Whatever you do, get that girl on birth control! If you are already to second/third base, then sex is just around the corner. It takes a complete cycle(month) ON the pill before they become effective. So, get her on them now so you won't have to worry about that when it's time to boink.

Obligatory: Birth Control Pills do not protect against STD's.

if your g/f lives in the dorms at college, that could have something to do with her period not being on shedule. when a bunch of girls live togehter for a long period (no pun intended) of time, then thier bodies will try and sync up, causeing periods to be early or late (mine suprised me once, so i know)

You need to do yourselves a favor and get some sex education before engaging in any more of this play. You don't know what you're doing or how anything works, and that IS how 'accidents' happen.
My mind is just boggled by your lack of knowledge in this area.

Damn.
Why can't women buy a goddamn pregnancy test before the words "I think I might Be..." come out of their mouths. They cost like 10 bucks & can detect before a period is late.
Just as a footnote to the men out there stressed out about a possible pregnancy...a woman can miss an occasional period for no reason, especially when young.
Everyone buy a test & keep it under the bathroom sink...please...

Just for next time, cramps and bloating also happen to be sypmtoms of PMS. which can last untill you get your period.

I second the posts above.

Does your girlfriend know you discussed this with strangers on the internet?

Most likely she is just really stressed, because one of my wife's girlfriends was late by more than a month and it might have been as long as 2 months. She was very very stressed from school, so my guess is that your girlfriend is just stressed because I doubt she is pregnant from fingering.

Mental note: Never shake this guy's hand.

i read this thread but still have to ask.

just before my girlfriend came home i masturbated....and it was messy and all over my
hands. I washed my hands with water ...but no soap. Now if i fingered my girfriend after that (say after 5 minutes) ...can she get pregnant also she had her first day of period last week 18th.

also what are the chances...also by when does the morning after pill have to be taken latest...should i even think about that.... what if we wait a month, what are the options then...we both really freaked out. Should we be worrying. We both do not have intercourse and dont plan to also. Please help losing sleep

well the period happened before the fingering. also the last day of period was 21st.
Fingering happened on th 24th. By the math i think we are in the clear but she and i are
both worried. If any concrete ways to find out and also prevent it from happeneing,
please tell me.

You are in the clear:

1. Your SO probably does not ovulate 3 days after her period ends.... more like 10-15.

2. You washed your hands with water. Many towns and cities put small amounts of flouride in tap water to keep the kiddies teeth from rotting out of their heads. Flouride is a mild acid, it would kill the sperm. Even if it didn't, they would most likely be flushed down the drain.

3. The vagina is actually a rather hostile environment for sperm. If the Ph is off or any sort of bacteria is present, they're gonna bite the dust. This is why so many sperm are released at once, but it only takes 1 to fertilize an egg.

4. Sperm aren't a real fan of open air. Give them a few minutes like 1-2 and they die.