brusus

Hi alltogether,
I have a simple question to ask all of you who did ever buy some sextoys like handcuffs or buttplugs together with your bf/gf:

What do you do with them when you break up? I mean, I don't actually know If women have a problem with some sort of 'used' toys when they come together someone...

davidc209

Toss 'em! Toss all of them. You think your next girlfriend will want something up her ass that you and your LAST girlfriend used? Besides, part of the fun is actually BUYING these toys together. Throw away the old stuff and get new stuff with your next girl.

mac03

I concur. Toss 'em out. Buy some new ones. The new person might have some differnt tastes.

radioguy

toss them out. then take your new girl to the store to buy her some "toys"

f6twister

About the only thing worth keeping is something not covered in any bodily fluids. You may be able to save the cuffs, depending on how you used them. Otherwise, throw them out and start a new collection with your next girlfriend.

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SecretMethod70

well, if they're silicon then they're able to be sterilized, so I'd keep 'em. Otherwise I'd get rid of them, or just leave them with the ex.

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AquaFox

keep them for yourself, if you clean them very well your next girl doesn't exactly need to know where they been before... i wouldn't really show them to the next girl unless i knew for sure she would like them

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Boo

Put them on top of your asshat neighbors (or ex's) can on trash day.

Drop them into a fish tank at a bar.

Melt them down in an old pan and post it on the internet.

Plant them in someones garden.

One word .... geocaching.

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moonstrucksoul

now that was fucking funny.

as for the question: who cares! I just lost my marriage, do you think i care about what I'm going to do with a dildo?.

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bing bing

HAHA i'd like to see the journal entry

"Removed used 5 inch purple buttplug"

Bobaphat

I would say, depends on who they were used by. If the were something she used, then let her keep em. If you used em on you, you keep em. Don't try to bring them into play with a new girl. That is just a bad idea.

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Sue

I realize now that I have no desire to use any toy my ex and I ever had together. Glad they're left back up in New England!

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bermuDa

I think a girl is going to wonder where her new boyfriend got so many sex toys... and why they all smell like ass...

get rid of them one way or another

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snowy

Get rid of them if they were communal. Ew.

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gh0ti

I went through this during my big breakup. We ended up tossing them. In the grand scheme of things they are pretty damn cheap. Do you really want old memories associated with the sex toys you’re using on your current lover?

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brusus

k thanks for that much reply - basicly my idea was to toss them. which was not that wrong

fhqwhgads

Depends on how the union broke up.

If it was bitter, then wait for a few months and deliver them to the door of her new boyfriend. Tell him that she "left some things over at the house", and that you knew she'd want them back. If she's not dating yet, drop them off at her office. I'm sure that she'd appreciate the gesture.

Then again, I'm a romantic.

Jim Kata

You can always make sure they were nice and clean and one day be like "surprise...look what I bought for you!" and then base your whole relationship on lies.

Toshuno

Well the people who lived in my flat before myself decided that they would just leave them in a chest of drawers for me to find upon moving in. Not sure why. But its always an option

Powderedmaggot

I'd toss them or better yet take some of your ex's old clothes down to the salvation army in a bag with a few sex toys wrapped up in them. The people sorting clothes will get a good laugh.

Redlemon

Don't do that.

Please.

I'm sure they have enough to worry about with dirty clothes, and now you want them to wonder what STD they accidentally picked up because some jerk donated a hidden sex toy?

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Cimarron29414

Well, let me put it to you this way:

When you break up with someone, do you throw your dick away? No!?! But it was used in a sex act with another person!!! Wash them off and use them with the new person. If they can accept your penis after it was used before, they can accept a sex toy. The end.

SecretMethod70

So long as it's a toy made of a material that can be sterilized such as silicon.

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onodrim

I would say anything that can't be sterilized (such as jelly toys) should definently be tossed. The rest is up to you really, if you are still comfortable using them with someone else and you think they would be okay with it too, then go ahead and keep them. If you don't think you could use them with someone else without it being kinda weird, then toss them.

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Craven Morehead

FedEx them to her at her place of employment

DelayedReaction

I'd sterilize them, turn it into some kind of modern art, and Ebay it.

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bad jane

as a girl, i think i'd be a bit grossed out by a partner using the same toys with me that he used with an ex. why? beats the hell out of me...i've shared toys with friends and had no probs with it (with proper cleaning of course). but something about sharing them with a guys ex just feels creepy to me.

however i always keep the toys after a split and i've enjoyed them with new partners. i guess i'm a hypocrite

MSD

Don't throw them out. Now you have an excuse to build a potato gun.

SecretMethod70

damn, some nice friends you have!

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bad jane

well, i do more lending than borrowing lol toys can get expensive if you want to try a lot--i've invested a small fortune in my collection. if you have the chance to try before you buy, i'm all for it! it's not like you can return it or resell it if you don't enjoy it.

Cimarron29414

I agree that it is fine to share these toys. My wife gave one that she didn't like to a friend for the same reasons that you listed. Of course, I am not going to loan my hand out to my friend. If he doesn't like his hand, tough shit. He is stuck with them. I think I can say with great certainty that I do not know a single guy that would tell his friends he even had sex toys - much less ask to borrow a friend's sex toy. Of the sex toys (for men) that I have tried, they are all pretty disappointing.

kutulu

I'd love to do that to the new bf. That would be so funny.

wally

Donate them at Goodwill or the Salvation Army

Just kidding- I'd say toss them.

Mephisto2

What about your dick?

I'm certainly not going to get rid of that little puppy!


Mr Mephisto

franzelneekburm

For some reason that's hot. I have no idea why.

fhqwhgads

Little puppy, Mr. M? Come on, brag a little!

jillian

my last serious boyfriend bought me tons of dongs and vibes and plugs... he took em all... i was pissed... i managed to hide a few from him so it wasnt a complete loss

brusus

ehm he bought YOU some toy and after breakup he took them back?! this calls for revenge,)

freeload

Cracked med up!

Toss 'em away (or try eBay..."Slightly used XXL butplug" )- buying them is half the fun...

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cameroncrazy822

Use the hand cuffs on her so it will make easier when throwing her lifeless body in the truck.