Whats your go on Dirty Talk - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

xim · 01-03-2005, 02:15 PM

Is there anyone (girls especially) who are NOT turned on by this? Is this a universal turn on or more of a fetish for some people?

Bawn · 01-03-2005, 03:18 PM

xim, only 3 people have taken the poll.

bubbagump · 01-03-2005, 04:29 PM

Definitely a plus

Val_1 · 01-03-2005, 04:57 PM

I'm a guy. I like it when a girl does dirty talk. A big turn on. But, I usually hold back on doing it myself. I'm always afraid I'll say the wrong thing and ... blamo .... the action's over.

Psycho Dad · 01-03-2005, 05:29 PM

Fuck me, suck me. Make love to me. I like my women just a little on the trashy side. In bed though. I'd think it not best if she cussed like a drunken sailor in general conversation.

Sweetpea · 01-03-2005, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Psycho Dad

Fuck me, suck me. Make love to me. I like my women just a little on the trashy side. In bed though. I'd think it not best if she cussed like a drunken sailor in general conversation.

What is it that they say . . . " every man wants a lady in the street, whore in the bedroom"

Most seemingly sweet woman have a naughty side waiting to get out when they feel comfortable with their guy (or gal).

I think that applies to me . . . i am a phsyical therapy assistent by day and somewhat conservative . . . by night, dirty talking wife. It adds a little spice and passion when you get home and see your hubby and say "god baby, you make me so damn hot . . . fuck my pussy right here" etc. As far as dirty talk, everything goes with me . . . it makes me hot.

bbbbbb555 · 01-03-2005, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Val_1

I'm a guy. I like it when a girl does dirty talk. A big turn on. But, I usually hold back on doing it myself. I'm always afraid I'll say the wrong thing and ... blamo .... the action's over.

i am the same way. i like to hear it, and sometimes i try it, but sometimes it is not so good. i think it might take some more practice.

maleficent · 01-03-2005, 06:46 PM

Dirty talk makes me laugh...

impulse03 · 01-03-2005, 07:01 PM

eh, i voted im a guy and i like dirty talk.
even though it doesnt happen often, its always fun and seems to enhance the situation.

skinnymofo · 01-03-2005, 08:37 PM

i enjoy a little dirty talk but, i cannot bring myself to do it, its just so tacky (when i picture myself doing it). or like even tying up i have wonderful ideas and when it comes down to it.. i just cant keep a straight face

Maleigh99 · 01-03-2005, 09:05 PM

I dig the dirty talk. I said something once and didn't know how well it went. I was really in the moment. Since then I've held back. It would be an amazing turn on to hear it though.

xim · 01-04-2005, 12:42 AM

It seems kinda awkward to me too..... but in all honesty not any more awkward than talking to a random girl to get her number.

It seems like if I just DO either of those enough times, they would eventually become comfortable.

Rlyss · 01-04-2005, 12:47 AM

I'm a guy and it makes me a bit uncomfortable. I can never really do it myself, I think I sound lame or I'll say something and she'll stop and say 'What the fuck? You're insane!' or something like that.

I find it hard to take it seriously in the heat of the moment. I know it's not supposed to be too serious, it's all in good fun, but I find it awkward and ruins it for me.

Nancy · 01-04-2005, 01:16 AM

I love dirty talk. Loverboy's usually the one doing all the talking as I'm usually too busy moaning/screaming, heh.

Loverboy's fond of dirty talk as well but not nearly as much as I am. There are, however, cetain sentences/words that gets him off almost instantly and the same goes for me.

slimshaydee · 01-04-2005, 01:22 AM

I'm not a big fan of dirty talk myself. There's been instances in the past where girls have got a little too much into the dirty talk and I've started laughing and it's kinda killed the moment. Generally steer clear of it nowadays.

NatureBoy · 01-04-2005, 01:54 AM

I like the thought of dirty talk. Knowing that the female half of the romp is enjoying it makes it so much better. However, I don't think I could do it myself. I conjure up a scenario where my better half and I try it, but both realize that we don't know how to do it ...

Rinndalir · 01-04-2005, 10:05 AM

I used to feel dumb doing it till I met my wife, she is quite the talker in bed. She got me into doing it and now I don't have a problem with it. None of my exes were really into it but now I can't imagine sex without it.

The first time she yelled out FUCK ME OH GOD FUCK ME HARDER I blew right then and there. I still can't last much longer when she starts it up, its totally hot

Charlatan · 01-04-2005, 10:07 AM

Some dirty talk is good... if it is over done it becomes too forced and it can ruin the mood...

Hanabal · 01-04-2005, 11:30 AM

my gf loves it, and she gets pretty hot espeicailly when it really hits the gutter.

i like it too but unfortunately she keeps not having the guts to do it

Bill O'Rights · 01-04-2005, 11:45 AM

It worked very well with some girls that I've known/had in the past, but on Mrs. O'Rights...it just wouldn't sound right. Ah well...more's the pity.

xim · 01-04-2005, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by xim

It seems like if I just DO either of those enough times, they would eventually become comfortable.

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Originally Posted by Rinndalir

I used to feel dumb doing it till I met my wife, she is quite the talker in bed. She got me into doing it and now I don't have a problem with it. None of my exes were really into it but now I can't imagine sex without it.

My point exactly

xxSquirtxx · 01-04-2005, 04:43 PM

I like it. Hearing it and/or saying it.

zombie_sympathi · 01-05-2005, 12:11 AM

i'm too shy to do it, and i would feel weird hearing it. it sounds dorky to me. as in, it would make me feel like a dork, and make me laugh, or something.

Suave · 01-05-2005, 12:19 AM

I can't answer the poll, because I am horrifically bad at dirty talk. It's not a question of whether or not I like it, so much as that I can't actually DO it (without at least one person doubling over in laughter).

Jonsgirl · 01-05-2005, 12:04 PM

You didn't have an option for "I'm a girl and I'm aboutely crazy about dirty talk. In fact, I talk dirty to myself. Will you please talk dirty to me now?"

snowy · 01-05-2005, 12:05 PM

I like making surprising revelations in bed that are slightly dirty. Example: the other night, while going down on my partner, I stopped to nuzzle his very pointy hipbone and reveal, "God, I love your hipbones. They're my favorite part of your body." I've revealed before that I enjoy the way he tastes (that one got quite a response!) and touching his skin is a major turn-on for me (he has a lot of issues with his skin). He's not the most secure of men so I think revealing things like the above make him more comfortable in bed with me while being a little racy. I've yet to bust out the full on dirty talk because he is such a shy guy...but I wouldn't be surprised to find out it's one of his turn-ons.

Batski · 01-05-2005, 01:17 PM

I'm a girl and to me dirty talk is natural......

bad jane · 01-05-2005, 01:44 PM

love it. my partner is not against it, but it just isn't something that he thinks to try when in the moment. he's very loving, so he's more likely to tell me i'm beautiful than say he wants to fuck me senseless. i'm working on him though

Catmandu · 01-05-2005, 01:52 PM

If the conservative Mrs. Cat were to start uttering a bunch of "do me"s, I would either laugh or go into shock. The most I get is "oooh, a little to the left". And that's OK by me. I'll leave the other stuff to the porno folks.

IowaEric · 01-06-2005, 08:03 AM

I love dirty talking. I feel more comfortable saying whatever dirty thoughts are on my mind out loud than I do having intercourse and not talking at all. I love it when women talk dirty as well. Unfortunately, my Gf doesn't do too much of this, although she has come around a bit lately.

SiNai · 01-06-2005, 08:45 AM

I love dirty talk.. when I'm being talked to. Can't seem to do it myself, when I do, I usually end up breaking into laughter, ending my sentences with "..or.. err.."; I'm just not smooth like that. While having sex/making out/etc. I would rather not be required to make any noise, it's just the way I'm programmed, I'm just quiet in bed. Love to hear that I'm doing something good out of the girl, though!

Carno · 01-06-2005, 08:57 AM

I love dirty talk! I think I'm pretty damn good at it too

killeena · 01-06-2005, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by skinnymofo

i enjoy a little dirty talk but, i cannot bring myself to do it, its just so tacky (when i picture myself doing it). or like even tying up i have wonderful ideas and when it comes down to it.. i just cant keep a straight face

I am the same way. My girlfriend wants me to talk dirty, and sometimes I try, but a lot if times I feel just silly doing it. I am probably more afraid of saying the wrong thing than anything else. Sometimes she will even give suggestions on what to say, but then if I do say it, I feel like I am only saying it because that is what she suggested, and comes out awkward. I suppose it will just take some practice.

Batski · 01-08-2005, 12:07 PM

well - some of you are worried about saying the wrong thing..... maybe I could just chip in with a very practical suggestion:that "I love your.......... its so hot/sexy/gorgeous." could never be "wrong". And that's a good start, complimenting/ enthusing is a great intro.
I would BTW love to hear the dirty talk that has made you giggle...

hunnychile · 01-11-2005, 06:13 PM

I love it both ways! It can really be a turn on when done with class...

degrawj · 01-12-2005, 11:11 AM

I'm kind of surprised that there is such a majority of guys that liked dirty talk. I didn't realize it was THAT much of a majority. Maybe I have just had some bad experiences, but dirty talk doesn't really turn me on that much.

joofoo · 01-12-2005, 04:52 PM

My wife will talk like a dirty old sailor while were in bed, and then when not in bed she speaks like the angel that she is. It works for me, and us in general.

vvveronica · 01-13-2005, 09:15 AM

I have to agree with maleficent unless it is done just right with the right guy in the right situation it is funny to hear a guy saying stuff he would never regularily say.

Zephyr66 · 01-13-2005, 03:01 PM

Talking dirty just sounds rediculous to me, i cant understand why anyone would be into it.

Cervantes · 01-13-2005, 10:00 PM

I think dirty talk can be very fun and exiting but done wrong it's among the top ten turnoffs there is.

View Poll Results: Do you like dirty talk?
I am a guy and I like dirty talk.	172	72.57%
I am a guy and I dont like dirty talk.	25	10.55%
I am a girl and I like dirty talk.	34	14.35%
I am a girl and I dont like dirty talk.	6	2.53%
Voters: 237. You may not vote on this poll

01-03-2005, 02:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
xim Insane Location: One with the Universe	Whats your go on Dirty Talk Is there anyone (girls especially) who are NOT turned on by this? Is this a universal turn on or more of a fetish for some people? __________________ If I could be anyone in the world I would be Britney Spears. Shes in so many commercials about pepsi... www.ximcity.com

01-03-2005, 04:29 PM	#3 (permalink)
bubbagump Tilted	Definitely a plus __________________ s3x p1z

01-03-2005, 04:57 PM	#4 (permalink)
Val_1 Addict Location: In a State of Denial	I'm a guy. I like it when a girl does dirty talk. A big turn on. But, I usually hold back on doing it myself. I'm always afraid I'll say the wrong thing and ... blamo .... the action's over. __________________ I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day. -Frank Sinatra

01-03-2005, 05:29 PM	#5 (permalink)
Psycho Dad Mulletproof Location: Some nucking fut house.	Fuck me, suck me. Make love to me. I like my women just a little on the trashy side. In bed though. I'd think it not best if she cussed like a drunken sailor in general conversation. __________________ Don't always trust the opinions of experts.

01-03-2005, 03:18 PM	#2 (permalink)
Bawn Banned	xim, only 3 people have taken the poll.

01-03-2005, 06:46 PM	#8 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	Dirty talk makes me laugh... __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

01-03-2005, 07:01 PM	#9 (permalink)
impulse03 Crazy	eh, i voted im a guy and i like dirty talk. even though it doesnt happen often, its always fun and seems to enhance the situation.

01-03-2005, 08:37 PM	#10 (permalink)
skinnymofo Addict ed to smack Location: Seattle	i enjoy a little dirty talk but, i cannot bring myself to do it, its just so tacky (when i picture myself doing it). or like even tying up i have wonderful ideas and when it comes down to it.. i just cant keep a straight face

01-03-2005, 09:05 PM	#11 (permalink)
Maleigh99 Upright Location: Texas	I dig the dirty talk. I said something once and didn't know how well it went. I was really in the moment. Since then I've held back. It would be an amazing turn on to hear it though.

01-04-2005, 12:42 AM	#12 (permalink)
xim Insane Location: One with the Universe	It seems kinda awkward to me too..... but in all honesty not any more awkward than talking to a random girl to get her number. It seems like if I just DO either of those enough times, they would eventually become comfortable. __________________ If I could be anyone in the world I would be Britney Spears. Shes in so many commercials about pepsi... www.ximcity.com

01-04-2005, 12:47 AM	#13 (permalink)
Rlyss The Pusher Location: Edinburgh	I'm a guy and it makes me a bit uncomfortable. I can never really do it myself, I think I sound lame or I'll say something and she'll stop and say 'What the fuck? You're insane!' or something like that. I find it hard to take it seriously in the heat of the moment. I know it's not supposed to be too serious, it's all in good fun, but I find it awkward and ruins it for me.

01-04-2005, 01:16 AM	#14 (permalink)
Nancy Femme Fatale Location: Elysium	I love dirty talk. Loverboy's usually the one doing all the talking as I'm usually too busy moaning/screaming, heh. Loverboy's fond of dirty talk as well but not nearly as much as I am. There are, however, cetain sentences/words that gets him off almost instantly and the same goes for me. __________________ I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.

01-04-2005, 01:22 AM	#15 (permalink)
slimshaydee If you've read this, PM me and say so Location: Sitting on my ass, and you?	I'm not a big fan of dirty talk myself. There's been instances in the past where girls have got a little too much into the dirty talk and I've started laughing and it's kinda killed the moment. Generally steer clear of it nowadays.

01-04-2005, 01:54 AM	#16 (permalink)
NatureBoy Crazy	I like the thought of dirty talk. Knowing that the female half of the romp is enjoying it makes it so much better. However, I don't think I could do it myself. I conjure up a scenario where my better half and I try it, but both realize that we don't know how to do it ...

01-04-2005, 10:05 AM	#17 (permalink)
Rinndalir Insane	I used to feel dumb doing it till I met my wife, she is quite the talker in bed. She got me into doing it and now I don't have a problem with it. None of my exes were really into it but now I can't imagine sex without it. The first time she yelled out FUCK ME OH GOD FUCK ME HARDER I blew right then and there. I still can't last much longer when she starts it up, its totally hot

01-04-2005, 10:07 AM	#18 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	Some dirty talk is good... if it is over done it becomes too forced and it can ruin the mood... __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

01-04-2005, 11:30 AM	#19 (permalink)
Hanabal Insane Location: Auckland	my gf loves it, and she gets pretty hot espeicailly when it really hits the gutter. i like it too but unfortunately she keeps not having the guts to do it __________________ I am Hanabal, Phear my elephants

01-04-2005, 11:45 AM	#20 (permalink)
Bill O'Rights will always be an Alyson Hanniganite Location: In the dust of the archives	It worked very well with some girls that I've known/had in the past, but on Mrs. O'Rights...it just wouldn't sound right. Ah well...more's the pity. __________________ "I distrust those people who know so well what God wants them to do because I notice it always coincides with their own desires." - Susan B. Anthony "Hedonism with rules isn't hedonism at all, it's the Republican party." - JumpinJesus It is indisputable that true beauty lies within...but a nice rack sure doesn't hurt.

01-04-2005, 04:43 PM	#22 (permalink)
xxSquirtxx More anal, less shenanigans Location: Always lurking	I like it. Hearing it and/or saying it. __________________ .

01-05-2005, 12:11 AM	#23 (permalink)
zombie_sympathi Upright Location: AR	i'm too shy to do it, and i would feel weird hearing it. it sounds dorky to me. as in, it would make me feel like a dork, and make me laugh, or something.

01-05-2005, 12:19 AM	#24 (permalink)
Suave Twitterpated Location: My own little world (also Canada)	I can't answer the poll, because I am horrifically bad at dirty talk. It's not a question of whether or not I like it, so much as that I can't actually DO it (without at least one person doubling over in laughter). __________________ "Few people are capable of expressing with equanimity opinions which differ from the prejudices of their social environment. Most people are even incapable of forming such opinions." - Albert Einstein "Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something." - Plato

01-05-2005, 12:04 PM	#25 (permalink)
Jonsgirl Semi-Atomic Location: Home.	You didn't have an option for "I'm a girl and I'm aboutely crazy about dirty talk. In fact, I talk dirty to myself. Will you please talk dirty to me now?" __________________ Someday, someone will best me. But it won't be today, and it won't be you.

01-05-2005, 12:05 PM	#26 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	I like making surprising revelations in bed that are slightly dirty. Example: the other night, while going down on my partner, I stopped to nuzzle his very pointy hipbone and reveal, "God, I love your hipbones. They're my favorite part of your body." I've revealed before that I enjoy the way he tastes (that one got quite a response!) and touching his skin is a major turn-on for me (he has a lot of issues with his skin). He's not the most secure of men so I think revealing things like the above make him more comfortable in bed with me while being a little racy. I've yet to bust out the full on dirty talk because he is such a shy guy...but I wouldn't be surprised to find out it's one of his turn-ons. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

01-05-2005, 01:17 PM	#27 (permalink)
Batski Tilted Location: LOndon	I'm a girl and to me dirty talk is natural......

01-05-2005, 01:44 PM	#28 (permalink)
bad jane Insane	love it. my partner is not against it, but it just isn't something that he thinks to try when in the moment. he's very loving, so he's more likely to tell me i'm beautiful than say he wants to fuck me senseless. i'm working on him though

01-05-2005, 01:52 PM	#29 (permalink)
Catmandu Insane Location: Seattle	If the conservative Mrs. Cat were to start uttering a bunch of "do me"s, I would either laugh or go into shock. The most I get is "oooh, a little to the left". And that's OK by me. I'll leave the other stuff to the porno folks.

01-06-2005, 08:03 AM	#30 (permalink)
IowaEric Tilted Location: You'd never guess..	I love dirty talking. I feel more comfortable saying whatever dirty thoughts are on my mind out loud than I do having intercourse and not talking at all. I love it when women talk dirty as well. Unfortunately, my Gf doesn't do too much of this, although she has come around a bit lately.

01-06-2005, 08:45 AM	#31 (permalink)
SiNai Dreams In Digital Location: Iowa	I love dirty talk.. when I'm being talked to. Can't seem to do it myself, when I do, I usually end up breaking into laughter, ending my sentences with "..or.. err.."; I'm just not smooth like that. While having sex/making out/etc. I would rather not be required to make any noise, it's just the way I'm programmed, I'm just quiet in bed. Love to hear that I'm doing something good out of the girl, though! __________________ I can't seem to remember now What it was like- to live life, before you.. symbiont

01-06-2005, 08:57 AM	#32 (permalink)
Carno Junkie	I love dirty talk! I think I'm pretty damn good at it too

01-08-2005, 12:07 PM	#34 (permalink)
Batski Tilted Location: LOndon	well - some of you are worried about saying the wrong thing..... maybe I could just chip in with a very practical suggestion:that "I love your.......... its so hot/sexy/gorgeous." could never be "wrong". And that's a good start, complimenting/ enthusing is a great intro. I would BTW love to hear the dirty talk that has made you giggle...

01-11-2005, 06:13 PM	#35 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	I love it both ways! It can really be a turn on when done with class... __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB

01-12-2005, 11:11 AM	#36 (permalink)
degrawj I'm still waiting... Location: West Linn, OR	I'm kind of surprised that there is such a majority of guys that liked dirty talk. I didn't realize it was THAT much of a majority. Maybe I have just had some bad experiences, but dirty talk doesn't really turn me on that much.

01-12-2005, 04:52 PM	#37 (permalink)
joofoo Just A Guy Location: Kansas City, Missouri	My wife will talk like a dirty old sailor while were in bed, and then when not in bed she speaks like the angel that she is. It works for me, and us in general. __________________ - joofoo

01-13-2005, 09:15 AM	#38 (permalink)
vvveronica Upright Location: From Arizona but stuck in Northern California	I have to agree with maleficent unless it is done just right with the right guy in the right situation it is funny to hear a guy saying stuff he would never regularily say.