onesandzeroes

this might seem like a stupid question, but how do you meet girls that you want to date?

My problem is I'm never into anyone I've just met (I can do small talk fine.. it's just not very interesting to me) and for someone I know well, it's just not worth the risk

is there a happy medium?

the other thing is I usually meet people through student organizations I'm involved in, so they're people I'm going to have to work with...

telekinetic

Places I've met girls:
Sister of a friend, friend of a friend at a couple parties, several girls at parties, members of my car club forum, girl at work, girl at works friend, and a stripper at a club (she gave me her number).

I don't know how to tell you to meet people, you just asked how I met the girls I dated.

If you're worried about futzing up relationships with friends, but have friends that are girls, get them to invite you to parties they know will have single girls

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skills1

I just meet them from other friends and family and if they seem like they're cool and everything, I'll just talk and go from there.

ruggerp11

I had one pass me her number at the liquor store the other day (I work there). That felt pretty cool. I think I'll call her

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