stevew

Do you talk about details of your sex life with anybody else than your partner?

omid

yeah, my 2 best friends who are like my brother/sister.

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doncalypso

Only a select few people... not everyone in my immediate vicinity needs to know what I do in bed.

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Daoust

Um that's what this whole site is about... well the tilted sexuality forum anyway...

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water_boy1999

Yup. I have a bunch of married friends who live vicariously through me. I am single and love to play and there seems to be a contingency of men who lost their ability to play like I do. It is kinda funny.

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Fire

I figure that my life should be an open book, nothing to hide, nothing to be ashamed of, no regrets- so, if they ask, I tell em- and sometimes if they dont, just to keep em off guard......

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maleficent

It's called a personal life for a reason ... Nope... Don't talk about my sex life at all.

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slimshaydee

With family NO
With friends it comes up every now and then but I don't go into too much detail.

oblar

I am with mal on this one to a point.. I have had it come up and I have spoken about at a later time before, but I am talking about 1-2 years afterwards and to people who never knew the other person.

While I am still with the person, I am around people they know, or it has been somewhat recently then I do not talk about it at all. It is personal, no reason for them to know "Sex is not a competition"

Suave

Not really. I don't care much about other people's, and I don't care much to share mine. That would change if something extraordinary happened though, like a giant orgy or something exciting, which would end up being maybe a 5-10 minute conversation and it would be back to more interesting topics.

male: It's nice to see a lady who opposes the stereotypical "they talk about GIRTH?!?" girlfriend conversations.

legolas

i'm not as open as all as my SO is and sometimes it turns into... talks. but i don't see why other people should know.

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johnsimon885

Not a soul (...except all of you guys, and the untold scores lurking in the non-posting shadows). But that doesn't, count, right?

ibis

I know this is gonna sound really odd....
The only person I talk about my sex life, other than my partner(s) is my mother. We've got aa very open (mother to son) relationship.

In fact, just yesterday, she told me she'd "do" her doctor in a heartbeat.

johnsimon885

call me old fashioned, but I'm pretty sure that would traumatize me!

Prince

Occasionally, the TFP.

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freeload

Only on the TFP and with a very close friend (girl) of mine.

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bookerV

Yup. With some of my friends. We always tell each other all that stuff. It's fun to talk about... If the person I am with doesn't want me to give certain details then I won't but otherwise it's the green light from me...

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StephenSa

Occaionally I'll post something on the TFP but with friends, family, etc? Nope, none of their business.

DaDictionaryBoy

I'll talk about generalities -- what I've done, will do, like to do -- with most friends if the subject comes up, but never details about a particular partner.

I find that I end up in those conversations with women most of the time, much to my wife's dismay. The guys I know, with few exceptions, don't discuss sex in any real way--just "Yeah, I'd do her" and other grunty stuff like that.

f6twister

My wife and I have two other married friends we discuss almost anything with. Other than that, no. I guess it works because they tell us everything also. When they get it on, we know.

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little_tippler

Generally I don't, but if it comes up I have nothing to hide. I don't go into too much detail and I only ever mention anything related to my sex life with my closest of friends, who I know I can trust and usually who engage in these conversations with me to get a perspective on their own sex life. Hey, what are friends for?

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Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
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snowy

Yeah. I like talking about my sex life. I'm a very open person. But not everyone needs to know. I probably only really talk about it to my mom and my best girl friend...and my roommate, because it freaks him out

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MSD

I don't have a sex life to talk about. I hear a lot about everone else's, though.

Averett

I don't discuss my sex life with my friends. It's not their business. Some of them tell me about theirs, and most times I don't want to hear it. Do I really need to know that my friend had sex with a girl while her husband watched? Nope, sure didn't.

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Shirtninja

The only time I do talk is with one really good friend, and its normally a long time after the fact. I also never bring anyone that she might know or even initiate the conversations now that I think about it.

LoganSnake

Well, I wouldn't personally mind giving away some details about my sex life to a few close friends, but my girlfriend feels that only we (me and her) should know about it and nobody else. Since I don't want this to turn into a problem, I keep my mouth shut. So no.

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*Nikki*

I do. As a matter of fact I have whole treads about it

alpha

No details, just general talk about sex.