Woohoo! Anal baby!
 

Well, I didn't necessarily have anal sex tonight, but fingering's a good start for me. One of my long time dreams came true tonight on the floor of my girlfriend's house. It was great. I suspect anal sex is out of the question but there's really not much like sliding a finger into a girl's ass for the first time. :cool:

Cheery-o, mates. :D

keep the dream alive man keep it alive

Was it good for her?? What did she say about it?? :) alot of us gals like it . . . it can feel really good, plus has that 'god, i am so naughty' factor ;)

anal is super amazing for us gals if we relax a little and let go . . . hubby and i just did our first full on anal sex two days ago . . . it was amazing to feel a cock, not just fingers in my ass, it had so much sensation and i came two times really hard, wanting to do it again already . . . :crazy: How old are you? I am 23, it took hubby a while to work on talking me into it . . . but ohmygod, so glad we tried it . . . i am a convert. :thumbsup:

that's something i'm not willing to do.

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when I read the header to this thread I thought at first there had been a breakthrough in childbearing technology- seriously though take it slow and easy and she might just like it a whole lot- too fast or rough and she might break your jaw....

:lol: :thumbsup:

She kind of danced around whether it was good or not. She said it felt good and that it was different. She wasn't all hard core into it or anything, but it's something I see us doing again in the future.

So far I followed everyone's advice about going nice and slow and it's been good so far, so that's not something I'll change.

I love slipping a finger or two in the ass when I'm down on a girl... I had a girl beg for my cock there after she felt fingers for the first time :)

Your husband must be a really happy man.

Since she begged did you oblige and let her indulge in her anal desires?

Warmest congratulations, Sweet Pea. I'm just electrified that another woman has found delight in anal pleasures. There's something so erotic (and naughty) about the round cheeks of a woman's bum. I'd love to watch my sausage slide between them, but lo, my wife wouldn't want to be so kinky.

I agree with doncalypso. Your husband is a lucky man. And you are a lucky woman. Some don't like it, some never try it, etc.

My wife is so against this, there really isn't any reason for me to even think about it. I don't know if that means I am missing out or ?

Yeah, i think he is :D lol I am a lucky woman to have him too . . . It's the best to be married to your best friend and Fuck buddy . . . :crazy:

Naw, not missing out . . . If she isn't into it, it wouldn't be any good anyway. Good sex is still good sex however you're doing it, anal is just another position, so don't feel bad my friend.

Yeah, i think that is just it, i am glad that i finally tried it, it just took a little leap of perv. of my part ;) lol But yeah, i do feel lucky, nothing has ever made me cum so hard :D :crazy: (pity your wife isn't into it)
I believe Allot of woman are against it because they have a preconcieved idea that it is somehow wrong or immoral or something, alot of my friends think that, but couples have been doing it since Egyptian times and it was completely acceptable . . . IMHO, i think it's really just another sex position that happens to be very tight and feel really good. :thumbsup:

oh yeah...... if you slip a wet finger into my ass when eating my pussy,and if you groan at the same time, i will come very hard in your mouth. do this a few times, it will make any girl want to get fucked anally...

My wife used to be totally against it, but after some time thought about it more and decided to try it. We did fingers at first, but eventually she wanted my cock in there, and ended up liking it much more than the fingers, and much more than she thought she would. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. :)

Yeah at first it was totaly out of the question when my girlfriend and I talked about kinky things. But when i slip her a finger when shes really excited it drives her wild...(or so i interpret)...mabey one day shell open up a bit wider ;)

My fuck buddy loves it, but I prefer normal sex. When you want to get favors from them, you just gotta give it to them in the butt.

That's the way my girlfriend is, if I am eating some pussy and she is getting really wound up I'll slip one of my fingers in her butt and she loves it. But if she is not that way she'll stop and give me a hard time about it. Kind of funny.

Yes..same here! I started "practicing" with small dildos, and about two weeks ago, anal sex, on my knees, whole cock!!! :thumbsup: :D :crazy: OH MY!!! I had the longest, most intense orgasm I've had in a loooooooong time!!! And my husband totally loves it! :icare: :D

ladies, when u came during anal that was with clit stimilus right?

"BOY! What did you Eat?"

Ohhhh, not Anal Baby. Anal, Baby.

Nevermind.

Me and my wife have anal sex in a blue moon. Maybe once a year, she says it hurts a lot the next day, which is completely understandable. But when we do it, man is it great.

I have a problem with putting my dick where a girl shits from, i guess thats just me

Does she enjoy it when you do it? If she at least somewhat enjoys it, maybe she'd be willing to practice more with small dildos. I'm telling you, it really helps! Then maybe she'll get to where it isn't so painful anymore, but much more enjoyable.

Forgive me now but I just don't get it, what's the big deal with anal sex? I tried it a couple of times, sure it was a bit tighter and stuff but the thought of what the hole I was stiking my Jolly Soldier in is for, makes the idea a real turnoff for me.

Anyways, Cudos to you, watever get's your rocks of as long as it is consentual and legal. Best is to take it step by step and not rush things.. Try to rouse her interest in it aswell not just saying that you want to. Fingering is a good start, just don't push the subject too much and you might just have a chance.

She enjoys it already, but she just doesn't like to do it often because she doesn't like how it feels the next day. We do have some vibrators to enhance our sex life, but no dildos. Hmmmm....maybe I should look into that, thanx squirtxxx!!! I bet you have fun with your hubby or boyfriend!

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My wife and I only tries it once during the time we've been married. When we did it, my cock had a hard time getting in there. Not enough lube. We havent discussed it again since. I'd like to try again but honestly, don't know how to ask.

/Arch13 falls out of his chair laughing.

Thank you for that.

As far as i'm conserned, my cock nor fingers will ever enter another human beings rectum. If we're going to go hardcore, I want only the pink. If she isn't willing to do that, then fine - I can wait untill she is. Truthfully, i'm disgusted anybody could hold so much pride in sticking their fingers in somebodys shitter.

It does feel a litle uncomfortable at first, but the more often you do it, the less of a problem it becomes.

Also, if you're thinking of getting some sort of sex toys to enhance the experience, that's a great idea. But do be sure that you get toys specifically for anal, don't get a regualr sized dildo, a small butt plug would be great. :)

Thanks for the tips, onodrim, I'll look into that the next time she is in the mood for anal.

Oh yes...definitely start with small dildos/vibrators. I've gone from a very small 3 1/2" or so vibrator, to my 5 1/2", to my 7 1/2". And my husband's full cock, of course. Very nice. :)

This sounds exactlly like my wife...it was about a month ago when we had our first time for Anal sex...tho i had to let her that i enjoy it also...

anal sex can be so exciting! my boyfriend and i introduced it into our relationship a little over a year ago, and i couldn't be happier. it's true though - you either hate it or you love it. in our case, we love it, and it really opened up a new aspect to our bedroom lives.

projectself, glad to see you exploring your sexuality! That is awesome! :thumbsup:

Wow, keep climbing xxSquirtxx, I want to know when you hit the 1 foot mark!! HEHE

My girlfriend and I have been having anal sex more or less regularly for over three years now... It's an activity we definitely partake in when she is on her period and is horny.

She gets much stronger orgasms through anal than vaginal sex.

LOL Drakers. Funny story....Anal sex is now my current obsession - all anal, all the time! Well, not exactly, but close. ;) Anyway, somehow my husband and I got to talking about anal sex (big surprise), and he asked me if I'd tried "Big Red" yet. I said yes. He said, "Really? Did you like it?" I nodded and smiled. He then said, "Man, I'd like to see that!" It was then I realized he was talking about the BIG "Big Red" dildo I have. I actually have two red ones, one kind of large (for me), and another monster one. HE was talking about the monster one :eek:, and I was talking about the not-so-monster one. :thumbsup: He was allllll excited thinking about me using that other one anally. I promptly told him to stay the hell away from me with that thing! :eek:

hey man . . don't be kocking what you haven't tried :p . . . and if it isn't your thing . . . then fine . . . no need to be disgusted about others finding pleasure in their sex lives . . . 45 percent of married couples do it on a weekly basis . . . just a little bit of triva on what you find so "disgusting" :D

hahahah Squirt . . . that is hysterical . . . one of the issues with having multiple sex toys . . . mistaken identity comes with the territory ;) :lol:

Glad you are an anal convert . . . it's amazing once you really get into it! :thumbsup:

It was quite funny, and you should have seen him working his ass off to convince me that "yeah, I bet you could do it..." Uh, no, I don't think so. It's one of those HUGE ones. The kind that practically takes two people to use.

hahahahaha, that made me laugh out loud Squirt . . . well . . . i can see how that might pose a problem , you'd need like two guys to help handle it :P I don't blame you . . . there are some that are just too big for anal play . . . But god, i bet he was just wishing that you meant the big one . . . :lol:

He most certainly was. He was getting hard just thinking about it after I told him "yes," when I thought he meant the other one. Crazy guy.
:crazy:

Here's a suggestion...

Have your husband penetrate you anally while you squat down over "Big Red" and take it vaginally. That way you can experience double penetration without having to add another man into the mix. Who knows, you might like the sensation.

We do DP frequently with him and my other toys. Indeed, it is a wonderful feeling. :thumbsup:

Man, I didn't know you had to work up to it most of the time... but then again, my g/f is into pain it seems. She found my bottle of KY (for y'know "self purposes") and started to tease me about it, then I was like "You know what we could do with that?" So, she agreed... and we hit the ground runnin. I felt bad when she started crying, but she insisted I keep going - so being that I'm a sick freak and kind of enjoy that anyhow, I did. That was 6 months ago, we've been doin it a few times weekly since then. God I love my girlfriend... well and anal sex, but that goes without saying! :thumbsup:

That was a funny story xxSquirtxx....you have too many toys to keep track of!!! HAHA

Resurrection... this thread is now back to life.

Can't you get banned for resurrecting old threads like this?

Anywho, LPM and I discovered anal sex one time over a year ago, when she was on her period. As typically happens with us, when she's on her period, she's incredibly horny. And I'm horny all the time. The resulting fact is that once we tried anal the first time, and she had mindblowing clitorally stimulated orgasms from her toys, neither of us could get enough anal! There was a period of time where I was pluggin her in the butt 3-4 times a week for over a month. It got so bad that we were scared one of us might get infected somehow.

Anyway, anal sex is absolutely wonderful. We haven't had it in a long, long time. But now that I think about it, I don't see any reasons why we shouldn't. :D

My bf and I tried anal for the first time last week, and I could use some feedback from you guys. I enjoy his fingers in my ass and I kept thinking, "I want his cock in there!", so I finally told him. I think he was a bit excited. :D

We have a strap-on set, since I told him I wouldn't do anal unless I did it on him first... :) So he used the smallest dildo, then the bigger one, and then finally his cock (all at my own pace)... and while his dick went in much smoother than I expected, prob from the gradual stretching and his gentleness, I found that I didn't enjoy the thrusting very much. He was going quite slow, and I tried to relax as much as possible... but somehow it still didn't feel fantastic going in and out.

Does anyone have suggestions for how to make it more enjoyable? I don't believe that you either love it or you don't, since pretty much anyone's likes/dislikes are culturally/socially programmed. Anyone should be able to love it, I figure, as technically there shouldn't be anything painful about it, right? We used lots of lube... but I found that it hurt a bit more at the top of the thrust when the head of his dick would bump into the inside of my butt hole. We tried it again a week later and it still hurt a bit... not excruciating, but after a short while I really wanted him to finish fast so that he could get it out of my ass.

He is very patient and says we don't have to do it if it doesn't feel good, but I WANT it to feel good! So, any tips??

Abaya - what position(s) were you in when doing anal? Perhaps you need to find the position that is the most pleasurable. For me, that's on my knees - ass up, head down. What about clitoral stimulation? That really helps to "loosen" you up. And tell him not to pull out so far as to make his head bump you where you don't want it to. It may take a bit of practice before he can go all the way in as well.

Oh, practice on yourself with your bigger dildos when you can. That will keep you nice and stretched out just enough so that when he enters you, it will be more comfortable (hopefully!). And besides that, it's fun. :D

Thanks Squirt. I was in the same position as you, though maybe a bit flatter on my stomach. I also had a bullet/egg vibe going on my clit to help me relax, too... it did help, but the batteries got low on the second time so it lost some usefulness there. I did tell him to not pull out too far, but I could still feel it. I guess we just need to practice.

Maybe I will try the bigger dildoes... but I feel like it might be hard to reach around and get everything positioned by myself. It was easy when he was sliding them in since he can see everything back there, but do you use a mirror or just sit down on it, or... ?

Well, admittedly it's much easier to reach around with the smaller toys; however, as they get bigger, it can become a bit more challenging - depending on the position, I suppose. With the large one, I get on my knees, torso upright, and basically squat down on it.

My wife and I started into this about a year ago. It was something that I had always wanted to do, so up until that point we made jokes and "poked" fun at the subject. Then one night we decided to try it. It was amazing. Still is. She really enjoys the thrusting, begs for it harder and faster. Drives me nuts. And like most women the orgasms are much much better. At least in the sense that it is a different sensation while climaxing.

She too likes the dp. Right now she likes it doggy style with me in her pussy and one of our toys in her ass. There is no stop to her moaning when we are doing that. I love that woman.

Also found out that she likes to watch porn... and her fav is Anal! Double score!

Cheers! And cheers to all the ladies of TFP that love the anal action! Your men love you for it!

I admit that I gravitate toward anal porn. ;)

God bless you! ;)

Marry me....

:D

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I'll fight you for her :cool:

O.O I <3 Anal O.O

I'll fight you both :)

My GF hates anal (when we talk about it) but when we do it, (she alows me) she goes harder, faster, deeper etc..
I honestly dont know if she likes it or not.

My wife isn't all that into it. Occasionally we do it and she cums really hard, but I think it is the preconvieved notion of the whole thing. Catholics feel guilt for just about everything.

She likes it... just too squeamish to admit it to herself.

I've recently discoverd that my SO cums a whole lot harder if i stick my finger in her ass just when she starts cumming... I just hope this will open some "doors" in the future, and I'm glad that I'm making her feel. "Damn good" in her words...

Ooo....maybe it's time to buy a small toy and introduce that into your sex play. :thumbsup:

How much do you cost? ;)

LMAO

Totally unexpected response, there, Tres. :lol:

i tried anal with my girl last year and it was extremely unpleasant for me the first time then we kept trying and even bought lube the second time she really enjoyed it but it was still uncomfortable for her but even more so for me but the third time she finally relaxed and let it happen when she relaxed it made it all the more pleasureable for me

My wife and I did anal about 4 years ago, was, and still is, kind of a turn on for me. She asks for it every now and then. I don't think it would be as much of a turn on if it were an every time thing, I like the pink a lot, but sure is a great change now and then.

You should've used more lube.

I don't see how anal could be unpleasant for a guy unless you end up with a load of feces on your dick. Trust me, nothing beats the pleasure of cumming inside a hot tight ass.

The girlfriend's going to be in town in a few days so we might try it then, I'm pretty stoked. I'll be back later with stories, though she's not here for another 10 days or so.

Man, it still makes me laugh every time I see this thread title.

Okay, I am calling up this thread from the dead...

Ktspktsp and I tried anal again on Saturday, and I finally enjoyed it!!! :D

We tried it twice last spring, but both times felt very uncomfortable and almost painful. I was trying very hard to relax but just couldn't do it... even though he started with fingers, then moved to dildoes, then dick... with lots of lube... but it was still too much for me.

We tried it again sometime in December, when I was drunk... :lol: and damn, I was so relaxed that we didn't even need to progress through the dildoes. He put in his cock and I could actually take it, though I was't enjoying it yet. At least I could tolerate it. This happened again a couple of weeks ago when I was feeling particularly relaxed and lazy... wanted to let him try again. It wasn't uncomfortable at all, and him giving me a good vibrator helped me stay relaxed.

Finally, last weekend we tried it again, and this time he warmed me up with a very productive hand reaching around to my clit (I was on my stomach). He kept this going the whole time, and though it was slightly uncomfortable at first (as usual), I relaxed as he kept working his hand and the dick. I thought I was going to cum just from the manual stimulation alone... it was so intense that I didn't care which hole his dick was in. It felt GOOD. :thumbsup: I was so glad to finally be able to enjoy full-on anal... it has taken a long time to get myself used to it!!

Now, I wouldn't say I'll be begging for it daily, since I just like to be fucked vaginally most of the time. But now that anal doesn't hurt and might even feel good (as long as he keeps up the excellent manual work) :icare: I feel more comfortable about trying it once in a while. :)

Woot! :D Good for you two :)

I highly sing the prasies of anal sex... it *can* be very enjoyable if done right... and as you noted Abaya... being relaxed IS the key to having fun with it and loving it...
Trust me, once you get used to it and don't even tense up a little bit... you'll be able to have him put his whole dick in without much warm up at all...

It's on the menu for my sex life, and although i don't order it every day, it's certainly something i'm up for say every three weeks or so... and hubby is Thrilled everytime i say, wanna try anal tonight baby?! ;)

Congrats for being brave enough to explore your sexuality, i hope more women follow in your footsteps... focus on relaxing and go for it when the mood strikes you and trust me... you'll have the most intense orgasms of your life :crazy:

thanks for sharing your experiences :icare:

:)

sweetpea

One thing you should keep in mind is that if it hurts her, over time it can cause tears and rips in that area. You don't want those issues when you're older.

That being said, I used to have anal sex like everyday for three months. It was amazing, but I think I'm "anal-ed" out.

I wish .. my g/f gets all squirmy

*sigh*

Every time I see this thread, I want anal sex.

every time i see this msg, i wish my gf liked anal sex.

Every time I see this thread, I wish my girlfriend who loves anal wasn't across the Atlantic...

Three more weeks and I'm home for good :D

sigh...every time I read this thread I want to have anal with xxxSquirt even more...sigh

And every time I see this thread I crack up. It should read "Anal, baby!" "Anal baby," is something else again.

I know! Ever since you brought that up initially, I also laugh when I read the thread title. Commas make all the difference. :lol:

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I don't mean to fall too far off topic, but I have a related question:

What kind of preparation (besides having plenty of lube close at hand) is required before doing the actual anal deed?

Oh, i can answer that question! Lots of foreplay (not just anal foreplay)- make sure she's screamin hot for you. Lots of fingering around the anus, rubbing it gently, that sort of thing. COMMUNICATION during the ENTIRE "finger near anus" time is very important, because if she says something hurts or is uncomfortable you must STOP. You can hurt some stuff majorly back there! Now, when it comes to actually putting your penis inside her, take a dollop of lube, put it right on her anus (having her bend over doggystyle is what works best for me), rub it around the anus and a little bit inside. Take another dollop of lube (about... coffee bean sized, too much isn't good, too little isn't good) put it on your penis, and rub it allll over- head, shaft, everything. Then, press the head of your penis against her anus.

It's important that during this time you TALK a lot about what's going on- she needs to be relaxed- I *love* rubbing my clit and my tits at this time, it takes the edge off of the initial insertion. GO SLOW. Listen to what she's saying and what she's not saying- is she pressing her body against you, or pulling it away? Once you get the head of your penis inside you're pretty much past the most difficult part. From there, just go slow, letting her take the reins as far as how fast you should slide in and out- always making sure you listen to her feedback. And throwing in a couple of "Oh, baby, your ass feels so good I want to take you to a nice romantic dinner this weekend to thank you for this" doesn't hurt either!

There's also a slew of books on the subject of anal play- I really like the Good Vibrations website - check out their Sex Guide Books - there's lots of books on anal play as well as other fun stuff.

Also, I highly recommend The Guide To Getting It ON! by Paul Johannes. Best sexuallity book I've EVER read, covers everything, is fun and witty and has some *great* illustrations. :)

^ Thanks for the info Sage. Great links too :thumbsup:

I love anal sex. My wife is not into it. She just dosent like it but me on the other hand. I enjoy for her to finger me my ass If gert so good but she dosent like doing that either says its gross. Im just glad for toys

Ply her with alcohol.

No, I'm not kidding.

The alcohol will help her to relax, which is sooo important that first time. Subsequent times she can learn to control her own relaxation response, but that first time it's hard to have control over it.

I disagree- I think that the not relaxing comes from not having enough info about what to do while the act is going on. The more you're informed, the better you are at knowing what to expect. It used to hurt for me- not really hurt but sometimes it stang a little bit. Instead of tensing up, I realized that if Martel would just stop and let his penis rest inside me it would stop hurting after a few seconds.

Arm yourself with knowledge- it works wonders!

oh, and the booze thing is not recommended- you need to be in full control of your senses when you have anal sex because you can really seriously do some damage if you thrust too hard- and that can be hard to realize when you're drunk!

The idea isn't to get totally wasted. The idea is to have a glass of wine or two--enough to relax without effort. You're still in control of your senses, but the relaxation response is easier to achieve. Obviously, he wants to be sober or close to it.

Just take it easy--that's the biggest piece of advice to adhere to. Go slow and let her tell you what she is comfortable with.

I realize that is funny on your counterstrike board, but its not appreciated here.

Strange question, but do most of you cum inside when you are doing anal? Just wondering if it is a bad feeling for the girl, and when it comes out. We're thinking about doing the whole anal thing, but want to get all the info before we switch from fingers to me. Wife is a little nervous, but the more she knows, the more comfortable it is. She loves the finger up there when she is getting ready to orgasm, so we think she'll like it when I'm in there.

I vote for a little alcohol as a relaxant... seriously. The first time I semi-enjoyed anal sex (instead of just tolerating it) was when I was pretty tipsy. My bf had gotten me pretty relaxed with his fingers and tongue, but having the chemical relaxation in effect is what made me decide to go ahead and try it again. It worked!

As for pppg's question... well, I have only had my bf cum in my ass once, and it's not a bad feeling. In fact, I hardly felt it at all, since I believe the ass has less sensitivity than the vagina (nerve-wise). Usually I enjoy feeling him cum, but this time I hardly noticed.

I was worried afterwards, however, that when I stood up the semen might seep into my vaginal opening (they are pretty darn close together, after all), so I wasn't as comfortable with that aspect of it. I am on BC but we use condoms when he cums inside my vagina, so there is very little danger of getting pregnant in that instance. We just don't like taking chances with that stuff at this point.

Well, some people like it and some don't. It really depends on the individual as far as cumming during anal.

One thing that happens is that the cock gets really hard before orgasm... which can be slightly uncomfortable during anal for some people, which it is for me and because i tend to tense up ... I like it when my husband cums during anal... BUT i have him stop thrusting and just hold still while he's cumming and that feels very nice :)

sweetpea