn't already been said???

I LOVE ANAL SEX!!!!!!!!

:D

wish my gf liked anal and oral...

I love anal sex and I think I might be obsessed
because I want to have anal sex all the time.
Nothing in the world like it.
It makes my orgasms that much more mind-blowing.
I love the feeling of being full down there.
Having something up my ass gives me some
of my intense orgasms.
I own 8 anal toys of various shapes and sizes,
and use them quite often.
Like all sex, anal is something where practice makes perfect.
Starting out alone with lube, fingers and/or a small butt plug
can be a good way to learn to relax the muscles.
I find that the more you do it, the more you become aware
of the "how-to" and the pleasures it can bring.

my gf wants to try anal, is there any prep involved?

zxello- go back a few pages in this thread, I posted lots of info on that subject. Also, there's a myriad of advice books on how to have anal sex (aimed at heterosexual couples).

Yes, it requires prep work!!