I always listen to YOUUUUUUU!!!!

That is the question I ask every time I get in my car and drive somewhere. Indeed, I ask it many times. Many, many times. But I never get an answer.

That was beautiful. *tear*

Am I the only one getting a little burnt out on all the "Help I Like This Girl What Do I Do?/Does She Like Me?/How do I Tell If She's Into Me?/I've Been Cheated On 50 Times But I Love Her Do I Take Her Back?" threads?

This is the sexuality forum, not the insecure blue balls forum. We want mature discussions of sexuality, not high school note passing "Do You Like Me? Check Yes Or No" bullshit.

There can be some good discussions in here but this forum deteriorates quickly with all the lovelorn angst I've been seeing lately.

Maybe there should be some new kind of rule that these threads will be closed immediately upon notice because they're becoming a bit of a cliche.

Forget Tilted Loving, open up a Tilted Lovelorn forum so us grownups can get back to the important threads in here like scat and bleeding/dripping penises. The daily newspapers have all kinds of columns for those of you trying to figure out if the girl who used the creamer after you in Starbucks was secretly undressing you in her mind.

I totally agree. It is getting very old. Its scat time already!

How about a big-ass thread merge?

edit also thought i'd mention that some of the more hard core / serious / grown up sexuality topics are going to be repeaters too...i mean, what's scat? wipe shit on each other and start fuckin. i think these new threads are just people that haven't been here for a long time. i'm usually willing to give advice to people, but I would have to agree that most of the time it's the same ole shit...and I frequently can't help but think the many times they could have / should have been able to answer for themselves beforehand.

I think you're just irritated with the maturity level, which I suppose I can understand.

That's the code to Contra .... and it ends with........ start-select-start. Turbo Spread rules.

I guess I know why I'm in here.

Or maybe just archive(or better yet, kill) those advice-seeking, 'can't tell this girl I like her' threads after 60 days..because, let's face it, if you haven't figured things out by then, you ain't gonna.
There's a vast amount of under 20's here and I understand they are somewhat green about relationship workings, but I agree-read a bit, search a bit before starting anew and think about stuff first before you go running to a forum with a long drawn-out scenario about how 'there's this girl, see...and well...' (I found 6 almost identical, but chose not to link any, for obvious reasons)

I changed the title to help those that seem to not bother to have read this under it's previous title.

If you'd even like to see the last thread about use helping someone...

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...6&page=1&pp=40

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hey man/lady
thats the way its suppossed tobe im shocked by the way materialismm has stolen the realuism that was once there. thumbss uppp! :)

Being yourself works. And playing (or being) the "uninterested" guy works wonders as well. I've got NO problems walking up to a random girl and striking up a conversation...my problem always comes with noticing that i could ask her out. im too busy being me...which is an oblivious moron...heh.. one of those things i need to work on.

good fuckin post. people need to realize the shit that they really arent.

I haven't read many of the responses here because some seem to get off track but I just wanted to say AMEN! I got with my girl now because I was tired of being the fifth wheel in a group with one couple. I didn't care if she came home with me because I thought (incorrectly, I later found out) that my friend was interested in her. I got tired of feeling left out and just started talking to her...didn't take long for things to start getting hot!!