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Sweet mbchills give yourself a break. This was your first time and you were nervous. No biggie. I'm convinced that next time you'll have no problems performing what so ever :)
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aw thanks :D
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i was the same the first time. I was way too nervous to enjoy it. After a few more goes at it you'll get used to it, and the anxiety goes right away. And hey dude, be thankful you didnt finish before you started like some guys on their first time :p
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I second Nancy's advice...
Although I've never actually had sex, though... |
Best advice...simply chill out. Let it flow.
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Trampoline, huh? At least your first time was quite original ;)
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performance anxiety relax, chill, it will work itself out |
Thanks fellas, im doing her again tonight, Im pretty sure I'll do fine.
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Well, if you need any help with her, give me a ring! Haha.
Have fun man. |
Don't forget; birth control is your friend. Maybe not being able to finish was a good thing...
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In other news.. you're fine. Just work on your wording :rolleyes: |
one word, protection... My bro just had his second child with a woman that doesn't even love him, be careful, and don't believe her if she says she's on the pill, it's not uncommon for them to lie, my girlfriend did... (I was luckier than my bro, no babies for me)
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Have fun, and relax.
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What they said... BTW... loose lips sink ships. Your friends (or hers) DON'T need a play by play.
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The nerves will go away with time. Just keep doing it. The more you do it, the more comfortable you will get with yourself, your partner, and the action. My first few times and usually my first few times with someone new are exactly the opposite of yours. I generally get hard and no matter what, can't climax. I feel awful, because it ends up being very embarassing to the woman in my observations. They've always taken it as if they were doing something wrong, despite my saying otherwise.
Just keep at it, and everything will get better. |
I didnt come the first time i had sex either. dont worry, it happens to the best of us.
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first time I got a blowjob I didn't finish either. after that, it was smooth sailing
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Sex can be a big change in someone's life. I wouldn't know.
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well, if you get a talented girl, it's worth the wait :thumbsup: of course sex IS better, but you can't always get sex. oral is way easier to get and give, because not everyone is gun-ho about penetration in their nether regions |
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The only advice I can give you is to relax so you don't suffer from performance anxiety. Also, I'd recommend that you jerk off before you go have sex with her so you don't get too "trigger-happy" before doing the deed. And finally I'd recommend that you focus on trying to please her with oral sex rather than on getting your dick hard... Trust me... if she likes your Tongue-Fu skills you'll be so turned on by her moans and her enjoyment that your dick will turn into the Sears Tower before you know it. |
The first time I did it, I didn't even know I was in her for a good minute :o
When I realized it, I busted within another minute. Every other time for the next couple of months either lasted forever, or I simply didn't finish. |
I had similar problems because someone else was asleep in the room. But once we got in our own room it was all good (It was actually the room next to mine (in a suite in a dorm), and it was the last day of school. The guys over there we gone for the summer already.) Perhaps you should consider doing it somewhere more seculded than outside for your first time.
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so how'd it go?
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I agree with Maleficent: "She's not laundry - -She's a person..." Your libido is probably trying to tell you something's wrong about your relationship with her. Sex can be for recreation, but it works so much better when it expresses love, along with desire.
If you were relaxed and "making love" with your lover, everything would work fine and without the nervous anxiety you're having. |
Also, you were probably just a TAD nervous. This isn't something to rush.
My first time, we used an UNlubricated condom. Bad idea. She wasn't quite "warmed up" yet and things were a little rough. Needless to say, we figured out what to use. To help your libido, just relax, remember who the person is. Focus on the woman that you are with. Remember - this person is sharing an act that is as intimate for her as it is for you. Be patient, and remember - FOREPLAY is important. For you AND her. |
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