09-24-2004, 11:23 AM | #1 (permalink) |
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Location: North!
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Watching yourself having sex
I keep telling my wife that it would be cool to get the video-cam out and film ourself having sex. It would be a good thing to watch rather than the fake porno movies and a souvenir for the years to come when we are a little older!
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09-24-2004, 11:46 AM | #3 (permalink) |
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I have. It is a very very very...enlightening experience. Just remember that you aren't a pornstar and neither is your gf, regardless of how hot you are. I hope you have a good experience with it, but it has it's pitfalls. I'm not saying don't do it, but when we did it we both wanted to erase it right away, as it was very unflattering to watch yourself pumping your hairy butt into your partner. IMO it's much better to right on top of the action, so perhaps you should hold the cam tho
Also make sure you get good camera angles....45 degrees, facing the foot of the bed from across the room on a tripod, is a bad angle. Trust me.
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09-24-2004, 12:12 PM | #6 (permalink) |
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My last apartment had two huge mirror closet doors that faced each other. It was cool because it created that trippy infinity affect. I convinced a girl I was dating to have sex in that hallway so we could watch ourselves go at it. She really dug it because she felt like a porn star. I have to admit, it was pretty friggin awesome. No video tape, just a living reflection. I may go for the video taping thing someday. It would definitely have to be gonzo style though.
(For those who might not know what "gonzo" style is, it is basically the style where the guy is holding the camera as opposed to a tripod or cameraman. What'd you think? The muppet? You perv...)
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09-24-2004, 12:55 PM | #7 (permalink) | |
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09-24-2004, 01:45 PM | #9 (permalink) |
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Location: No longer, D.C
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hmm havent done the whole video taping bit, but I think it would be much better to just use mirrors and reflections than an actual tape. That way you aren't just watching yourselves having sex with no other stimulation, but you feel it as you watch it.. Usually in that state of mind you care less and less what you look like. I mean, how many times has a guy penetrated a girl and immediatley thought of his hairy ass? Not myself, definatley.... My mind is definatley elsewhere... usually nirvana *grin*
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09-24-2004, 01:50 PM | #10 (permalink) |
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Its cool but takes some work to make it come out right. The guy pretty much has to hold the camera, and you want to have good lighting. If you're going for a real porno effect you have to have the $$$ shot, at least I think so. Its hard to hold the camera, keep the action in the frame, and do the deed without losing your balance at the same time so get her to help out as much as she can.
I watch our videos all the time, I think they're hot. My wife doesn't like how she looks sometimes but she's into it too. Who cares if you don't look like a porn star, have fun with it. |
09-24-2004, 04:10 PM | #11 (permalink) |
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Me last gf and I would use mirrors. I have one on the back of a dresser that I just need to tip up a few degrees and it works great. We used hand mirrors too. She loved to see me penatrate her and would always say that guys are lucky because it easier for them to watch. Never did video tape, though.
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09-26-2004, 07:06 PM | #12 (permalink) |
young and in bloom
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never filmed, but used mirror. highly encouraged =)
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09-26-2004, 07:23 PM | #13 (permalink) |
Insane
Location: Texas
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I've used mirrors and just can't get enough of it. I've also video taped but the wife erased it the next day.
A couple of weeks ago, I took some pics on our digital camera. Very good ones, at least I thought. But, you guessed it, she erased them all. Some were very good but she didn't want anyone to accidentaly be seen by the kids or her parents or anyone else we know. I was seriously thinking of saving them and putting them on here. I love watching myself have sex. Oh well.
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09-26-2004, 10:30 PM | #14 (permalink) |
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I know it's bad enough watching a tape of myself giving a speech. I can't even imagine taping having sex (if I had sex). Though I am one of those people who would be willing to try it.
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09-27-2004, 12:13 AM | #15 (permalink) |
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You will never know that inner exhibitionist unless your willing to try!!
What you don't want to do, unlike my good friend, is after being out drinking throw the tape in unannounced to show off for your buddy. It took me a bit off guard, mostly concerned for modesty (being face to face with my friend's tool on a large screen tv was... unexpected?). However, I must admit she looked mighty fetching - and I am a voyeur at heart - so in the end it was harmless and gave me something to kick around for a while,,,
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09-27-2004, 10:14 AM | #17 (permalink) |
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Haven't been able to, but I would like to and I think my girlfriend would go for it as well. the only thing that would stop her is the possibility of someone else finding it.
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09-27-2004, 10:41 AM | #18 (permalink) |
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Location: Northern VA
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I've never filmed it...but once I came out of the shower and my girlfriend proceeded to give me some dome right away. It was nice, but as soon as I looked in the mirror and saw myself getting it.......it was over real quick! I wish she would let me film us, but she isn't comfortable enough with seeing her body like that......too bad.
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09-27-2004, 08:35 PM | #21 (permalink) | |
More anal, less shenanigans
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Oh, btw, no videos here, either. Too scary. |
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09-28-2004, 08:47 AM | #23 (permalink) |
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Location: Native America
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I've been intrigued by the thought of seeing what I look like orgasming. Maybe if I had him take a picture right at that moment, but just of my face- but that could be a freakish image!
I would be way too critical of my body to watch myself having sex on tape. Maybe if I thought I looked perfect, but according to my husband, I'll never think that!
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09-30-2004, 09:47 PM | #24 (permalink) |
The Best thing that never happened to you
Location: Silverdale, WA
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I've never filmed me with a partner, but I have played around with the digi cam while enjoying some "alone time".
I didn't like the results. Certainly didn't do anything for my ego. But in front of a mirror!... That's a different story!
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10-01-2004, 05:12 AM | #25 (permalink) | |
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I direct you to this thread: http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=47027 It works on Digicams as well. As long as she doesn't take pics right after a format they're still there. Enjoy, and hide them this time. :P
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