Koochy

Hi there! Long time reader, first time poster :D. I have a question about kissing!

What are the types of kisses and what are some techniques to be used with them?

Some that come to mind: A peck, a passionate kiss, french kiss etc! Just a mere example of what would happen in each of those is all I seek. How would you seperate a passionate kiss from a french tongue kiss? Lust from romance? Peck from a thank you kiss! Etc :D!

I'm not too bad with with kissing (my newly aquired g/f seems to enjoy it) but I still wish to suprise her in moments of passion! After being seperated for about 3 weeks, I want to sweep her off her feet with a passionate kiss when we reunite!. Kissing isn't all mouth obviously, so hand placement and body language is a must.

I did a quick search on kissing techniques and found this thread here (post #9 being a perfect example of things to try) which was good, but I just wanted some more info on each and every other type of kiss.

Thank in advance you wonderful TFP people you <3.

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Rlyss

I've always liked upside down kissing, meaning one person lies on their back or their side, sort of like top-to-tail, but with the faces lining up, and then kissing like that. I've always loved doing that. I think they did that in Spiderman too.

monkeysugar

It's really just all about body language and context. However, starting from the mild and working up to the wild.....I'm kinda tired, so bear in mind I may be talking out my ass.

Peck: about like it sounds...like a bird pecking at something. Short, sweet, to the point, and no slobberage.

Thank You: On the cheek or on the lips. Sometimes elsewhere, but that's best saved for a different thread . Tends to last a little longer than a peck, you might get some saliva on you.

French Kiss: Tongue is involved. Slobber is as well, to some extent.

Romantic or lusty kisses are different because well....there's a difference between lust and romance. Romantic kisses are....romantic, and lusty kisses are....lusty. Sorry I didn't explain that one too much, it's just kind of one of those things that just happens when the time is right. (and if the time isn't right, you're likely to have to polish your ass kissing techniques) If you start kissing and feel a serious mutual "do me now" vibe, that's a fair indication you are experiencing a lusty kiss.

In all honesty, the best kisses aren't the ones that are planned out in advance. They just happen. Good luck and have fun!

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Koochy

Ahh, thats the info I needed. I keep telling myself to stop planning these things! It's just a habit I guess.. stewing in my own juices with this distance between us.

I'll just forget about it for now until I see her again. Shes anxious to be back with me and the same as me with her. I'm sure it'll all just happen in a mutual understanding of one anothers feelings.

Thank you <3.

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snowy

Kissing is just one of those things where you develop the skill over time...unless you're one of the few to be gifted from the beginning. So just keep doing it, keep changing it up...and put your hands on her face and draw her in...and you'll be fine.

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bad jane

oooohhh, i love when my partner puts his hands on my face and draws me in for a kiss! particularly if he maintains eye contact while he does it...

i love kissing, but i'd have to say my all-time favorite is being kissed on my forehead. not a quick peck, a soft kiss that lingers for just a moment. there is just something about it that makes me feel loved and comforted. prolly not what you were looking for since it's not really sexual, but it's a great kiss imo!

Val_1

I'm a big fan of this, too. It can lead to upside down mutual nipple licking, which is a blast as well.

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monkeysugar

Glad I can be of service. Another thing on the planned out airport kiss thing. My girlfriend's family lives in Japan, and I live in Washington (not DC). I understand all too well what you're going through with having distance between you. When she comes back from visiting her family over semester break, I've learned from experience that after 12-20 hours of being in airports and airplanes, the first thing she wants to do is use the restroom, followed by a big hug and a nice little kiss. Her opinion of airports is not the highest after she has dealt with them all day, so the last thing she wants to do is make out by the baggage claims.

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ibis

I might be alone on this, but I really think the most passionate kisses don't involve lots of tounge. Instead, try making the kiss a whole body affair.

If your standing:
Like the above poster mentioned, I LOVE to use my hands while kissing. I will place my palm somewhat under her jaw with my fingers just below the ear... that way I can draw her into me with my fingertips. I like to gentley touch lips and massage where her lips would touch, if her mouth was closed, with my tounge. (make sure you lick your lips slightly before kissing) While we're kissing I will stroke her cheek with my thumb. With my free hand I lightly touch the small of her back (some times I will move my hand to her hip to draw her into me... this is usually when it gets a little steamier).

If your lying down (male on top):
I like the same as above where it comes to the actuall kiss. Where it differs is with the hands. A line from a John Mayer song always comes to mind... something like: "I'll never let your head hit the bed, without my hand behind it". If you're on top, hold her like she's precious to you when you kiss. One hand behind the head and one either behind her shoulder blades or under the small of her back.

One bit of advice: Woman usually have smaller mouths then men do. What's comfortable for you will most likley not be that comfortable for her. Follow her lead when it comes to how far open your mouth is.

Take it slow, kissing is not a tounge-lap-race. Usually, the slower the better.

Make sure you're not drooling on her. I salavate (sp?) quite a bit and have to be carefull abou this, especially when I'm on top.

In between breaths, it's nice to tell her how you feel about her or say things like "you smell wonderfull", "you're so beautiful", I've missed you so much"...

Most of all, enjoy yourself.

[posting this really makes me wish I had someone to kiss in 40 minutes for newyears... ]

ibis

Quite true, I usually experience this as the feeling in your stomach that's like hunger when you're not hungry.

It's a wonderfull feeling.

Koochy

Oh thats freaking sweet!

The hand on the face and small of back thing is how I'd have imagined a passionate kiss (an example). I've done this before, but never with enough feeling for it to be passionate. Come to think of it, I've always rushed kissing! I'd like to think she hasn't taken this badly though.. shes usually the first to move in closer and lose the clothing. I think now, I want to slow down and learn more about her passionately (heh, sounds pretty feminine in my case :p).

We've been together for a month now and have only been with one another 3 times. Overall, we've spent more time together in bed (not sexing) than we have just being a couple! This was because of me having to leave to move home for about a month. I guess she wanted as much as she could (physically from me) to last her over our time apart, heh.

This time apart has been a great oppurtunity for a lot of thinking about how I'm treating this relationship and how to improve on it when I get back with her.

Thanks again people! :D

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