Orgasms- Men vs. Women
 

I guess this could be a dumb question, but it's a question none the less. I'm wondering how men scale their orgasms as opposed to women. The girlfriends I've had the experience with have been all the toe curling, back arching, silent screaming atom bomb of orgasmness, while I on the other hand, can pretty much compare an orgasm to..... A slightly longer than normal sneeze. Is this pretty much "normal", is it just accepted that because of the physiology of males and females, men have less intense orgasms? I read once that the female orgasm is 9 times more powerful than men’s, I guess my question is, does everyone just pretty much accept this as one of those things?

Hmmm. My orgasms are DEFINITELY more pleasurable than "a long sneeze." I don't even find sneezes pleasurable at all. In any case, it varies. If I just pump away like crazy without stopping to let her take a breath, the orgasm, however amazingly pleasurable, isn't nearly as great as when I take short breaks whenever I'm close to finishing. The more breaks I take, the more explosive and pleasurable an orgasm I experience.

yeah i think that as a bloke you can vary it and it can of course be varied for you...
i don't think that they are any less intense or pleasurable for men. the only thing that i am envious of is that women can get off in more places without being caught.

As a girl, mine are intense but pretty short-lived unfortunately...they're better if there's pausing, and starting again. I don't think it's like a long sneeze for my SO because it seems pretty intense, but I can't say.

Those are the best, when your legs go weak and you can hardly move afterwards. :thumbsup:

Im a guy and when I come, my whole body shutters...its a RUSH..my eyes roll back, my back arches and screams that only dogs can hear. For me its just like a drug..a major release. I usually bake in a warm glow for a good 5 minutes. Perfection for an orgasm is a must....theres hardly ever a time when I just jerk off....its usually more than that.

Girls can be the same way. There are times I have a 2 second orgasm if that, but it depends on how intense you want it to be, and how long you have. If it's a quick bang, then I can see why your orgasm would be a long sneeze.

Relating to my b/f, there are times when he pumps it straight, cums and that's that. However, it's when he starts, and also takes a break that his body convulses wildly and he falls asleep.

As I said in another thread, it all depends on the intensity and stimulation level. Basically when I just jack off for the hell of it it it doesn't even last a second. Stroke, release, clean up. No rush, no eye rolling, curling, etc.

It all takes a turn for the better when you're really getting into it, put your fantasy to good use, use different techniques, just lose yourself in it. Then you have a nice, long, intense orgasm.

The best, of course, is when you're with a female partner and you're both really into it. The final moment is phenomenal. Well, shit. I want sex now and work isn't over until 3 more hours. :|

ok hearing everyone describing there orgasms and their s/o orgasms is really making me wish i was with someone so i could see them cumming... see the joy and bliss of it all... mmmmm... guess ill just have to settle for a mirror