spit or swallow... which do you prefer?
 

Women:
For those of you who didn't already answer this in the Ladies' Lounge.

Men:
Which do you like your lady to do? Does it matter?



My wife would rather just swallow... she says she's already tasting it anyway, so why spit it out? And it's less clean up.

As for me, I don't really care. I'm just thankful as hell that she enjoys pleasing me in that way!

I'd prefer if she swallowed, had one girl finish it off that way and it felt so much better. I'm tired of having to tell her I'm ready to blow, then just having it finished by hand. But my wife has this thing about the little swimmers, damn science shows and their microscopes. But she makes up for it in other ways!!!

Swallow. But I'll take it however I can get it! :)

Don't really know, never had a spitter. I guess that could be kind of distracting.

Don't care. It really doesn't make any difference for me..

Swallow. Yes. Swallow. Definitely. Swallow.

I think I'd say it doesn't really matter. For me, Flieaway spit it out one time, but that's only because she was totally wasted, and she had been molesting me all night, so I figured to let her have her fun. I think when she spits it out, the guy feels kind of rejected in some subconscious way maybe? I dunno, my psychology class never went into that...=p

If I have a choice I'm gonna Goo all over her. In her hair, on her face and tits... straight porn style. But I never have a choice so I guess I'll go for swallowing.

Yeah,you know sometimes the swallow is good (everytime the swallow is good) but you know, I get just as much a kick out of chicks that tease and lick my dick then squeeze poor Willy 'til they get it where they want.Win-Win I'd say.

ditto.

My previous girlies have pretty much all been swallowers. I think once they get horny enough, they let their inhibitions go and just enjoy themselves.

i prefer swallow, much less cleanup and less stains.

I enjoy it when a woman swallows......unfortunately, my wife doesn't even like the taste, so swallowing is definitely out of the question.

I think the real question should be warn or swallow. I mean I do not understand women who will take it into their mouth and then spit it out. Why? I mean the worst part (I assume.. never done it personally) would be the taste ( and maybe the sensation of it comming into your mouth.. at any rate by time you are spitting you are past the worste of it) I have only been with one girl and she was an obsessive swallower (when she would actully finish... damn tease) so I dunno.

well ariekitten swallows... and shes good enought at it that i would be happy even if she didnt... shes damned good...

Swallow...Yup....Swallow all the way

give me a woman, 10-20 minutes, and i'll get back to ya....

It makes no difference to me.. As long as "she" keeps me inside her mouth untill the ride is over, I'm good with that.

"She's not sucking my dick.. She's just holding it in her mouth untill the swelling goes down."

Is this a trick question?? Swallowing definately, but at the end of the day it doesn't matter, as long as one of us has gotten off...

It really does not matter to me either way, as I am married and I don't think married couples are allowed to give each other oral.

Back in college a swallow was a nice 'I like you' kind of thing, but it really did not matter what happed to the chowder after it had passed.

isn't that just in Texas?:):)

I prefer her to swallow, but hey however i get it. Thankfully i have a swallower right now.

Whatever. If she goes down what difference does it make?

Swallow. Only cuz I love my honey that much.. :D

On review, this was not a subject I should have commented on online...

Uh...
I don't think I'm allowed to answer this question.
Swa...

Doesn't matter to me either way really.

Swallow! Nothing breaks the mood like hawking up something that came out of your body.

My wife swallows mainly, but it's cool to do her tits, and cum on her face, chest, in her hair...it goes all over. That's OK from time to time.

just happy that she goes downtown... a swallow every once in a while would be great, but she's not really into it, so i don't really force the issue!

Never had a girl spit. I can't imagine that happening, I think i'd be horrified. There's just something about pumping it into her mouth that caps off the whole awesomeness of the experience.

I believe you need to start drinking Pineapple Juice. Women, Am I right in this?

Doesn't matter. If she's happy, we're both happy.

This is totally how I would go. I think I have not been corrupted by porn, I have just been shown in non-physical, visual means which sex ideas I prefer.

Unfortunately... my wife barely ever goes down on me. It took her a year of dating just to even consider it. She definately wont go to the end, let alone spit or swallow.


oh well...

I am much more sexually experimental than she, and I have never been able to work out some sort of I do this to you, if you do something to me deal. I just have accept that it aint gonna happen.

ya knoooooow...if she swallows she could still grow a baby in her tummy.
:smiles wryly:

I have never spit only swalloed. I don't see the point in spitting you already have the taste in your mouth? Doesn't make much sense to me.
Amethyst

Swallow. I don't get spitting either. The penis is already in the back of one's throat (at least usually, at that point) and when the man cums, it seems easier to just take a gulp and be finished. Sorry if that sounds kinda cold and clinical, but that pretty much sums it up.

There is just something about when she swallows that I really like.

To be completely honest, I love it when my girlfriend swallows.

It's understandable if she doesn't want to, and I'm not upset if she doesn't, but it's a plus if she does. It really shows that she wants to make you happy even more, and is willing to take that extra step to do it. Now, granted; I do enjoy it, but I'm not going to force her to do it at all. What I'd rather do is to let her decide what she wants to do and not to pressure her at all. If she wants to swallow, she can do it. If she wants me to finish in her mouth and then she spits it out, so be it. If she wants me to finish on a towel or something, I have no problem with it. Just the fact of knowing that she's willing to put the time and effort into going down on me is satisfaction enough for myself.

jesus man.

Water, water, water...LOTS of water! I am drop dead serious men...drink a lot of water. TRUST me on this...
Ahem, I think I answered the question there too. ;)
*blushes*

Thank you Angel...
-aquaman

You are welcome.
"Aquaman" That made me laugh!
You're a quick student B

Doesn't make much difference to me just don't stop :)

whatever you eat will have an effect on how your gametes taste... I've heard the pineapple thing too.

I had a gf that ran to the sink after each bj... and it is distracting.

I have never had a spitter just swallowers. Though, my last girlfriend disliked the taste of semen and would only rarely finish me off that way. It definitely felt better when she didn't interrupt it.

Just taking the time to do that for me at all was enough to make me a happy camper. :)

hmmm, we should have also talked about snowballing a combination of spits and swallows.........love em both

Really, at that point my job is done and however it proceeds from there isn't really my problem.
Just joking, I'm a big fan of the swallowing and luckily so is my wife.

never had a blowjob worth a shit.

Spit, swallow, it's all good. Depends on what the moment demands.

I mostly spit, but my bf doesnt mind. I give him oral to please him and thats all that really matters. I try not to breath from my nose onces his boys are swimming in my mouth..that way I cant taste it and then i spit. It tastes pretty nasty, and if you swallow..its 100x worse..for me anyways. Its like taking a shot of whiskey and tequilla at the same time. Blah.:P

Wouldn't know, never had a girlfreind who would or could finish me off oraly:(

I'd take either if I could get it. My girl hates the taste. :(

One of my old girlfriends used to get up when I came in her mouth and run to the sink to spit it out. I found it hilarious(not in a demeaning way). Now my girflriend swallows it and tells me it tastes good. I think I prefer feeling like it is not a bad nasty thing that has to be spit out.

They have to swallow...it makes me feel sort of honoured

My wife doesn't take any semen in her mouth at all, but it doesn;t matter to me because she keeps it in right up until I start spraying, and then it gets all over her and she starts rubbing it in and it's just good overall. . .

Question for you guys -

i have no problem having my bf's penis in my mouth whilst he's ejaculating, and i happily swallow whatever's there...

but what about those times when there's some spillage, say on his hand or his belly or whatever...

as soon as it's exposed to air, it gets more gel-like, and it's that texture i just kinda have a problem with.

but, i worry if i'm being rude or a bitch for gettin kinda squeamish about licking it up... ?

(ps) clarification - i don't say 'eww gross' or anything like that (obviously rude and bitchy) i just smile and say no thanks and i'm all nice about it, and i've explained to him why, and it's not him putting any pressure on me, i just wonder if i should just try do it anyways or if it really doesnt matter (i do clean him up with a towel rite after, like i said, i'm real nice, really!)..

i dunno.

guys?

thx! :)

When people say spit or swallow I always thought it was an expression. Swallow meaning the fishies get swallowed. Spit meaning they finish you off by hand. I have never heard of a girl that actually spit it out after it was in her mouth unless it was a "OOPS".

edit: Most of you are lucky. Mrs. Kata doesn't even like touching my fishies. Of course, that is unless I am drawing a map of hawaii on her back or stomach....she doesn't complain about that.

Best. Analogy. Ever.

My wife prefers the "let me know so I can get the out of the way". I squirt so hard and so much it gags her, apparently.

At least, that's the line :D

Swallow. I hate spitters. I can't fully appreciate a bj if it isn't finished off properly.

Trust me, the guy just got his rocks off, orally no less. He shouldn't be conscious enough to care about you wiping him off with a towel instead of your tongue.

Swallow. Spitting isn't exactly classy (and yeah, a lot of fun sex isn't that aesthetically pleasing if you stop and think about it, I admit), and swallowing seems to allow more stimulation during and post orgasm.

I don't care what she does with it, it's up to her. As long as she doens't break the whole rythm of the blowjob, I personally don't care. If she doesn't want to swallow, go spit it in the toliet! It's all about orgasming in the mouth in first place ;D

Most definitely swallow. Granted, we really can't be picky about this... :-)

To be honest, I don't really care as long as she doesn't spit it onto my stomach. Now if they accidentally choke and gag on it, I say go ahead, dearie, spit it up.

Ok leading onto another question:
What is the most objectionable thing about cum or ejaculation?

Maybe:
the taste?
the texture/feel?
humiliation?
getting it in the eyes?
scared of bodily fluid?
....

Also to all the guys, have you ever tasted any of your own produce before?
you can hardly expect a girl to swallow if you can't ;)

also sometimes girls hate it when its in there hair? whys that? i thought the protein would be a very good condtioner so they should appreciate it ;)

I prefer to swallow.
:D

My last girl friend spit and swallowed. My new one though, wont let me cum in her mouth. I miss that feeling :(

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Dammit, I've apparently been maried for a few years and had no clue. Thanks for the heads up :)

thank you ;)

True enough. I tasted it once, was blown away by how foul it was, and changed my diet dramatically. I haven't exactly tasted it since, but it sure as hell smells better!

My lady swallows .


I couldn't imagine spitting.


What if there was nothing to spit on nearby?

My question is this. Has any guy whose girl swallows ever kissed his girl afterward?

And yes she can swallow or clear whats in her throat before you kiss.

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Kissed her and frenched her, she does not mind me kissing her after eating her, then i should not mind her kissing me after a bj.

Get the towel is the common saying in my bedroom.

Boooooooooooooo!!!

hey we always kiss afterwards.
He has absolutely no problems with it.

Which is good as that's usually just the start! ;)

Swallow.. My wife used to spit most of the time until a girlfriend of hers gave her some advice... now she packs a banana or 2 with my breakfast each morning... apparently the fruit, esp. bananas makes it MUCH better tasting than the normal onion garlic tomato concoctions I love for lunch. now, she drinks it down every time..

it's funny... my girl is more than happy to take it in the mouth to please me(which is way cool of her) she'll suck me dry squeezing the last drop out into her mouth, then she'll take her time to either go to the bathroom, or reach for tissue or tp if it's close by. I don't really mind either way, as I'm coming down from a great orgasm and just basking in the moment, heh.

myself, i'd prefer a girl to swallow.

Swallowing is good and all unless she is making horrible faces in the process or comments on it. Talk about taking you down from your high.

Hell, at this point, I'll take it any way I can get it.

whatever she wants is good enough for me.

After my current gf I won't commit to a spitter ever again. I can't even imagine being spit out now. Talk about rejection. When you go down on a woman,if you do it right, you gotta swallow some juice. No having the cake and not swallowing the icing too.

My ex once told me before I came:

"Come! Crawl up to me and unload in my mouth! I want to swallow them!" (in Chinese)

Well, the action was good, but boy what she said was even better! Jesus....

I love it when they swallow, but it's been a damn long time since i've had a girl do that. One gf would spit it out - current gf never goes that far with me (she'll give me a blowjob but never to completion). I kinda miss that. but she lets me cum on her after sex so that makes up for it.

Swallow- its kind of unfair for her to be so repulsed by the taste or something that she cant keep it in her mouth. ITs not like we can choose to spit out what we taste on them- its about equality.

Cast another vote for "it doesn't really matter." Given a preference, hell yeah! Swallowing is erotic, sexy and there's less mess. There's just something about a woman who _wants_ that from you. To quote a previous entry in the thread....jesus!

But... if it's really not her thing, I'd rather she doesn't pretend either, ya know? I'll usually try to get her to let me in on what does turn her on in regards to what happens with it and do that more often than not. Some women like to swallow, some like to feel it hit their tits, belly, ass, back, whatever. It's all good. =)

For the record, I'm fine as long as they hang out down there until I'm finished. But recently I had my first swallower. It totally blew me away!! Or maybe it was the fact that she said "yum!" and did a victory dance...

maybe something's wrong with me. but i'd prefer her not swallow. there's no special sensation from knowing that she does. she already finished me and has my piece in her mouth, why in the world would i feel rejected. she would finish me with it in her mouth, then spit. to me, it just doesn't seem natural. i mean i like swallowing her fluids and all, but it's just something weird about having her swallow. or maybe it's just me.

I don't care. I'll take it however I can get it. However, there was a good point made that if the girl already tastes it, why not just take it down. And yes, it is a lot cleaner.

What gets me are the girls that freaking crave cum and want to drink it like water.

I've gotten only a few in my lifetime, even though I've dropped for women several times... I prefer sex so it isn't a big deal.

Never had a woman swallow, but the girl has always finished the job. Doesn't bother me in the slightest.

As long as you are getting head, it doesn't really matter.

spitting it back out would be nasty to see

hmm i going to have to say swallow, although depening on the situation it could be satisfying to cum on her breasts face

My wife swallows. I like it. We kiss afterwords, no big deal.

To be honest I have never understood how it could be more pleasing for me if she swallowed, so its never been an issue with us, just doesn't matter either way to me.

I swallow. I think it'd be rude to spit it back out. I mean,guys don't go around being dainty when they go down, why should I?

I swallow. I think it'd be rude to spit it back out. I mean, guys don't go around being dainty when they go down, why should I?