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Originally Posted by NeoSparky
don't we all pay for it in one form or another?
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this is true. it's that "one form or another" that we all need to be careful of. are we paying for it in the form of time and affection or is everything (sex included) an issue of how deep our pockets are? if you're paying for sex at the bunny ranch, fine, to each his own. if you're paying for sex because your significant other will love you more if you buy her jewelry and take her out for dinner every other night, then you've got yourself a bit of a problem.
to answer your question, no i have not directly payed for sex. there have been cases where i've spent countless days with my girlfriend (sacrificing nights out with "the boys" and whatnot) and there have been cases where i've payed for dinners, movies and big carnival stuffed animals; i've always been more than willing to pay these expenses.
sorry about my up-on-a-soapbox-inspirational-after-school-special post, sex is just something i feel is a very big step in a relationship and hopefully you can all see why i can't trivialize the answer to a post with a sweeping generalization.