no one that does anal should "stick it" anywhere else until they've washed, it can cause really bad infections for the woman

Yeah, those videos that show a man swapping holes without any breaks contribute to some serious delusions about the cleanliness of it.

That was a porno man. Nothing in porno's is like real life...thats why they're porno's. Those guys use stunt cum.

Asta!!

As to the smell, depends on how well the girl and or man has "cleaned up" (so to speak) before the act.

I have never tried but would be pretty open to it. It seems as though many men suffer from some (homo)phobia when it comes to their own hole. I don't get the whole "I know what comes out of it" argument. You know what comes out of your penis right? There isn't THAT big of a difference in that respect. Anyway, I guess it all comes down to your personal limits. Let's not be judgemental here...

I'd be willing to try it as long as my fiancee would get somethin out of it. I doubt I would be that tremendously much.

I've had a finger from my wife during oral and that is very pleasurable for me. Adds to the experience and all. I don't know about a strap-on. If she was really into it, then maybe. It would have to be a mostly psychological thing for her. I mean, if I am penetrating her, we both have sensation. If she is penetrating me with a strap-on... I feel it, sure. But what does she get out of it exactly? Any females out there who want to comment? Have you done this with your man? If so, did you get direct physical pleasure from it or was it a domination thing, control thing?

With the right person, I'd be open to trying just about anything. I don't say no to anything until the decision is in front of me, so I really can't tell now.

when my last girl friend would give give me a message she would some times grind aginest my bum. I really liked that a lot. moving from dry humping to anal, i guess it would have to be with a woman i trusted. Im not really to keen on anal sex anyways, but if a girl wanted to give it a try i would be open about it

Love-juice? Man-malade? Jerking Jelly?

I was trying to be funny, but I guess we'll have none of that here. To be perfectly honest, I have no interest in assholes. None. I have no desire to stick anything up mine nor stick anything of mine in anybody elses. Don't know why. Can't explain it. I also don't get the whole latex asphyxiation thing, tentacle rape or bukkake. I wouldn't consider myself a prude; I'm just not turned on by it.

Let's not be too quick to jump on the homophobe wagon. It's been my experience that the folks around here are, for the most part, brutally honest in all matters. Why wouldn't they be about anal sex? I'm sure there are a few who are harboring some pent up homophobia, but more than likely the vast majority just aren't interested.

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

And on the flip side, I'm not a closet homosexual for liking it.

A cigar is still a cigar. ;)

<----Anal sex virgin. (both ways)

I'd be into it! My wife has used her finger on me before and I came buckets. Whats with the homophobe comment?....its just sex....if it gets you off, why be ashamed?

That is *very* pretty indeed!

Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. Would I do it again? Most definitely

The idea has entered my mind a few times when giving oral to a lady. There I am, on my hands and knees, doing what I love to do most, with my butt up in the air, and suddenly it comes to mind, gee, now if we had another lady to join us we could try some kinky stuff, like ----

ehh.....not so much. We're a one penis family!;)

I'd be willing to try it, as long as my woman would let me get her there, which she won't. So this is moot. But you never know until you try it. And her doing this to you certainly won't make you gay.

Yea...gonna have to pass on the strap-on. It just doesn't really work for me.

Fear. People are afraid of the unknown. I used to be that way, but now I'm much happier.

I haven't done it, but would give it a shot if my girl suggested it. I've been on the giving end so it'd be kinda hypocritical of me to outright refuse the reverse. Who knows? It may open up whole new worlds of pleasure to me. If not, then I will no longer wonder if I missed out on something I might have enjoyed in this life.

I don't mind anal play at all, but I think a strap-on might be a bit too rough. For the record, I haven't 'pitched' on anal sex either, so that's not a double-standard.

I also find it telling that not a single person (as of this post) responded with this answer:

• I have done it, but would not be open to doing it again

I think that says a hell of a lot about the experience.

No, not really. I think it says that only someone who is sure that they are going to like it actually tries it.

I'd have to disagree. I wasn't sure I'd like it and tried it anyway.

Yup, tried it, liked it very much. I am sure a lot of the difinitive "no way" responses are due to the stigma that it is a "gay" thing. It doesn't have to be. Men have a serious erogenous zone down there and there is nothing wrong with a little experimentation. I have had fingers twiddling down there, but would be open to something a little more robust with my SO.....if and when I find an SO.

I'll pass on that experince.

i've only done it twice. once 2 yrs ago.. and once about 2 wks ago. both times w/ my wife. dont know the difference between the 2 times, but after this time, she said 'we're gonna have to start doing that more often.' she loved..... and i cant say that i argued with her. ;) its a really different feeling and after relaxing enough to enjoy it, it's great.

as far as what the women get out of it.. you can buy a harness with either an inverted vibrator or a vibrating egg. inour case we had neither but the friction of the harness against her still have her an orgasm. very unexpected but o' so wonderful. :D

yupp, I've dont it, loved it, did it some more, hope to do it more in the future :D

no interest in being on the receiving OR giving end. The idea of sticking my dick up a hole someone shits out of is disgusting, and would draw no pleasure shoving something up my own. No fear involved, I simply find the activity to be nasty, akin to shoving foreign items up my peehole.

In the spirit of openness...

I'd like to try, but the wife isn't interested in receiving or giving. I've resorted to trying it on my own, just because I find myself bored and looking for new experiences. During masturbation, a finger or dildo is also VERY effective... (showers are a good place to do this, given the need to wash)

hmm dont know if i would let that thing in my bum bum but maybe

OH gawd yess!!!!!!!!!

If that's really you in your profile picture, you could do anything you wanted to me with that thing. ;)

I have given myself anal with my wifes vibrator but I didn't enjoy it much. It made me feel like I had to take a dump (which I assume is normal), and I didn't access any g-spots. I did it to myself because my wife would never in a million years go near my anus or have me go near hers. I just wanted to see what it felt like. Probably won't do it much anymore...

I did this with my ex wife she said if you want to do it to me i'm going to do it to you and it acctually felt good but man it made me cum in a heart beat

I've had one gf use a vibrator onme, and another 2 use their fingers.. I must say those time have beent eh most instense orgasms I ever had. It's really the only time I can give up total control and enjoy myself..

as long as she was gentle and knew what she was doing I'd be open to it. Don't want to get a hemroid or something for being open minded.

I'd be into trying it but my wife when I mentioned it was totally not willing to entertain the idea.

Not sure why, but I have had fantasies about this recently. The way I picture it is on my back so she can jerk me off at the same time. I figure eventually I'll give it a go.

Debianuser, typically before you would do anal the "receiver" will clean themself up first with a...whatchamacallit...Enima, ya that's it. I know I wouldn't do it to a woman if I didn't know she was clean inside and out.

My girlfriend is against all anal. I'm not really into getting fucked with a strap on, but sometimes I wish she would just rub the buttle some while giving me head. And I would also love a rimjob. But like I said, she is against anal anything.
We did try the prostate thing, but it didn't work out good because of my girlfriend's "prudeness". Basically I just jerked off with her finger in my ass....it wasn't as good as if she was giving me some dome or jerking me off herself (at least that is what I think).
So no to the strap on, but yes to everything else.

If my wife came to me and said she wanted to try it I would have to say ok. After all, she lets me do her. If I said no she might not ever let me fuck her ass again. Who knows, might like it.