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visotech · 10-04-2004, 06:18 PM

My girlfriend and I have just reached a new level hah, shes going to come down in a few weeks to celebrate our 1 year aniversery (long distance!)...and we got talking and decided we wanted to spice things up with some toys... We went shopping togather (online of course) and ended up buying an 8 inch dildo, a set of vaginal/anal beads, a set of cock rings, and a small anal probe thing (free gift with order hah)....

Well any ideas on how to use these things without completly cracking up at first? Im a bit nervous about the dildo, i mean, its slightly bigger then me so for some reason it makes me feel nervous. Any hints with the beads, how exactly do u stick them in vaginally and how do you pull em out (fast, slow, while in climax?) Cock rings seem pretty straight forward, you just put the most comfortable size on before ur erect right? And one more thing, with our order we got a free gift of a small 2 inch anal probe thingy - I dont think my gf is too crazy about things other then my finger in there a couple times, should i ask her if she wants to have fun with it?

thanks!

im2smrt4u · 10-04-2004, 06:41 PM

About the beads: pull slowly! You aren't starting a lawnmower!

maleficent · 10-04-2004, 06:44 PM

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maleficent · 10-04-2004, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by visotech

should i ask her if she wants to have fun with it?
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I would -- you probably wouldn't want it sprung on you --

and with all the toys, lots of water based lube..

visotech · 10-04-2004, 08:58 PM

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I would -- you probably wouldn't want it sprung on you --

and with all the toys, lots of water based lube..

LOL, of course I would ask before I did anything like that, but do you think I should even bring it up now, or save it for another time, when we are more comfy with toys in general...lol

xxSquirtxx · 10-04-2004, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by visotech

LOL, of course I would ask before I did anything like that, but do you think I should even bring it up now, or save it for another time, when we are more comfy with toys in general...lol

If you are truly nervous about using such toys, then start with just the cock ring first. It might be wise to figure out which cock ring is the most comfortable for you before engaging in sex. lol I certainly wouldn't introduce/use all the toys in one session, of course. Also, it might be a really good idea to save the "ify" stuff (the anal toys) for when she is extremely aroused. She might be more open to them.

Redlemon · 10-05-2004, 04:12 AM

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Originally Posted by visotech

And one more thing, with our order we got a free gift of a small 2 inch anal probe thingy - I dont think my gf is too crazy about things other then my finger in there a couple times, should i ask her if she wants to have fun with it?

Who said that the probe had to go into her butt? You have a hole back there as well!

/tried it, liked it, didn't make me 'gay'

maleficent · 10-05-2004, 04:55 AM

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Originally Posted by im2smrt4u

About the beads: pull slowly! You aren't starting a lawnmower!

The visual I get from that one is making me laugh, especially because the Rolling Stones, Start Me Up is playing in the background...

Ok, back to the toys...

absorbentishe · 10-05-2004, 06:10 AM

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Originally Posted by im2smrt4u

About the beads: pull slowly! You aren't starting a lawnmower!

I have to clean my monitor now.

Just take your time exploring each other with your new equipment. Some things may work, and others may not. But communicate how it feels, and ask her to do the same.

visotech · 10-05-2004, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by redlemon

Who said that the probe had to go into her butt? You have a hole back there as well!

/tried it, liked it, didn't make me 'gay'

I wouldn't mind trying it but it seems kinda hard bringing it up, especially when its sort of more taboo for guys...

Redlemon · 10-05-2004, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by visotech

I wouldn't mind trying it but it seems kinda hard bringing it up, especially when its sort of more taboo for guys...

Glad to hear it.

For further information, check out the thread Aneros.

You probably want to get comfortable with the two of you using the other toys first.

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visotech Insane Location: San Diego, CA	Just ordered our first bunch of sex toys! any hints? My girlfriend and I have just reached a new level hah, shes going to come down in a few weeks to celebrate our 1 year aniversery (long distance!)...and we got talking and decided we wanted to spice things up with some toys... We went shopping togather (online of course) and ended up buying an 8 inch dildo, a set of vaginal/anal beads, a set of cock rings, and a small anal probe thing (free gift with order hah).... Well any ideas on how to use these things without completly cracking up at first? Im a bit nervous about the dildo, i mean, its slightly bigger then me so for some reason it makes me feel nervous. Any hints with the beads, how exactly do u stick them in vaginally and how do you pull em out (fast, slow, while in climax?) Cock rings seem pretty straight forward, you just put the most comfortable size on before ur erect right? And one more thing, with our order we got a free gift of a small 2 inch anal probe thingy - I dont think my gf is too crazy about things other then my finger in there a couple times, should i ask her if she wants to have fun with it? thanks!

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