Chuckles

I get so close to having the girlfriend let go. She gets to that point where she is twitching, shuttering, random mumbling, screaming, but just cant get over that barrier! Any ideas of what I can do to push her over the edge? She gets too sore to go on after this, and we have to stop. I kinda need it, my tongue can barely move anymore and im not porn starish enough to bang all damn day lol :P All advice would be appreciated!

cmc

learning to fly includes remembering to forget you CAN'T fly.
IE - consider taking the goal off getting off and on getting it on ~ as
in what gives each of you pleasure. Less is more if you give it with more
love, and intention to be pleasing. Slow down -- talk, get intimate emotionally
and the sex / love making will certainly follow !

R_R_R

One little bit of advice I recieved was to keep doing what you are doing when she's twitching, shuttering, random mumbling, screaming...etc. My friend told me that it ruins it when she's about to cum, and he starts doing something different. Just keep doing what you're doing, no faster, no slower. You can add something else, but just don't stop what you were originally doing. Hope this helps. Let us know.

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Averett

Actually, I would suggest that when she gets to the point where she's sore or tender, do something else. Take the pressure (so to speak ) off of the area and go somewhere else for a minute or two. Then go back to where you were. That might help.

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lunchbox

my advice would be to do more teasing. do a lot of non penetrating/non touching the vagina parts of making love. I'm assuming you already do these things, the most important step in getting a girl off is turning her on. you have to work at the neck and the ears and the boobs and lick around the waist line. There's so many things you can do, you need to get her revved up to the point where she needs you to be going down on her or fucking her. its really only hurting yourself when your girl isn't all the way in the mood and you're going down, it takes a lot more work to get her off if she's just sorta turned on and you're kissing the kitty.

the_marq

Don't sprint to the finish line.

One complaint I heard before I reached enlightenment :P, was that as she was getting close I would speed up, or increase presure or just change what I was doing. Basically as she got excited, I got excited and started going like mad. Once I was able to train myself to maintain the pace I was much more successful in getting girls (just one girl now) off.

Hope that helps.

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monica

Talk to her and ask her to tell her what she likes about oral sex. Get her to explain to you if she likes it soft and slow, or hard and fast... etc. Find out what really excites her, and do lots of that.

And what everyone else said is true... once she starts making like she's going to cum, DO NOT CHANGE anything you are doing, just keep doing it!!!!

Raleighbum

Could be that you started off too rough in the beginning.
less is more.
(and easier for your tongue muscles as well...)
For what I know, those porn-movie rough eating sessions are seldom favoured in real life. (originally womens places are Veery sensitive)
- Dr.Phil

jillian

when i am about to get off i need to have the guy or girl keep doing whatever he or she is doing... occasionally a change is a nice surprise and can bring on a bigger orgasm(s).... i get sore very easily mainly due to size but even then i was blessed with the gift of gab and i just tell them what i need done to get me to the special place of orgasmic bliss... ill just say hay king kong slow down or lick here.. suck there..do this while ur doing that... some guys may not like being told what to do... but oh well get over it... im not like some girls and going to fake it