lunchbox

So I was hoping for all of your opinion on something I did recently. Me and my SO have been together since april of 2003 and I moved away to college in august. This college is 600+ miles away from home so I can't exactly make it a weekend trip (12 hours to drive there). So knowing that I couldn't see my girlfriend for 90 days I knew we were going to have to find other ways to fill our sexual desires.

We've put on shows for each other over the webcam and such but I found out a little while ago after several tries (just me talking to her and her looking at pictures of me etc etc) she can't masturbate herself to orgasm. So after finding out this I pledged to her (without her asking or even hinting in anyway) that I wasn't going to get off until I saw her. She thought this was a great idea and was excited that i would do that for her.

now that you've got the backstory my question to all of you is: Have any of you done this for your SO or had your SO do this for you? If not what do you think of this? do you thinkits a good idea or a sweet gesture?

denim

You're not female. Females are different. You've just let yourself in for hell. Good luck.

Gustoferson

I believe an episode of Seinfeld is in order. Master of Your Domain.

Good luck man, though at least you have an overriding reason other than just seeing how long you can go.

And if you pull it off, you'll have a hell of a first evening back together!

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lunchbox

haha I completely forgot about that episode. they had an underlying reason the cash. haha. and it shouldn't be too hard fyi, we've only got 15 days left.

maxwell_1888

And if you pull it off, you'll have a hell of a first minute back together!*

adam

Oh, I think he'll be up for more than that first minute... after a little rest.

Coppertop

Can anybody say:



So what's the total timeframe we're talking about? Personally I can't last more than a week or so. I have no willpower.

Coppertop

Ah, 90 days, I guess it helps to read the entire post. Shame on me.

Irishsean

Hmmm, I did this when my SO left for 3 weeks. When she got back it was awesome... After making completely sure she was worn out, I finally got my rocks off... and passed out.

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fallenangel

I'm female and personally, there's no way i'd be up for trying to go 90 days without getting off. There would have to be a pretty fucking good reason for it...

Hope it works out for ya!

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jillian

im a girl and i have a hard enough time going 90 min let alone 90 days.... a few years ago i might have been able to attempt it but now... no way i could do it... i would wind up jumping some random guy in the grocery store within a few days

Gustoferson

Haha, you're going to give this guy a complex and a half worrying about his girl now!

But yeah, if you've made it this far you'll be fine, just get plenty of sleep the night beforehand and try not to jump each other's bones before you get to at least a semi-private place.

Kudos to you both for trying something like this which i personally (and judging by other responses many other people) would say 'fuck that!' to and getting so far.

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jillian

well i dont want him to worry... i just have a high sex drive... or at least higher than most

lunchbox

just for the record i'm the one trying something, she just physically can't get herself off. She can only come when i work my magic (/end bragging)

Munku

I tried seeing how long I could go. Couldn't take it after 4 days. I'm a wimp.