HLP

Hey, you find the clit and your on your way. My girlfriend says she LOVES it! And since its so great she gives me oral on a regular basis.

So tip to all guys... get good at oral sex and you shall recieve some great head!

Missy

I certainly love it but its not a necessity all the time....some guys are WAY better than others at it.

Lockjaw

I guess I'm one of the wierd guys. I like to give but I don't like receiving.

I don't like kissing after a woman has been downstairs. I dunno it's all in my head but I just get creeped out by that for some reason.

quagmire

I gotta say: on some level, I really lucked out! my girlfriend has said to me, and I quote

" I think the penis is the best toy ever invented, and I love giving head. "

So, needless to say, I really like this girl. Actually, I just wrote a huge post about her... She's never climaxed in her life from anything but the touch of her own hand... She can't come during sex, and the only thing that gets her off is masturbating (and even that's not a sure thing)...

...so, way up on this post, I was reading that women often have self-image problems that translate into an inability to relax and let go during sex/foreplay. I really think that might be the problem my girlfriend is suffering.

What I really want to know is: how does one accelerate the healing process for someone with pre-damaged self-esteem?

I think she's a beautiful girl who's one of the most incredible people I've ever met. not to mention, one of the cooooooolest chicks i've ever dated.
{she looks good in tight jeans, drives a mustang, drinks beer, makes more money than I do, and she likes me} there's way more to her than that, but those are the fun things to mention.

Willravel

I guess I'm wierd, too. I enjoy the feeling that I am pleasing the woman much more than I enjoy sex. The better she feels, that more I love it. I don't mind kissing after anything, either (unless it's after eating beets, eww).

Alyssa

I'm not to hot about receiving or giving..I went out with a strict catholic for seven years who felt that oral sex and fingering were the only pre-marital acts he could do without going to hell or something...so when you have so many years of nothing but those things, I guess it's like hearing a song repeat itself too many times...it just wore on me and now I don't like giving.

I feel kind of bad with my new guy (of 13 months now) because he wishes I was more into it, I dunno...maybe I still have issues to get over with the ex.

StickODynomite

I think you'd be surprised.

I really enjoy it.. and well, my SO is very happy about that. I'm just glad that he's always eager to give as well.

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danbiles

I'm having an affair with someone who absolutly loves giving head. I've never met anyone like her. Sometimes she will keep me inside of her until I climaxed three times. Does anyone think this is a put on, or does she really like it that much?

summerkc

My wife doesn't like it as well because she feels too far away from me and not as intimate.

CunningLinguist

Jesus, have you proposed yet? I'd be real surprised if she doesn't truly enjoy it... Question is, what does she get in return? If she doesn't get anything in return, there's a slight possibility that she's simply trying to please you. If she requires penetration afterwards, or any kind of return favor she obviously enjoys it very much.

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CunningLinguist

I just wish more of the girls I were meeting weren't so self concious and would be more open to receiving. I'm beginning to feel age is a big factor and in the late 20s most women finally become comfortable with who they are and what they want... Unfortunately, I'm still attracted to the younger, active girls

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Mephisto2

My wife agrees.

You just have to be careful and in the mood. :-)


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Missy

I diagree...at least in my case...I love giving head. I think I'd rather do that than receive. I just like pleasing my partner and getting him off.