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Elmo123abc · 05-19-2003, 01:21 PM

Hello, i just figured this would be the right place to post this but... my girl friend is 18 and still a virgin and has not had her . since feburary and she has not knoticed any thing wrong yet or any pain ect,,,, do you guys have any clue as to what could be the problem?

thanks in advance for the help :-)

rogue49 · 05-19-2003, 01:44 PM

Don't you think a doctor would be a better person to ask this of?
If you are concerned about discretion, then there are free clinics that can determine this for you.

That's what I would advise,
don't take the opinion of the members here, we aren't medical experts.

Hope everything works out for you & her, and she's alright.
Good luck.

Slims · 05-19-2003, 01:47 PM

yeah, it could be a baby. Go out and get her a couple different pregnancy tests, or have her go see a doctor.

You don't need to have sex in order to wind up pregnant.

Stress can (I think) also cause her to miss her period.

Or, it could be something more serious.

Good luck.

shiznikchik · 05-19-2003, 01:52 PM

yeah....i'm his gurlfriend. i joined to see what u guys would say bout "that"

i'm not huge on doctors...i don't excatly like them.
and if your talkin bout gettin pregnant off like a toilet seat....i NEVER sit on public toliet seats...u cudn't dare me too. i jus won't do it, its gross.
and i don't really think i'm stressed out

cheerios · 05-19-2003, 01:54 PM

DEFINITELY get checked out. medical things should NOT be diagnosed over the internet. Try a school clinic, if you're in college, they're easy on the pocket book. But at 18, skipping periods is not normal, and may be signs of pregnancy or a crudload of other things ranging from stress to much worse stuff. so, off to the clinic with her, and you too, for support!!

cheerios · 05-19-2003, 01:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by shiznikchik
yeah....i'm his gurlfriend. i joined to see what u guys would say bout "that"

i'm not huge on doctors...i don't excatly like them.
and if your talkin bout gettin pregnant off like a toilet seat....i NEVER sit on public toliet seats...u cudn't dare me too. i jus won't do it, its gross.
and i don't really think i'm stressed out

*sigh* you can't get pregnant off of a toilet seat. I'm sorry, not possible. you CAN get pregnant from having a man cum ON you. (as opposed to in you.) And really, it doesn't matter if you don't like doctors, 'cuz this's your health on the line, not a cold, but something really odd, and that definitely needs checked out. Sorry. make Elmo come with you, and hold your hand. Believe me, it sucks, but it'll be a whole lot better for you in the long run. Take it from another doctor-phobic female.

Lebell · 05-19-2003, 02:19 PM

Stress most certainly can cause a person to miss a period, as can poor diet and a few other things.

Also there are many myths about how a person can (and cannot) get pregnant, so without knowing intimate details of what you two have been up to, I couldn't say what the likelyhood of it is.

I would suggest first buying a home pregnancy test and seeing what it says. If it returns positive, follow it up with a visit to your doctor or Planned Parenthood.

Take it ONE day at a TIME, and good luck.

rogue49 · 05-19-2003, 02:27 PM

Go see a doc.
Nuff said.

Shokan · 05-19-2003, 03:08 PM

See a doc. It could be something extremely serious.

SiN · 05-19-2003, 03:20 PM

Doctor.

you need to get over the dislike of doctors, particularly for gyn stuff, because is essential to your health that you get your yearly exams and go in whenever else u have reason to, like now.

Eviltree · 05-19-2003, 04:25 PM

I'd say the doctor idea is the best one. Better not to risk it

eyeronic · 05-19-2003, 04:33 PM

I agree about the doctor and about the fact that you can become pregnant without having penetration. I remember I used to get really close without actually doing it before I lost my virginity. In retrospect, I am really lucky I didn't catch anything.

Suck up your fear and see the doctor. The more you go to the doctor, the less frightening it is. I'm sure you will make it through this just fine. No one here is going to judge you if you messed up this once, but we care about everyone on here and it would be wrong if we didn't tell you to go see the Dr. Don't worry, you'll be fine.

toxic515 · 05-19-2003, 04:59 PM

Doctor, doctor doctor.. get the point, everyone has said it. There's too much that can cause real problems in the plumbing and the rest of the body. Pregnancy can occur without penetration, if he's got the "uber-semen" and you don't clean up quick. (on the thigh or whatever) but since that doesn't really sound like the issue, again, it's DOCTOR.

Angel · 05-19-2003, 05:01 PM

There is no question here of what you need to do. It is very clear you need to get her into a doctor.

There are many factors that can tie into missing a period, all of which NEED to be addressed. It is not normal to miss a period and not being comfortable with doctors is not a good enough reason to play with your health.

Go. Now. No questions. Just Go!

Lebell · 05-19-2003, 09:29 PM

Ok, ignore what I said earlier.

Just go to the doctor

05-19-2003, 01:21 PM	#1 (permalink)
Elmo123abc Tilted	need help fast :-( Hello, i just figured this would be the right place to post this but... my girl friend is 18 and still a virgin and has not had her . since feburary and she has not knoticed any thing wrong yet or any pain ect,,,, do you guys have any clue as to what could be the problem? thanks in advance for the help :-)

05-19-2003, 01:47 PM	#3 (permalink)
Slims Eccentric insomniac Location: North Carolina	yeah, it could be a baby. Go out and get her a couple different pregnancy tests, or have her go see a doctor. You don't need to have sex in order to wind up pregnant. Stress can (I think) also cause her to miss her period. Or, it could be something more serious. Good luck. __________________ "Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill "All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence

05-19-2003, 02:19 PM	#7 (permalink)
Lebell Cracking the Whip Location: Sexymama's arms...	Stress most certainly can cause a person to miss a period, as can poor diet and a few other things. Also there are many myths about how a person can (and cannot) get pregnant, so without knowing intimate details of what you two have been up to, I couldn't say what the likelyhood of it is. I would suggest first buying a home pregnancy test and seeing what it says. If it returns positive, follow it up with a visit to your doctor or Planned Parenthood. Take it ONE day at a TIME, and good luck. __________________ "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." – C. S. Lewis The ONLY sponsors we have are YOU! Please Donate!

05-19-2003, 03:08 PM	#9 (permalink)
Shokan Addict Location: Canada	See a doc. It could be something extremely serious. __________________ Legalize it.

05-19-2003, 03:20 PM	#10 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	Doctor. you need to get over the dislike of doctors, particularly for gyn stuff, because is essential to your health that you get your yearly exams and go in whenever else u have reason to, like now. __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach

05-19-2003, 01:44 PM	#2 (permalink)
rogue49 Loser	Don't you think a doctor would be a better person to ask this of? If you are concerned about discretion, then there are free clinics that can determine this for you. That's what I would advise, don't take the opinion of the members here, we aren't medical experts. Hope everything works out for you & her, and she's alright. Good luck.

05-19-2003, 01:52 PM	#4 (permalink)
shiznikchik Banned	yeah....i'm his gurlfriend. i joined to see what u guys would say bout "that" i'm not huge on doctors...i don't excatly like them. and if your talkin bout gettin pregnant off like a toilet seat....i NEVER sit on public toliet seats...u cudn't dare me too. i jus won't do it, its gross. and i don't really think i'm stressed out

05-19-2003, 01:54 PM	#5 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	DEFINITELY get checked out. medical things should NOT be diagnosed over the internet. Try a school clinic, if you're in college, they're easy on the pocket book. But at 18, skipping periods is not normal, and may be signs of pregnancy or a crudload of other things ranging from stress to much worse stuff. so, off to the clinic with her, and you too, for support!!

05-19-2003, 02:27 PM	#8 (permalink)
rogue49 Loser	Go see a doc. Nuff said.

05-19-2003, 04:25 PM	#11 (permalink)
Eviltree Psycho Location: British Columbia	I'd say the doctor idea is the best one. Better not to risk it

05-19-2003, 04:33 PM	#12 (permalink)
eyeronic I run E. Location: New York	I agree about the doctor and about the fact that you can become pregnant without having penetration. I remember I used to get really close without actually doing it before I lost my virginity. In retrospect, I am really lucky I didn't catch anything. Suck up your fear and see the doctor. The more you go to the doctor, the less frightening it is. I'm sure you will make it through this just fine. No one here is going to judge you if you messed up this once, but we care about everyone on here and it would be wrong if we didn't tell you to go see the Dr. Don't worry, you'll be fine. __________________ I hold with those that favor fire.

05-19-2003, 04:59 PM	#13 (permalink)
toxic515 Addict Location: Texas	Doctor, doctor doctor.. get the point, everyone has said it. There's too much that can cause real problems in the plumbing and the rest of the body. Pregnancy can occur without penetration, if he's got the "uber-semen" and you don't clean up quick. (on the thigh or whatever) but since that doesn't really sound like the issue, again, it's DOCTOR. __________________ Time flies like an arrow, fruit flies like a banana.

05-19-2003, 05:01 PM	#14 (permalink)
Angel Naughty Just Right Location: Euphoria	There is no question here of what you need to do. It is very clear you need to get her into a doctor. There are many factors that can tie into missing a period, all of which NEED to be addressed. It is not normal to miss a period and not being comfortable with doctors is not a good enough reason to play with your health. Go. Now. No questions. Just Go! __________________ In the depth of winter, I finally learned that there was within me an invincible summer. ~Albert Camus

05-19-2003, 09:29 PM	#15 (permalink)
Lebell Cracking the Whip Location: Sexymama's arms...	Ok, ignore what I said earlier. Just go to the doctor __________________ "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." – C. S. Lewis The ONLY sponsors we have are YOU! Please Donate!