Has porn ever affected your actual sex life?
 

I must say it has positively affected mine. When I lost my virginity, I knew exactly what I was doing, and my girlfriend at the time didn't believe that I was a virgin (although she also attributed it to the fact that I lasted over an hour). My ex was real big on porn, and once in awhile she'd say, "Hey, I saw this one position in that porno you bought me. Let's try it!" More oft than not, such an occurence would lead to amazing sex. Also, if it weren't for porn, I wouldn't know that for some odd reason, I get especially hot when the woman I am having intercourse with has her legs completely spread wide open. I saw that once in a porn movie; it excited me; I told my ex, and she incorporated it into our love-making.

Same sort of experience for me. My first partner thought I was quite the expert (not that she was necessarily qualified to make that opinion). You can learn alot from your old man's magazines.

Not for me, really. I was a bit worried in my first relationship that I wasn't able to get turned on by her, seeing as she wasn't a 'perfect' (airbrushed) woman. I was worried that only porn did it for me, but later I attributed that to being nervous, inexperienced, etc.

Since then I don't think it's really affected me, positively or negatively. Almost every suggestion I have had has been shot down by my partner, she assumes (sometimes correctly) that I've seen it in porn and that 'normal' people don't do that sort of thing. I wish I had some stories like everyone else here, perhaps that will just come in time.

No grand effects here either. Before we had our daughter my SO and I used to watch porn movies from time to time, kind of as part of foreplay. They gave a few ideas here and there, but no far-reaching changes.

Ooh, I take that back: I learned two interesting (if not useful) things: She kind of liked orgy movies, and she definitely liked MMF. I guess it's the girl version of the standard male fantasy... ;)

I guess porn helped. I can last longer, I don't get blue balls, and I know what I'm doing (at least I think so :p).

its kind of been a bad thing for me.... everytime i get in an elevator with a hot girl i cant figure out why she isnt stripping me down... or when a pizza gets delivered... i dont get a bj.... and i have a hard time believing that when i come home from a hard day at work and find my gf and her friend at ny house that they arent stripped down and riding a double dong... its weird... its like porno doesnt reflect real life

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The $$$ shot is a big turn on for me, and I guess it wouldn't be if I had never watched porn. And my first introduction to titty fucking was from porno. So I say :thumbsup: to porno

It bothers me when a guy watches porn and then comes into the bedroom all hot to trot after having had minimal to zero interaction with me all afternoon and evening.It feels sort of like being used a human kleenex or something.

porno taught me everything i know.... all girls love the taste of cum... all girls like it in the ass... they love it when u pull out a splatter their face with the baby batter... they all have a best friend that they love eating pussy with and that a plumber firefighter and pizza delivery are some of the coolest jobs on the planet... oh yeah they really love a good dp with you and your horse hung buddy

makes everything more interesting for mine. if the wifey sees something interesting in a porno, its time to try it out.

Not really, flygirl isn't into porn at all. Not even the light stuff. She's not a stick girl like the skanks in the videos so she get's down on herself becasue of it. I think that's the main reason why. I wouldn't maind trying to spice things up a little though.

I can't really say it affected me, and to say that you learned how to do it from porn is nonsense.

In porn they do stuff for the viewer's pleasure, not the actor's pleasure. The stuff they do in porn is just not fun in practice, for example, the way they eat pussy.

So the virgin girl thought you were an expert, big deal. If you learned what you knew from porn it was not good at all.

Porn is definitely a huge inspiration for me. The industry always seems to come up with new positions and introduce new type of toys which I always buy/immitate. Some work - some don't. The main thing is that the industry inspires to try something new :)

I find myself obsessed with giving my girl a facial finish. Anyone else? :o

well, I say that porn has affected my life in a large way.
Things I have no time to do cause I'm looking at porn:
study
sleep
eat
watch tv

Things I can do because of porn:
masturbate without my imagination
last longer than my gf during sex

I have to say from getting married to a woman who has never watched porn it has definitely made her more adventurous in the bedroom and given us both new and creative ideas. We watch it together sometimes and it usually leads to other things :) But you want to look at the girly kind of stuff first; some of the stuff out there is just weird and not a turn on for everyone. Another thing that can lead to conversations and trying new things the "The Sunday Night Sex Show" on Oxygen, and as an added bonus after this you can watch "Bliss" which is softcore show that can help to wet her appetite for other things. Or at least it worked for me.

i can tell you that since i have started looking at porn..its been a while...even though i am 18, i have watched so much that my tolerance has built up alot! also learning such things like how to eat girls out and how to get the g spot has all been from watching porn.

so i owe it to you ron jeremy and also to you jenna jameson

Hell, the nurses don't offer to blow me, so it's really affected my perspectives on things such as that.

Well, I too don't have hot business women telling me that they'll suck my cock to get the deal they want, so it hasn't helped me in that manner. However, I have led a very active sex life and can last longer, know how to please my partner(s), know what I can do to myself when alone and enjoy it, and don't have any particular phobias or hangups about anything sexual. It has made me more open minded and willing to try new things in the sack.

I don't know whether it's from porn or not (I'd been looking at porn for a long time before I had sex), but I can usually last quite awhile and am very open-minded about sex. Really the biggest effect that I've seen has been in my sex life with my g/f; we have been known to occasionally watch some together and now and then we'll see something new to try. Basically don't make it your over riding passion and realize that that isn't how it's actually done, but also realize that you can learn a thing or two from it.

I yell at my girlfriend more... "Suck it bitch... Take that... You like that... Lick my balls cunt..."

I feel guilty, because I've done this. I have some good excuses though. I do regularly interact with my wife, and I usually end up having gone without anything for 2-3 weeks. And, she usually goes to bed 3-4 hours before me. Those are good reasons, right? She hasn't ever objected to me gently 'attacking' her after hours too...

I like porn. My girfriend will watch it, and sometimes, it even does something for her. The problem with most of it is that it isn't for the pleasure of the women. Not even the "lesbian" stuff. In conventional porn, women don't come. Or at least they don't make as big a deal as when the guy comes. Even if they don't fake it.

We mostly like porn with real looking people, and where the girl is empowered, and a guy who doesn't look like a dirtbag who knows how to make her come. Problem is, that kind of stuff is really hard to find.

You should post what you've found so far. I, for one, would be interested in trying the same material with my wife to spice things up a bit and see what happens.

It's definitely got my last gf excited. When she was out of work, I would come home and she would practically jump me cause she was watching my porn collection all afternoon. Opened her up to trying a few new things, too. Porn is good!

My ex was very anti-porn. She made me throw EVERYTHING away before we moved in together and not long after that, she began to check my history file on my computer. Needless to say, I am glad she is gone - she was a little tooooo controlling and perhaps a bit toooooo jealous.

I can last for a long long time, but when the girlfriend and I are on the fritz, I become very frustrated.

Porn was a major factor in my sexual education so I guess that was the benefit, yet it also had some pretty fucked up effects on how I viewed sex and women. Still de-programing myself from that.

Porn has had a farely bad effect on my marriage - not necessarily my sex life. Mostly it hasn't effected my sex life because I'm a nympho and can't get enough of it - even if I feel (and yes I know this is all in my head) that my husband is comparing me to the girls on the website.

Rachel

Porn is interesting to watch, but I wouldn't say that I learned all I know about sex from it. The only thing that I saw in porn that made me want to try it in real life is anal sex. Other than that, I'm not into eating ass or cumming all over a woman's face like they show it in porno movies.

In my current relationship, my girlfriend and I watch porn more for fun than arousal---we usually act as film critics and comment on the techniques used, whether the women's breasts are real or fake, and on whether the women are truly enjoying the sex or not

I cannot watch porn anymore. It's to sad. In my many years of watching porn I have yet to date a girl that
1) Enjoys facials
2) Enjoys it in the ass
3) well u get the idea

Not to say I have a boring sex life at all, just not having much porn sex and so it is too sad to watch. :(

Jeez people...other than the ladies, aren't there any guys who think porn is gross?..I'm 16 years old and had sex once, but christ almighty. I don't see any point in porn. All it is is people getting paid to have sex. Therefore, whats the point in getting off to that? It's not really pleasure sex for the people doing it, so why should you make it that for yourself? And just so ya know this is a male submitting. alrighty cyaaa

BANNINATED! LOL.
16...sheesh.

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