Whats your go on Dirty Talk
 

Is there anyone (girls especially) who are NOT turned on by this? Is this a universal turn on or more of a fetish for some people?

xim, only 3 people have taken the poll.

Definitely a plus

I'm a guy. I like it when a girl does dirty talk. A big turn on. But, I usually hold back on doing it myself. I'm always afraid I'll say the wrong thing and ... blamo .... the action's over.

Fuck me, suck me. Make love to me. I like my women just a little on the trashy side. In bed though. I'd think it not best if she cussed like a drunken sailor in general conversation.

What is it that they say . . . " every man wants a lady in the street, whore in the bedroom" :) Most seemingly sweet woman have a naughty side waiting to get out when they feel comfortable with their guy (or gal).

I think that applies to me . . . i am a phsyical therapy assistent by day and somewhat conservative . . . by night, dirty talking wife. It adds a little spice and passion when you get home and see your hubby and say "god baby, you make me so damn hot . . . fuck my pussy right here" etc. As far as dirty talk, everything goes with me . . . it makes me hot. :crazy:

i am the same way. i like to hear it, and sometimes i try it, but sometimes it is not so good. i think it might take some more practice.

Dirty talk makes me laugh...

eh, i voted im a guy and i like dirty talk.
even though it doesnt happen often, its always fun and seems to enhance the situation.

i enjoy a little dirty talk but, i cannot bring myself to do it, its just so tacky (when i picture myself doing it). or like even tying up i have wonderful ideas and when it comes down to it.. i just cant keep a straight face

I dig the dirty talk. I said something once and didn't know how well it went. I was really in the moment. Since then I've held back. It would be an amazing turn on to hear it though.

It seems kinda awkward to me too..... but in all honesty not any more awkward than talking to a random girl to get her number.

It seems like if I just DO either of those enough times, they would eventually become comfortable.

I'm a guy and it makes me a bit uncomfortable. I can never really do it myself, I think I sound lame or I'll say something and she'll stop and say 'What the fuck? You're insane!' or something like that.

I find it hard to take it seriously in the heat of the moment. I know it's not supposed to be too serious, it's all in good fun, but I find it awkward and ruins it for me.

I love dirty talk. Loverboy's usually the one doing all the talking as I'm usually too busy moaning/screaming, heh.

Loverboy's fond of dirty talk as well but not nearly as much as I am. There are, however, cetain sentences/words that gets him off almost instantly and the same goes for me.

I'm not a big fan of dirty talk myself. There's been instances in the past where girls have got a little too much into the dirty talk and I've started laughing and it's kinda killed the moment. Generally steer clear of it nowadays.

I like the thought of dirty talk. Knowing that the female half of the romp is enjoying it makes it so much better. However, I don't think I could do it myself. I conjure up a scenario where my better half and I try it, but both realize that we don't know how to do it ...

I used to feel dumb doing it till I met my wife, she is quite the talker in bed. She got me into doing it and now I don't have a problem with it. None of my exes were really into it but now I can't imagine sex without it.

The first time she yelled out FUCK ME OH GOD FUCK ME HARDER I blew right then and there. I still can't last much longer when she starts it up, its totally hot

Some dirty talk is good... if it is over done it becomes too forced and it can ruin the mood...

my gf loves it, and she gets pretty hot espeicailly when it really hits the gutter.

i like it too but unfortunately she keeps not having the guts to do it

It worked very well with some girls that I've known/had in the past, but on Mrs. O'Rights...it just wouldn't sound right. Ah well...more's the pity.

My point exactly

I like it. Hearing it and/or saying it.

i'm too shy to do it, and i would feel weird hearing it. it sounds dorky to me. as in, it would make me feel like a dork, and make me laugh, or something.

I can't answer the poll, because I am horrifically bad at dirty talk. It's not a question of whether or not I like it, so much as that I can't actually DO it (without at least one person doubling over in laughter).

You didn't have an option for "I'm a girl and I'm aboutely crazy about dirty talk. In fact, I talk dirty to myself. Will you please talk dirty to me now?" :(

I like making surprising revelations in bed that are slightly dirty. Example: the other night, while going down on my partner, I stopped to nuzzle his very pointy hipbone and reveal, "God, I love your hipbones. They're my favorite part of your body." I've revealed before that I enjoy the way he tastes (that one got quite a response!) and touching his skin is a major turn-on for me (he has a lot of issues with his skin). He's not the most secure of men so I think revealing things like the above make him more comfortable in bed with me while being a little racy. I've yet to bust out the full on dirty talk because he is such a shy guy...but I wouldn't be surprised to find out it's one of his turn-ons.

I'm a girl and to me dirty talk is natural......

love it. my partner is not against it, but it just isn't something that he thinks to try when in the moment. he's very loving, so he's more likely to tell me i'm beautiful than say he wants to fuck me senseless. i'm working on him though ;)

If the conservative Mrs. Cat were to start uttering a bunch of "do me"s, I would either laugh or go into shock. The most I get is "oooh, a little to the left". And that's OK by me. I'll leave the other stuff to the porno folks.

I love dirty talking. I feel more comfortable saying whatever dirty thoughts are on my mind out loud than I do having intercourse and not talking at all. I love it when women talk dirty as well. Unfortunately, my Gf doesn't do too much of this, although she has come around a bit lately.

I love dirty talk.. when I'm being talked to. Can't seem to do it myself, when I do, I usually end up breaking into laughter, ending my sentences with "..or.. err.."; I'm just not smooth like that. While having sex/making out/etc. I would rather not be required to make any noise, it's just the way I'm programmed, I'm just quiet in bed. Love to hear that I'm doing something good out of the girl, though!

I love dirty talk! I think I'm pretty damn good at it too ;):D

I am the same way. My girlfriend wants me to talk dirty, and sometimes I try, but a lot if times I feel just silly doing it. I am probably more afraid of saying the wrong thing than anything else. Sometimes she will even give suggestions on what to say, but then if I do say it, I feel like I am only saying it because that is what she suggested, and comes out awkward. I suppose it will just take some practice.

well - some of you are worried about saying the wrong thing..... maybe I could just chip in with a very practical suggestion:that "I love your.......... its so hot/sexy/gorgeous." could never be "wrong". And that's a good start, complimenting/ enthusing is a great intro.
I would BTW love to hear the dirty talk that has made you giggle...

I love it both ways! It can really be a turn on when done with class...

I'm kind of surprised that there is such a majority of guys that liked dirty talk. I didn't realize it was THAT much of a majority. Maybe I have just had some bad experiences, but dirty talk doesn't really turn me on that much.

My wife will talk like a dirty old sailor while were in bed, and then when not in bed she speaks like the angel that she is. It works for me, and us in general. :)

I have to agree with maleficent unless it is done just right with the right guy in the right situation it is funny to hear a guy saying stuff he would never regularily say.

Talking dirty just sounds rediculous to me, i cant understand why anyone would be into it.

I think dirty talk can be very fun and exiting but done wrong it's among the top ten turnoffs there is.

It used to make me laugh, too. Laugh like crazy. But I think it was the way things were said, or the timing. I dunno.

My hunny now though is definitely gettin' the hang of it... it really turns me on. I wish he'd talk dirty to me a bit more often. :nod:

I love it when I hear my wife say things during sex, it is such a turn-on.

Love to hear a girl talk dirty to me,but not really into talking dirty myself. Only when I notice that the girl really gets turned on by it, I surely wouldn't mind telling her to suck it a little harder... Once met a girl who really turned into a pornstar when I talked dirty to her. Boy, did we had fun!!
She really loved sucking cock, but always waited untill I told her "put it in your mouth baby" , after that she blew me like crazy.

I'm female and I like dirty talk when it's done right. If i'm just starting to kiss a guy and get into some foreplay, i'm probably going to smack him if he says "baby there's nothing more i want right now then to cum in your ass you dirty little whore"... :|

Everyone has limits and there's a right time/place for certain things to be said. Once you know them, i'm fair game for dirty talk! :thumbsup:

Thanks fallenangel, that HAD to be said.

Dirty. Talk. Good. :thumbsup:

Smack that ass!

God, I LOVE dirty talk! And my new guy loves it too (and so far does it incredibly well...can't wait to get him in the bedroom). Quiet lovemaking is boring lovemaking.

dirty talk just makes me so wet. hearing verbally, what is wanting to be dont to me, or what i am wanting to do... its just such a huge turn on. especially when you get into "kinky" dirty talk.

I like dirty talk, but not phrases like "Who's your daddy?" and the like.
And I only like hearing it, and not responding. I have to focus during sex.

My girl is very sweat and proper. Everyone loves here and thinks she is the sweatest thing around. What they dont know is how she likes to talk when we have sex. She does not hold anything back and it is such a turn on.

I like it, I talk dirty sometimes. But sometimes I feel silly. Wherever the mood takes me... I also like hearing dirty talk occasionally too, but only at the right moments.

Edit: Just out of curiosity, what do you all SAY exactly? I don't like the "Who's your daddy?" stuff either, but words like fuck, suck and variations work well for me. I also like adjectives like slippery, wet, hot, etc.

My girl prefers to moan, but I love to run my mouth. It's usually nothing too graphic or commanding/demanding (that would be insulting because thats not our thing) but I love to tell her how it feels and what I like. It would be awkward if during sex we were quiet. You could say I add the porno dialouge to sex :)

dirty talk in another language = hot. so hot.

I think it's interesting that the majority of people who don't like to do it themselves are afraid of "fucking it up." Dirty talk, like everything else, just requires practice. And it requires the right mindset. If you go into it all timid, you're going to end up sounding like a total jackass - just like you're afraid of. If, however, you give yourself over to it, and you do it right, there are very few people who won't be impressed by it. It all has to be done right.



Also, there's a difference between "Baby, I want nothing more right now than to pleasure you like there's no tomorrow" and "I wanna fuck your ass till it bleeds, you dirty whore." Just be tasteful about it and it works. Trust me.

I Found the Poll interesting in this sense... it did not differentiate between giving or receiving dirty talk... Here is my point...

I am guy who does not like to "GIVE" dirty talk... somehow It just doesn't work for me even though I am not offended etc. BUT.. when My Lady talks dirty...WHOA NELLY! Open the flood gates Eunice cuz my raft is heading down the river!!!!

Lucky for me My lady gives it ocaisionally... just enough for it to be special.. and I really enjoy it. I like the fact that she knows how it works... and that she uses it to bring me along. OH YEAH!

When you're in a long-distance relationship, sometimes that's all you have to keep things going....

I speak from experience, although you should ask majik_6's opinion, too