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Lag Messiah · 10-09-2004, 08:22 PM

hey all of you, i'm a long time reader of tfp, this is i believe my first post here. hi

Ok, so let me just give you some background on myself, I'm 15, i live in michigan and are a sophomore in high school. I get a 4.0, work for the school radio station and I'm on the track and field team. I'm about 5'9", 190 or so (i would classify myself as "somewhat fat", after all im a thrower for track) but thats not a problem, i dont really care, and i'm pretty sure that i'm somewhat visually pleasing (not ugly).

now, on to my question. I've recently been interested in several different girls, and i'm having problems. first of all, im pretty sure all of them have boyfriends. is there a viable way i could make them like me? or am i wasting my time? secondly, how do i talk to these girls? i try to bring up stuff a teacher did, or stupid stuff going on or whatever, but how do i "keep the converstion going"? thirdly, when i get a girlfriend, how do i not come off as some sex crazed freak (i definatley care for the feelings of others and would never use someone, cheat on someone, etc)?

sorry for all the quotation marks and parentheses, and thanks. and i don't mean to come off as some stupid high school kid who doesnt know what hes talking about.

Seandq · 10-09-2004, 08:28 PM

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TM875 · 10-09-2004, 08:29 PM

15, eh? Well, now you're gonna get banned.

Anyway, you're not going to get a girl to change her mind over you. Even trying makes you lowlife scum. If she has a boyfriend, she's off limits.

You talk to them by opening your mouth, saying some stuff, and then let her react to it. Sit there and ask her questions - anything that you can think of. Discuss what is on your mind at the time.

Take it slow and don't try to get her in the sack on the first date.

MSD · 10-09-2004, 08:30 PM

Fortunately for him, getting good grades does not depend on reading the rules or practicing common sense.

10-09-2004, 08:22 PM	#1 (permalink)
Lag Messiah Banned Location: Canton, MI	me and my girl problems hey all of you, i'm a long time reader of tfp, this is i believe my first post here. hi Ok, so let me just give you some background on myself, I'm 15, i live in michigan and are a sophomore in high school. I get a 4.0, work for the school radio station and I'm on the track and field team. I'm about 5'9", 190 or so (i would classify myself as "somewhat fat", after all im a thrower for track) but thats not a problem, i dont really care, and i'm pretty sure that i'm somewhat visually pleasing (not ugly). now, on to my question. I've recently been interested in several different girls, and i'm having problems. first of all, im pretty sure all of them have boyfriends. is there a viable way i could make them like me? or am i wasting my time? secondly, how do i talk to these girls? i try to bring up stuff a teacher did, or stupid stuff going on or whatever, but how do i "keep the converstion going"? thirdly, when i get a girlfriend, how do i not come off as some sex crazed freak (i definatley care for the feelings of others and would never use someone, cheat on someone, etc)? sorry for all the quotation marks and parentheses, and thanks. and i don't mean to come off as some stupid high school kid who doesnt know what hes talking about.

10-09-2004, 08:29 PM	#3 (permalink)
TM875 Addict Location: Amish-land, PA	15, eh? Well, now you're gonna get banned. Anyway, you're not going to get a girl to change her mind over you. Even trying makes you lowlife scum. If she has a boyfriend, she's off limits. You talk to them by opening your mouth, saying some stuff, and then let her react to it. Sit there and ask her questions - anything that you can think of. Discuss what is on your mind at the time. Take it slow and don't try to get her in the sack on the first date. __________________ "I've made only one mistake in my life. But I made it over and over and over. That was saying 'yes' when I meant 'no'. Forgive me."

10-09-2004, 08:30 PM	#4 (permalink)
MSD The sky calls to us ... Super Moderator Location: CT	Fortunately for him, getting good grades does not depend on reading the rules or practicing common sense.