EleqTrizi'T

I'm married, and I have absolutely no interest in a threesome of any kind. A FFM would probably just feed my wife's insecurities, and a MMF is just nastay. heh

Also, if I were single I wouldn't want to have a threesome with anyone I cared for. It would be FFM with two girls I barely knew. Simply because I would have a hard time respecting them afterward. And yes, I fully understand how hypocritcal that last sentence is.

phyzix525

One thing I have noticed is everyone is thinking that they are the ones to ask another male (female)to the party. (of course I suppose most people are already in a relationship) In other words, why not be the one that is invited by the other couple? That way you don't have to worry about pissing off your significant other.

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Sbudda

I wouldn't have a problem with MMF, provided that the other M was someone I didn't really know. I'm sure my wife feels the same way about that one. I think it'd have to be in another city though. MFF of course would be good, but not with any of her friends. She has the smugliest friends I ever seen.

I agree that MMFF would be preferable to MMF though.

im2smrt4u

Otherwise, it would just be another guy screwing your girl, am I right?

My g/f is willing to try a FFM threesome (in fact, she seems interested in it), but she knows she is a jealous person and couldn't deal with me being with another woman. I would be willing to try a MMF threesome, but in the same way I wouldn't want here to have sex with another guy. I'm a jealous person too.

I guess we'll never end up trying either, unless we can both ditch our paranoia and jealousy. Maybe some day...

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Dano069

We've had two MMFs, one oral, the other full blown sex. I didn't involve myself with the other guy at all, BUT, it was still hot as hell. I love watching TW having fun. I have absolutely NO problem with it at all.

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Zeraph

I would be up for either.

clavus

I've done a MMF and it was a frickin blast. It was with my best friend and a mutual (female) friend. There was no "interaction" between the us guys, but there was no wierdness about trying not to accidentally bump into eachother. It was pure, unadulterated hedonism that left everybody fulfilled.

The only word of warning I can offer is this - Think about positioning before you make a move. If you are on your back with the girl on top of you, and she's sucking off your buddy, you can end up staring straight up his asshole. And really, that's not a great view.

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Bacchanal

I've done this, and wasn't very impressed with the results. It was one of my best friends and a girl he'd been talking to, but not been serious at all with. Also no interaction between us guys. For one reason or another, I just couldn't get into it. Any time I wasn't penetrating, I went limp. It was impossible to get off. I guess the only good thing about it is that it lasted for a couple hours, but it certainly isn't anything I'd try to get into again.

2 women though, I'd definitely try. (Imagine that!!)

CrossEyedLover

either way, mmf and ffm, would be sexually stimulating and as exciting or as comfortable as you let it be. i'm married and either way would instill jealousy in either me or her respectively. it's just human to want to protect what is close to you.

But...one night while sitting on my couch watching tv with the wife, she blurted out, "do you like to see girls kiss? does that turn you on?"

turns out...recently, a very attractive woman that works for my wife and is a fairly close friend of hers, casually brought up to my wife that her husband had requested a risque birthday present. she said he wanted to see her make-out(kiss and touch) with another woman while he, and in this case me, get to watch. the other woman is pretty good looking and my wife says he's decent looking.

my birthday and his birthday are a couple weeks apart and it could probably be considered a present for both of us.

in talking about the prospects of this "party"...

1. my wife had said that she'd strongly consider it--- "what the hell" and "i'm gay until it's my turn" have come up in conversation.

2. but she is uncomfortable with the way her body looks after a couple of kids and doesn't wwant anyone to see her naked in any way(she even hates me to see her sometimes). this was solved when it was learned that the other guy requested tanktops and thongs and never really brought up any prospect of us joining in.

3. my wife said that she'd only consider the other woman because she knows her and vice versa...that the two of them had actually talked about us guys joining in and that neither of them would be disappointed since us guys are decent looking and according to traded stories, are good in the bedroom.

i've actually talked to the other woman and asked if this proposal was genuine or just a joke at work between girls and she said it was totally up to my wife, but that she originally was joking about it being the two of them. although she now is taking it serious since my wife seems to be.

my thoughts have been scattered and have ranged to all ends of the spectrum. part of me knows i'd like to see my wife and her friend go at it. part of me knows i definitely wouldn't mind joining in. part of me knows that the other guy may be looking for some of my wife or another woman other than his wife, but i'd be in the same situation, so who cares? part of me knows that me seeing her with him and her seeing me with her would stir up some very odd feelings and even some jealousy, but it would definitely be highly erotic. i can't truly say how i'd really feel until i've been through it.

nonetheless, i keep asking the wife on the status of the "birthday party" and she says she isn't sure, she'll have to ask. i don't want to rush it or push it because i know the wife is suspicious that i want to screw the other woman or any other woman most likely, which is true but not in that context. she's said as much when she's said, "you just want to have sex with other people." to which i reply "no. i just want to see you and her and if it goes farther, then fine. if not then that's fine too." we've both agreed that it would be uncomfortable when it came time for the guys to join in(not to mention she's nervous about fooling with the other woman to begin with---first time) but we both seem game for it. at this point i don't care about the feelings afterwards. i just want it to happen because it has occupied my mind day and night since she brought it up 2 months ago and i am going crazy fantasizing about it! let's just do it honey.

since i'm married, the prospect of mmf or ffm male are just faded dreams, but i wouldn't mind either one. i'm beyond the limiting inhibitions and am open sexually with some guidelines of personal taste, so interaction with me and the other guy is not disgusting to imagine, but not the first thing on my mind. being married does leave it open for 4somes and proposals like i've described, so maybe there is still some hope. if not, i'm still very pleased with my gorgeous wife and could live with it just being the two of us if need be.

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gentlesoul43

This girl I was dating once asked if I'd consider having a 3some. We talked about both FFM and MMF and she was on for both. This conversation came up once in a while although we never did anything about it... mainly because we never could think of the right person nor did we try asking. There were many rules: if it was a girl, then I can't penetrate her; same if it was a guy, but I also wanted to make sure that the guy was someone i know and trust that will never call her on the side.

Anyway, once we were chatting and she started to suggest names, and out came names of my friends etc. I was seriously considering asking them and I said I would. But later I thought about it and realized that while it was a fun thought, I don't think I could handle it the day after. But thats not the point. The point is.. my girl started to get pissed at me cause while she was asking those questions, she was also not pleased with ther fact that I'd let her have sex with someone I knew. She felt that I didn't love her that much and that I didn't respect her. This became a turning point in our relationship. Well, little did I know that talking about our fantasies could have led to her getting insecure.. after all, its just talk and she was participating in it as well.

So would I do it?

FFM - sure I would. Best if neither of the girls was my gf. But if one was, I think I would be happy watching her get on with the other girl.. I don't need to get too involved.

MMF - yeah i think I could. I think only with a guy friend and a girl who's neither of our partners. I'd be happy to oblige any girl who wants some fun. Don't expect action between the guys tho.

gentlesoul43

That being said, I once had an MMMFFF action. Us 3 guys were friends but we didn't know the girls. Hung out naked in a jacuzzi before heading off into the rooms. Quite good fun if not for the fact that the girls didn't want to move around... ie play musical chairs. Lots of naked girls together are good fun.

aktornado

If I wasn't married, I'd go for MFF, but probably not MMF. But being married to a lovely woman, I don't really feel like sharing.

bad jane

i can't even manage to get involved with a guy willing to do a mff, much less a mmf

ahh well, i guess having all your fantasies come true would make life a little boring (except for winning the lotto...that would simply make life more interesting!)

gh0ti

I had MMF and MMFF action in college. Its all good as long as everyone is confortable and you trust your partner (if your partner is involved). I did the whole MMF where neither of us did anything to each other, and I did the whole MMF where we did. Something about two people giving you head at the same time is just bliss..

blar

yea thats the problem finding the right person

adam

Might be OK. Would depend a LOT on my wife's interest and who the other guy was. As the saying goes, I'll try anything once... no promises after that.

RallyEX

I am very turned on by the idea of an FFM, but an MMF really doesn't stimulate me at all. Perhaps I embody that male stereotype of "you are mine, and no one else can have you... but if you want to bring a friend in on the action, by all means..."

Maybe it makes me sound uneducated, perhaps it shows my jealous side... I am just not that excited about watching another man do anything to my wife... Just as my wife is not excited by another woman doing anything to me. That is why we'll most likely never have a threesome of any kind. In a way, it's kind of a moot point, but if the option ever arose I would definitely choose FFM.

LIMilf

I dont think I could do it. FFM? In a second, but two men. Thats tough, I just couldnt get past the fact that I could accidently touch the other guy, or have him get some of his "juices" on me. Weirding me out right now.

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Charlatan

Depending on the situation I'd be up for it...

In my head it works but in real life I just can't imagine getting that intimate with another man... I would have difficulty trusting him.

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Clearly, most women find other women beautiful, and even arousing. Most women are comfortable being affectionate with other women, even if they feel totally hetero. So a FFM scene isn't just two one-on-ones with a common person in the middle and the other two all focussed on that one. But a MMF is like that, unless the guys are bi, and there are relatively few women who'd want to get into a scene with two bi fellas. (Think of the risk)

I think women do feel competitive about who's sexier, or has better boobs and whatever. But if they can get comfortable without clothes around one another, then sharing a man isn't a strain for them. Conversely, men are much more likely to be comfortable naked together, but far more competitive about time with the woman, who's pleasing her more, etc.

One last point. Women really do have more influence, if not control, of the sexual relationship they have with their SO. So the woman has to agree to or want the threeway. As I said at the beginning, most women find other women rather attractive, even more attractive than men. Once they feel confident of a man in their lives, then they would be comfortable enjoying a woman too, as long as they don't feel that it threatens their primary relationship with their man.

Still, I agree with the one who suggested that a double couple, MFMF manage' would seem best. Just think of the combinations and visual stimulations.

Pinkie, I'd love to spank you. I wrote a whole fantasy story of how it would go, but I think it was to erotic for this thread. Sigh . . . Oh, well. Slap, slap, fondle.

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SiN

I'm sure it's already been mentioned ... but I have no time to read through the whole thread now..

Just curious, for tte male 'naysayers' -

is it


1. not wanting to get naked/etc with another guy

or

2. not wanting to see your girl having sex with another guy

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Glory's Sun

I have no problems with MMF threesomes. It usually adds a little something for the girls. I think most guys are just too homophobic to try it. It's a shame because it's quite fun. Of course FFM threesomes are just as fun too!

gentlesoul43

SiN, for me its definitely not wanting to see my girl having sex with another guy.

Anyway, i thought about it and probably will not do an MMF if I can help it for the above reason, and I think in an FFM case, the girl (IF i had one that wanted it) will probably feel the same way too.

So.... to compromise, we could set the rule where I don't touch the other girl.. so they can only do girl-on-girl action. I'm ok with that as its still fun having 2 naked ladies around. :P Now.. where do I find a straight girl who's willing to forego the sex with the man and only make out with the girl?

And of course, where do i find the first girl?

cementor

Got to do the MMF w/ a married couple who became my best friends. It was a case of 2 males pleasuring the same woman at the same time. There were a couple of high 5's exchanged, a bunch of laughs and a lot of "Big O's". We don't play anymore, but we all play golf and fish together. Thanks for the memories! It's an experience I'll never forget and wouldn't pass up if the opportunity presented itself again!

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pippepin

well, i've been involved in one mmf with me, my ex gf, and our gay friend. it was interesting getting head from a guy in a forplay triangle, but i made sure to concentrate on my girl, wasn't really looking into handling the another guys stuff

CityOfAngels

I am very possessive when it comes to my SO (when I have one; currently single), so I would never do a threesome if it included her unless the other person was her hot best friend. If it were just a hot friend of mine...I might consider it, but something tells me I'd be turned off by seeing the other guy there, and the whole "I hope he doesn't accidentally shoot that on me" thing would start kicking in.

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mikey4fingaz

im too insecure to have a mmf threesome.

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LOVE MMF, especially if he is bi....

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ahh, the mmf threesome, what a great invention, or ffm for that matter...
obviously requires 3 compassionate, bright, considerate human beings to work, this one!
to be the most erotice, both partners of the same sex have to get over the mind-boggingly limiting standards of hetero-/homo- and just allow themselves to be -sexual, plain and simple. the truth is human bodies are turn ons to other human bodies and the more the merrier.
i have never done this with a "loved one", but have with people i genuinely cared for and it's a great, life-changing experience. to live the rest of your life and know it's okay to get aroused by another guys presence (those with catholic, midwest upbringings can definitely relate) is a liberating thing. i'm still "straight" but always cherish the experience of being with a male and female.

Dale7

Dosn't sounds too good for me!

GraveTaker

i would never do a MMF cause i just wouldn't be able to do a girl with another guy around, it's just wrong and weird.

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mreman4u

Interesting question, but not likely for most people in the REAL world. This only seems to happen in porn and for swingers.

But, If I had the chance, A FFM would be my preference. I would do a MMF, but only with stragers, it would be to creepy to half to talk to those people in normal life.

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now this I'd like to see expanded on. What do you base the words 'wrong' and 'weird' on? Are you saying that someone who indulges in this act is automatically weird; and/or are you saying that engaging in this act is wrong against some moral code? .. discuss

AquaFox

if wouldn't let another guy in with my girl and me if he was like purely just wanting sex with my girl.... thats where most men draw the line i think...


sex is really more of a personal thing between you and your partner... and unless if the third person is a really good friend to both you and your partner and isn't sexually attracted to either one of you any more than the other... it will work