09-16-2004, 08:16 AM | #5 (permalink) |
Insane
Location: Kansas City
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I'm pretty quiet, but love to hear my partner being vocal and loud. It definitely turns me on.
Here's another question that I need to run a poll on: Is there a connection between loud laughers and being loud in bed. I came upon this thought the other day, and the more people I talk to about it, the more I think I might be on to something. If it's true, think of how fun that could be. You hear someone you work with laughing loudly, and you could know they're loud and crazy in bed too. Just a thought. |
09-16-2004, 05:04 PM | #7 (permalink) |
The Pusher
Location: Edinburgh
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I'm very quiet, I don't usually make any sounds except heavy breathing. I'm not sure why that is. My partner's very, very loud, she's a screamer, and sometimes it can get a little scary, to be honest! She wants me to be louder, and I'm working on being loud and vocal without sounding lame.
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09-16-2004, 05:21 PM | #8 (permalink) |
Filling the Void.
Location: California
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I'm typically quiet because most times I've had sex, we had to be quiet in case we heard someone getting home (hate living with parents). I like getting into though and being loud when I can, since being quiet is just a bad habit.
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09-16-2004, 05:26 PM | #9 (permalink) |
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Location: Hell if I know
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I loved it when my (edit: Ex-)girlfirend was loud, but we usually had to keep it quiet because we were usually doing it while while her parents were home(they were usually asleep though), or at my house with my parents home. But when we were somewhere all alone, she got really loud and I did to sometimes.
edited due to a change in tense needing to be used....
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09-16-2004, 07:18 PM | #11 (permalink) |
Oh shit it's Wayne Brady!
Location: Passenger seat of Wayne Brady's car.
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I love it when a girl moans in pleasure, but for some unfortunate reason, I can totally tell when they're faking it, so that kinda kills it. Not that I mind them faking it, but KNOWING that they fake it kills it.
As for me, I vary from different types of sessions. If she's going down on me, you hear me moaning, and all the "Ohhh yesss" and sometimes a "You're a pro!" when I'm feeling a little risquey, hehe. If I'm making love, then it's usually, "I love you sooo much," more stuff to increase the emotional experience than the sexual experience. If I'm just fucking, I'll only moan if I'm enjoying it. If the girl asks, "Do you like it?" then I might fake some moans and say something like, "Of course, baby!" Hehe, nice topic by the way. |
09-16-2004, 07:33 PM | #13 (permalink) |
Irradiation for fun and profit
Location: Controlled access area
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I'm typically pretty quiet, though it does turn me on when my gf is making noise (though she's fairly quiet as well, only really gets loud on big ones).
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09-17-2004, 04:57 AM | #15 (permalink) |
Femme Fatale
Location: Elysium
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I make a lot of noise - especially when I cum. Loverboy on the other hand only makes noises when he reaches climax which is a big turn on
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09-17-2004, 10:48 AM | #17 (permalink) |
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Location: Ontario, Canada
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I will make some noise when something feels particularly good. This helps to let the girl know that you really enjoy what she is doing. I love it when a girl I am with makes some noise. The more noise the better. Unfortunately I have gotten a noise complaint at my apartment for "Loud verbal and thumping noises" late at night. And the guy who used to live below me would pound on the walls quite often... Ahhhh the joys of apartment living...
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09-17-2004, 11:06 AM | #19 (permalink) |
Keep on rolling. It only hurts for a little while.
Location: wherever I am
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We are both pretty quiet now. Kids are in the next room. Used to get a little loud before we had the rugrats.
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09-17-2004, 12:18 PM | #20 (permalink) |
soaring
Location: near the water
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I'm a bit more vocal, which has taken me a while to get to. When i first started having sex i was still living at home and it was normally during the wee hours of the night. We both had to be quiet so as not to wake anyone up, or get caught for that matter. Now that i'm on my own, it's fair game, as long as music's turned on, roomie doesn't care!
It is a turn on for me to hear a lover make any noises, moans, sighs, gasps, all music to my ears. Agreed, i don't like it if it's forced though As long as we're both enjoying ourselves.
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09-17-2004, 12:53 PM | #21 (permalink) |
Tilted
Location: The Hammer
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I'm usually very quiet... maybe a slight gasp or a groan when I orgasm.
I love it when the girl I'm with is loud though! Sometime that's all it takes to push me over the edge. My only hang-up is worrying about whether someone else could hear us... Even living together in an apartment I would sometimes worry about how loud my ex was, and it would dampen my mood. But if there's no chance of being overheard, let 'er rip! |
09-17-2004, 01:44 PM | #22 (permalink) |
Sauce Puppet
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i'm rather quiet, will let out a gasp, or groan if it feels good. My SO is a loud one though, screamer, such a turn on. Too bad for us, her roommate has had to pound on the wall multiple times, and my neighbor (across the way, not the one next to me) has had to come knock on the door at 4:00 AM to ask us to keep it down. At my place when she starts screaming I'll put a few fingers in her mouth or give her a kiss, cause asking her to be quiet kinda ruins the mood.
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09-17-2004, 02:37 PM | #23 (permalink) |
Crazy
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The wife and I are pretty quite, though I do encourage her to be a bit more vocal. The hottest thing I have personally ever encountered was my first year living in an apartment with my wife. The power went out one night and suddenly there was a LOT of loud moaning coming from the unit across the hall from us. AFAIK the lights went out and the girl across the way suddenly found herself in the living room in the dark with her beau and decided to make the best of the situation. She was so loud that you could hear her three stories down! Wish the wife could let go like that =)
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09-17-2004, 10:30 PM | #24 (permalink) |
Banned
Location: Tucson
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Sex sounds in general really turn me on. I've gotten my girlfriend to get louder over the years, and now she says it really helps the experience, so now she has no problem being loud. I love hearing her moans and breathing, and I try to be loud for her as well.
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09-18-2004, 06:12 AM | #25 (permalink) |
Upright
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my lover and i recently had a conversation about this very subject. i've always thought i was really loud during sex...in my mind i'm moaning and gasping and calling out his name (or god's). he tells me, though, that i am very quiet...just the occasional change in breath and maybe a few little bird-like chirps every now and then. how funny is that? i'm all wild and loud in my head, but in reality i am as quiet as a mouse. i had nooooo idea! he, however, is very quiet...i strain sometimes just to notice changes in his breathing to alert me of the big moment.
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09-18-2004, 02:24 PM | #26 (permalink) |
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Location: One step closer to the padded cell...
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I love it when my fiance starts to get a little louder. Tho sometimes after I've gone down on her and stayed there for a good 20 or 30 minutes she has almost bit thru a pillow trying to keep herself quiet.
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09-20-2004, 08:53 AM | #27 (permalink) |
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Location: under a rock
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I make noise the whole time, and always have been, which has led to everything from "Ssshh" to the fingers-in-the-mouth method. My man is quiet, though, right up until the moment,
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09-21-2004, 07:51 AM | #28 (permalink) |
Still Crazy
Location: In my own time
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I make hardly any noise when I'm orgasming, other than some deep moans or grunts or something on that level. I'm normally on the quiet side anyway, so I don't make a lot of noise, but I do like to hear my man talking to me or expressing himself in some way. The best memory was laughing together through the whole time from the pure joy of it.
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11-18-2004, 06:07 PM | #30 (permalink) |
Crazy
Location: Aliso Viejo, California
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i'm pretty quiet but i love it when she's loud.
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11-18-2004, 06:17 PM | #31 (permalink) |
Thank God hockey is back
Location: Deeeeeetroit
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i'm not usually that loud because i'm trying not to bust and get her off several times and my girlfriend is pretty loud, i like it she likes it, she wants me to be louder though. its hard though when she wants me to pull out i need to concentrate :-p
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11-18-2004, 06:17 PM | #32 (permalink) |
Tilted
Location: Louisiana
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All the guys who complain about their girls being loud - just put your hand over her mouth. I had a girlfriend who was really loud and the walls in my house are thin so I had to keep her quiet. I'd just press my hand against her mouth, sometimes even covering her nose too so that she couldn't breathe. She loved it
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11-18-2004, 07:28 PM | #33 (permalink) | ||
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Location: Central PA
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anyway...my wife has always been the quiet one but i think its cause she always had to before we got our own place...as for me i will be somewhat loud if it were really good and if she is somewhat vocal even if she is quiet to other ppl. |
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11-18-2004, 11:17 PM | #38 (permalink) |
Cosmically Curious
Location: Chicago, IL
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I love to be loud and I love to hear it! Bring on the noise baby.
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11-19-2004, 03:36 AM | #39 (permalink) |
Insane
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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I tend to be too loud for a dorm situation. My SO has had to put his hand over my mouth a few times to tell me to be quiet. I've also been told by people who live around me that they can hear me. Given half a chance, I'm quite loud.
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11-19-2004, 06:09 AM | #40 (permalink) | |
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I like making noise and I get turned on by a few well put groans...and I don't usually care too much if we're being overheard
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