KinkyKiwi

I was noticing that alot of people on TFP are married or are in long term comitted relationships..i'm just wondering how many..and also the current status of relationships..not like oh "i'm going thru a horrible dirvorce" but like in terms of active sex lives and passion..hence why its on the sexuality board

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Glory's Sun

I'm single, have no sex life.. or any other type of life.. just your classic loser here

KinkyKiwi

me personally i've been with biznatch for a year on nov 9th..and we can't keep our hands off each other. were thinking about long term comittment (aka future) and it seems shiny and happy

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Averett

I'm in the 3-6 month category. Although we can't quite come together on an actual "when did the relationship start" date...

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Irishsean

SIngle again... yeah I know I posted I was getting married a while ago, it disintegrated over the last two weeks. It's one of the main reasons I've been a grouchy asshole lately, hehe.

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Nancy

Loverboy and I have been together for 2 years now and things are going so well both inside the bedroom as well as outside it that it's almost frightening

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Clark

I have been married for 3 years and with her for almost 7 years.

And we are still having a blast.

the_marq

Been together for 3 years, getting married in May.

Sex is getting better as we go along...I'd imagine we'll peak in about 1 more year.

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Redlemon

Just crossed our 10th wedding anniversary last month (whee!) and in a couple of weeks coming is our 17th dating anniversary. We had a child two years ago, so the sex is a bit reduced from pre-pregnancy levels, but it is still generally 1-2 times per week. The love / sensuality / flirting is still where it was, however. I'm very happy.

bookerV

Single. Casually dating a few girls. Meeting lots of new people. Sex here and there. Enjoying myself right now. It's been a VERY long time since I've been single like this. Taking my time now until I find someone that I REALLY want to be with.

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Jim Kata

Been with my woman for 3 1/2 years. Not married though, but we plan on it, when we are both financially secure or a bit more better off than what we are now.
The sex had almost diminished until I brought up how it was bothering me. So its been a good 2 weeks. *cues funky porno music*

gar1976

Married 5 1/2, been with Mrs. Gar since.....let's see....May 1993....so.....shit, 11 1/2 years? Is that right?

Damn.

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SCrubjay

Just passed anniversary #16 (I think that's the flannel anniversary!?!). It is really a wonderful point in the relationship; as strong and fun now than in years passed. In fact, because we dated for a relatively short time before marriage, just 10 months, the first couple of years were considerably harder than anything since. We went through our challanging phase very early, the majority of relationships have them at some point, and ended up stronger for the experience. I consider myself extremely fortunate.

gar1976

As far as the "knockin' boots" count, about 3-4 times per week. Have a 20 month old son, but that didn't slow us down any.

Still gettin' more than my single friends, though. Ha ha!

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Blistex, in regards to crappy games -

They made pong look like a story driven RPG with a dynamic campaign.

Rinndalir

Married, 3 & a half years together, 1 kid. Sex frequency is up and down, we both work full time but different hours and the kid is too young to leave by herself for long. We'd have sex every night if we could though.

I think we're the only married couple that we know, work or friends, that actually likes each other. I just got through listening to 4 of my coworkers complaining about how their wives are all bitches...

stonegrody

3-6 month category here. Only get to see her on weekends and we hump like bunnies. Sometimes literally. We're both very passionate people. I'm sure my neighbors wish we weren't.

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dabossy2k

Man in the single, still looking, having a lot of fun while trying to find the right one. Have few prospects however nothing seroius. Hey Stone nice to see soemeone else from the Bay always good to see that.

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MrFlux

Been with Mel 2 years now

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Dane Bramage

I just passed the 3 month mark with my g/f and things are really going great.

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cj22009

Was married for 6 years now divorced and ready to go

forehead

been marred for 18

lunchbox

been with my girlfriend for a year and a half, haven't seen her in 80+ days now (i'm away at college ) but we usually had sex once a weekish and foreplay moreso. seeing as how we're living with our parents still that's pretty good considering the sneakyness.

SuzyQ

been with my man for about two and a half years now and the sex is absolutely amazing.

boredom

single here, just hard for me to find someone whose semi-innocent but openminded and kinky.

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Captain Nemo

Was married for 12 years, divorced for 4 years, and remarried for 3 1/2 years

la petite moi

nwlinkvxd and i have been dating for almost 18 months. ^_^

He and i have restarted our D/s relationship, and we're both feeling horny ! Anyway, we have sex every other weekend, since He attends school 3.5 hours away. i think our sex is great. ^_^

gar1976

Ahh, the good ol' days. Although, I don't know what is harder - hiding sex from your parents while living with them, or hearing them discuss and make jokes about sex when you get older.

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Blistex, in regards to crappy games -

They made pong look like a story driven RPG with a dynamic campaign.

bbbbbb555

i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years, and we are doing the long distance thing, so not that much sex. but it is usually good when i get to see her.

Digilogic

Single, always on the look out :-)

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KinkyKiwi

wow impressive (aimed at forehead, clark, red lemon, gar and scrub) i'm a little suprised at just how many more people were in comitted relationships here then single (by the poll). i have to ask of teh people who have been together over 10 years - do you feel your relationships have been so sucessful because you share a common intrest? and for the rest of you long term and happys..how many of you both spend time on the TFP(aka la petite moi and nwlinkvxd? i know having a place to show my interests and thoughts and knowing that biznatch will be checking out what i'm saying has helped me feel more secure and less shy with him. also since this site is obviously very open toward sex i wonder if the people on here are diffent then teh general populace ...at least in terms of being aware of their sexuality maybe aiding in keeping a sex life fresh after years?

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Play with each other. Play with yourselves. Just don't play with the squirrels, they bite.

Lockjaw

Dating but nothing overly serious so I would classify myself as single.

radioguy

i've been dating the same girl for about 6 months and we're happy and enjoying life.

Cadwiz

Been married for alomst 11-1/2 years. We didn't spend alot of time together the first few years. I was in the military and deployed alot. I never thought we could be more in love than when we were first married, but I was wrong. Two kids later and our sex life is still good and hot.

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gremlinx8

My boyfriend and I are coming up on 3 years in December.

J-DaWg

been married coming up on 6yrs in December ... things are still fantastic and the sex just keeps getting better!! and thats sayin alot as its always been mind blowing

KinkyKiwi

thank you guys so much! i really appreciate the response and i really think that teh peopel here are much more well balenced and content with them selves then people not of teh tfp..its interesting..

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Some mornings, it's just not worth chewing through the leather straps.
Play with each other. Play with yourselves. Just don't play with the squirrels, they bite.

combatmedicjen

Xepherys and I met last August and got married this May, and the sex is awesome!

Aladdin Sane

SCrubjay, I could've written this except for the short dating part. My wife is Dutch, and I am Texan. We knew each other for 5 years before we got married, but we lived on different sides of the Atlantic. I saw her three times in three years, and on the third time we got married. We, too, just passed our 16th wedding anniversary. The first years were the hardest. Today, there is no doubt that our relationship is stronger than ever. One thing you didn't mention: sex. Sex with my wife is definately better than ever. We also do it more now than we did in the first ten years of marriage. Like you, I think I'm more blessed than I deserve. I'm just about the happiest person I know. Life is good.

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nottwood

I am married for 7 years and the feelings and sex have never been better. I got lucky and met the right one the first time. I am lucky at nothing else, so I count my blessing.

RMMsGirl

Been with my guy for a little over two years. We're getting married in July. Our feelings and the sex are just as great as they were in the beginning.