sushiboy

Come on, admit it!

I have used an escort service a few times, and it is getting addicting.

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Jim Kata

I haven't, but have thought about doing it plenty of times. If I didn't have a girlfriend, I probably would try it.
One of my friends has these sweet sweet young spanish girls come to his house. $30 for 15 minutes and they do whatever you want. It has been tempting since I haven't been getting as much sex as I want...but it is still cheating so I haven't.

absorbentishe

Have thought about it, but never have. My brother tried the bunny ranch in vegas, and said it was great, if that counts.

sushiboy

The Bunny Ranch is a blast...a little pricey, though

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Xepidemic

but the bunny ranch is in carson city, nv not in vegas

NeoSparky

don't we all pay for it in one form or another?

stonegrody

I don't think I could. Not to knock anyone who does, just not my style. I'd rather know the person or be involved with them. I can see the allure of having sex with a complete stranger and I probably would, but paying for it just makes the whole thing seem too business-like.

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Meier_Link

I wouldn't pay to have sex with a girl. Now two girls, that just might be worth it....

tmurph

definitely two gals...never one...rather take my chances on a 2 a.m. last call...

kutulu

If I was single I would strongly consider getting two hookers or "escorts". In that situation I think it would be worth it.

SilverScooter

this is true. it's that "one form or another" that we all need to be careful of. are we paying for it in the form of time and affection or is everything (sex included) an issue of how deep our pockets are? if you're paying for sex at the bunny ranch, fine, to each his own. if you're paying for sex because your significant other will love you more if you buy her jewelry and take her out for dinner every other night, then you've got yourself a bit of a problem.

to answer your question, no i have not directly payed for sex. there have been cases where i've spent countless days with my girlfriend (sacrificing nights out with "the boys" and whatnot) and there have been cases where i've payed for dinners, movies and big carnival stuffed animals; i've always been more than willing to pay these expenses.

sorry about my up-on-a-soapbox-inspirational-after-school-special post, sex is just something i feel is a very big step in a relationship and hopefully you can all see why i can't trivialize the answer to a post with a sweeping generalization.

nicion

I have paid for sex various times in various countries. My thoughts on this subject would make for a very long post... but to summarise:

The way I see it, paying for sex without any emotional attachment is roughly equivalent to masturbation - it in no way compares with sex in the context of a loving relationship.

Neptune

Never have, and probably never will.
I don't like sleeping with anyone who is not really into me. Wanna hear a secret? A hooker loves you for your money and that is it!

thunter

I can never get enough but I never have. It has crossed my mind though. I'd be into it just for the sex nothing personal with the woman.

htwhite

I pay for it through the nose everyday of my life. Out of my paycheck I get on average 20 dollars to do with as I wish, the wife and kids take the rest....If only I had listened to mom when she said dont buy the cow when your allready getting the milk, I thought she was to innocent to know the truth, boy was I ever wrong.

ShaniFaye

I find it really interesting and sad that you consider that you're making a "sacrafice" to spend time with your girl

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Irishsean

If I just wanted to get off, I could always just jerk off. Theres something more when your with someone you love. Paying for it just wouldn't be the same.

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ibis

You beat me too it. That's one of the reasons I rarely pay when I go out with girls. I can take care of me, you take care of yourself. Now if I start to devolupe serious fealings for a chick, then I'll pay.

doncalypso

I've paid for teh services of prostitutes in the past back in high school because at the time I was very single, horny, and couldn't get a woman to take any sort of interest in me even if the fate of the universe depended on it.

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Aladdin Sane

That's it in a nutshell. Wanna know a secret? Sex for me means giving her pleasure. Nothing gets me off more than helping her get off. Knowing that she is really into me sexually is the hottest thing there is. That's why I've never paid for it and never will. The very act of paying makes it not interesting to me.

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CityOfAngels

Am I the only one laughing at this time frame?

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blar

lol true i have to agree with you there

filtherton

Jerking off is free and legal.

Jim Kata

Its not like you are going to want to take your time to make sure she got off. She is a prostitute. She is there to get you off.
I highly doubt I would be concerned about giving her a good fucking. I am the one that would be paying for the orgasm. And plus, its not like I would get a freebie just for fucking her good. 15 minutes is plenty of time for me to bust my nut. And if I wanted more time, I would just shell out more money.

sushiboy

Good for you.

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sushiboy

I think that is an obvious statement. I don't think escorts are there to be your girlfriend

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TheFu

I was thinking the exact same thing. LOL

sushiboy

HOLY CRAP!?! What?!? Why didn't someone tell me this before?!?
(can you sense the sarcasm?)

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eribrav

Two points: First off, you're paying a prostitute not for sex, but for leaving afterwards.

Second, when you compare paying for sex and "getting it for free", paying for it ends up being a lot cheaper in the long run.

tom12

haha i dont have the money, however if i did i just might

tritium

Maybe someone else will comment, but I feel that paying for sex is like paying to play russian roulette. Maybe the hooker is relatively clean, but maybe she has the nastiest strains of herpes simplex and AIDS in the world...

It could be that I'm fairly niave -- probably true -- but I'd feel safer sharing sex with somone I know, and could trust.

Any comments?

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Mojo_PeiPei

^^^

Good point. The other week I was at a party, there was this vixen. Only problem was it was a well established fact that she had clamidia. Some moron I met was talking it about getting with her and I quote ,"Fuck it, I have a rubber and health care."

I wasn't so much sold on the prospect.

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Strange Famous

No... the whole idea just doesnt seem that sexy to me, and I dont think I would want to sleep with anyone who'd do it just for money.

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pmkuon

Paid for it bunches of times during the Vietnam war. $3.00 for all night. Two to mamasan and one to the lady. Had lots of good times. I was much younger then.

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slimshaydee

I would go a less attractive chick before I paid for a hooker.

Stompy

I would if I didn't have a girlfriend (after all, sex is sex), but I'd be paranoid about diseases and shit.

Condoms do pop, ya know!

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Heavy

Ok...is no one else scared to death of catching something???

Maybe I am missing something here but it seems to me you may as well put your dick in a blender.

adam

Fear of catching something is an issue, but a bigger issue is that you don't connect with these people. Why bother having sex with someone I'm not connected to? I might as well masturbate; safer, easier, cheaper.

mo42

I never have and never will.

Sex for me is a marriage-only thing. And I may or may not be the only one in TFP that feels that way, but I'm sticking to it.

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flagbomb

I'd never do it

Too expensive...
no emotional connection...

yea