fpgt91

Well, this girl that I'm with is simply put amazing in bed. She's everything I could have asked for the only problem is I can't keep up with her! I'm a little worried on that part but she just enjoys the sex she doesn't care if she cums or not. She already told me she does some times and other times she won't.
I have notcied that she likes it hard and like insanely fast which is some what tiring...depending on the position of course. I notice she moans and seems to have a blast when doing doggy fast and hard but that's the problem...
What can I do to improve my performance in that area or other options?
So far I've improved in the stamina a bit due to the gym and more cardio so I guess I can just keep that up but I feel I go too soon. She takes a while to cum, like 20+ minutes and by that time I just can't hold my "excitement" back...I've tried counting and it used to work but this girl just gets me way to excited so it doesn't work.
What can I do to keep going...without going hehehe
Thanks

maleficent

Toys are a good thing to introduce...

(She would love to hear that she gets you so excited... tell her and let her work with you -- you get too excited, stop for a bit - do something else... concentrate on a different body part...

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snowy

Heh. I am more or less like your girl. I would say don't be afraid to pause or bring hands or toys into it to get her off faster. Also changing positions is a great way to stop, pause and change the flow. Usually I'll ride a guy for a while--doing this allows me control and lets me go slowly, building it up a bit. Then we'll finish with really hard, fast doggie style. You might try doing a position where you control the tempo and finishing with doggie style.

If she likes it doggie it's probably because of g-spot stimulation, so you might try manually stimulating her g-spot beforehand. Another position you might try is reverse cowgirl...great for g-spot.

Another thing--if a girl tells you she doesn't mind not coming...that's okay. Don't worry about it. I've had a hard time in the past with partners because it doesn't seem like I come...I have several small orgasms that add up to what one big one would be. So if she's okay having sex without coming, you should be okay with it too. Orgasms during intercourse are like a bonus. Try giving her one some other way--be it manual stimulation, oral, whatever. Women can experience intense pleasure through sexual intercourse without having an orgasm. Hope that helps.

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Psycho Dad

If you go the toy route as these ladies suggested, take her with you whilst you are shopping for it.

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fpgt91

Wow lots of good info so far...I'd like to try the toys with her and I think I'll bring that one up with her in the near near future. I usually stop if nothing else happens and like to stimulate with my tongue and fingers while I "cool down" BUT there's a problem...she loves it when I come inside her, it's her favorite part and she always holds my hands down and pretty much forces me to come inside of her no matter how much I want her to slow down so she can have her orgasm.
This is why I ask for some help on the topic...we are still learning about each other as we have only been seeing each other for about 6 months now, both live busy lives with school and work and all of that. I just want to please her as much as I can.
And yes I'll definaitley be taking her with me toy shopping.
I think I just have to learn more of the motion of the ocean as well all in all...I'm 7"L and 5 1/2"W, it just seems kind of emberassing to move around her inside...think I should just get over it and do it more often?
All in all I think so far I'm just going to try swapping positions more often...I don't mind doggy becuase I literally work so hard at it it takes most of my feeling away lol
So maybe just swap back and forth? But then again she asks me not to stop, and then yeah lmfao ya see my dilemma here? hahaha

DelayedReaction

Communication works well. Do what she likes, and don't worry about it. If you're worried about stamina, can you honestly think of a better motivation to hit the gym regularly?

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