Straight guys: ever want to give a blowjob?
 

I've decided a while back that I'm sexually transfixed by fellatio. I'm straight and in my thrirties, and only have had sex with women. All my porn is hetero.

I can't shake the urge to give a guy a blowjob. I really want to do this sometime. I guess this makes me bisexual. I only want to give not recieve.

Anyone else here have this urge? I don't think I would ever do it, but the fantasy is there. I mostly fantasize about women sucking me, or me fucking them.

Anyway, the post is out there now... let me know what you think.

i'm a straight guy, but i can admire a sexy looking guy, and i can even picture myself kissing a guy, but i seriously don't think i could ever go down on a guy. i mean, i'm obviously not homophobic at all, and it has nothing to do with being gay, i just have no interest in it. kind of like the taste of semen. i've tasted it once out of curiosity, but thought it was nasty and have no interest in tasting it again.

this is an interesting question though, and i'd like to hear what other guys think.

I have never wanted to or fantasized about it buuuut I know i would be good at it, as I have a very small gag reflex.

I love women too much I guess.

kinda funny how I'd be willing to just jump on a girl and go down on her with little hesitation, but even in my fantasies, if I were to go down on a guy, he'd have to 1) have a very similar dick to mine, 2) be absolutely clean.. fresh out of the shower and 3) be cute and very nice to me.

Only to myself.

i could never go down on a guy.. i dont even want to see another man naked in the same room as me. at that rate I wouldn't even go down on a girl after she'd been with another guy.. thats just nasty in my opinion.

Ovenall- If you are having sexual fantasies about other men, even occasionally, you are at least a little bit bisexual. It's not a bad thing, just different.

If you have the urge to give some guy a blowjob, I say go for it. He'll probably return the favor.

not to be snarky but i don't know ANY women who enjoy the taste of semen either -- it's not exactly a taste sensation :). I enjoy giving blowjobs and i even swallow but i don't sit around thinking "yum yum!"

I can only say this. If it was something my wife/GF/lover really really really wanted to see, I would probably comply. I'll try anything once, but it would have to be a spur of the moment. No way I could plan for that to happen. I aim to please!~:)

can't say i ever have, i guess it's just not my thing. However, i suggest ya go for it. You only get one go on this planet.

I've given one. I didn't finish or anything and it so long ago that I don't remember how it came about. I'll never do it again. Mainly because I didn't have the desire to do it in the first place.

I really don't agree with this. There is such a double standard in our society about this. A woman can kiss another girl, grope another girl and even go down on another girl and be completely straight if she's just "experimenting sexually". But the second a guy wants to experiment sexually, they're gay.
There is a thread about this called "Sexual Preferences" in the Ladies Lounge. A lot of girls say that they *do* want to go down on another girl but they're only interested in the sexual act. To be bisexual, for most women, it seems that you have to be interested in a relationship aspect or have romantic feelings for other girls.
Why can't men go by the same standard? I know not all guys are blind to other men's looks and I doubt that 90% of guys are repulsed by the body of another man. Saying that you'd be interested in something like that anonymously in an online community won't make your dick shrink :)

I concur with Trisk, I would do it as a sexual act only and by no means am I gay. I'm not even bi sexual, but if doing something will drive my lady crazy, hell....I'd do it. Besides, how would I ever know if I like it, if I never try it. Just haven't had any chances or requests. Unlikely I ever would. Like I said before, it cannot be a planned thing.

(Blonddie just sits here...NOT 'Planning' anything...really... NOT 'planning'.....:suave: )

LOL...sounds like you're up to something!!!

Nope.... don't think I'll ever do anything sexual with a guy.

No thanks.

:eek: What me???? Never........ :suave: :D

Well, i've known two who so loved the act of pleasuring me, that the ejaculate actually excited them further and made them very happy to have caused it. I'm nto sure that taste was the motivating factor, but the happiness was there.

The person you quoted said "bisexual". Bisexual is not gay. Look it up if you need to, but it does not mean gay. Gay is completely different.

I always assumed it was pretty natural to think about it. I've thought about it, even talked about doing it with people, just never had the desire to really go all the way and do it. I don't think that wanting to do it even really makes you bisexual. I think it just makes you a bit more open with your sexuality and a bit curious. If you continually think about it or actually do it, then I think you're bisexual.

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It's odd, but I'm the complete opposite from degrawj. He says that he could see himself kissing another man but not giving hima bowjob.

I'm the opposite. I could definitely see myself going down on another guy (if the favor were to be returned), but kissing him would be out of the question. I think this is an odd phenomenon, but maybe it's not as odd as I think...has anyone else felt similarly?

I think it's because kissing must seem more intimate for some reason...dunno.

I don't think I could bring myself to do that to another guy, however if I could reach my own dick, it'd be on!

Maybe if there was a hot chick involved and, like, my clone... But even that is iffy.

takes some practice & effort, but it can be done... Not really worth it though.

I really have no desire to go down on a guy no matter what the circumstances.

Definitly not me. Not even kissing for me.

I'm not sure if I'd do it to myself, if I could reach. Probably not. I'd fabricate a 'mouth like' object first. I've always sort of wanted to try to make something like that, but never looked into it.

HM... No kissing and no 1 one 1... but in a heated situation with my wife and another couple...... could do that, but not finish him myself.

Ultimately BJ him together with my wife (or other hot chick) or occationally "touching him" if he did my wife while we where in a 69.

Damn! Hot outside, wearing thin boxers and shorts while picturing someone entering my wife....sitting here at work with a raging hardon hoping I won't have to stand up for some time ;-)

I'm pretty much the same way. Kissing would be way too intimate but giving head would just seem like sex.

It's not a "double standard" as you call it, it's an inherent difference in men and women. It frustrates me to no end that some people desperately must make men and women exactly the same. Reality is that women are more fluid in their sexuality and can have same-sex relationships yet be genuinely heterosexual. This is rarely true for males as sexual orientation is quite polarized. And the catch-all response of "Society! Society! Society!" is not satisfactory. Since when did nature fall by the wayside so much? Sexuality is not quite the tabula rasa that the mind is from birth.

I haven't really thought about it, but I suppose I can't rule it out completely. I'd probably have to be a situation where the possibility came up before I could really decide.

I would like to try, but it would have to be under pretty strict conditions. It would have to be someone I didn't know as a friend, but someone I could trust... that is pretty hard to come by.

I'd do it if the wife was there helping. But I don't think I could kiss another guy,that would be gross

*shudders* you are all terrible people!

I expected this thread to be 100% dudes saying no way that’s gay, but nobody did. I'd never thought about it before, but it made me think, and I gagged “ a lot “ and felt disgusted. Now I dunno why I gagged and felt disgusted, but I’m now completely sure I wouldn't want to do that just a personal preference is all!

Good luck with that. I'd be willing to place money on the idea that you'll go down on a girl that’s not a virgin sometime in your life if not you're the exception not the rule.

It took a trip to www.dictionary.com

but I agree.

tab·u·la ra·sa ( P ) Pronunciation Key (tby-l räs, -z)
n. pl. tab·u·lae ra·sae (tby-l räs, -z)

The mind before it receives the impressions gained from experience.

I have always tried to imagine what it's like for my lover, and to be willing to experience whatever I want her to experience. For that reason, I'd probably be willing, BUT. I can't imagine having a relationship with a guy were it could come up. I have been propositioned by gay guys, and I had no inclination to try that experience. So it would have to come up in a group thing, and my wife is sure set against such every happening. So I'm pretty sure it's an experience I'll never have. But, as I said, I do try to imagine what it is like for her.

I consider myself straight, but in my youth was very experimental and therefore have given a guy a blowjob. I figured if I didn't try it I was limiting my experiences needlessly. I haven't done it in about 17 years, but I honestly can't say I would never do it again.

I'm not attracted to guys, so I'd have to say I wouldn't consider doing something like that, unless on lots of drugs :q. I have kissed another guy before, but nothing intimate, so I guess that doesn't really count either (It was to see two girls make out, definately worth it).

Having sex with someone of the same sex does NOT make you gay or bisexual. The only way you could be gay or bixsexual is if you have feelings that go beyong sex. Feelings that you truly care and want to spend your time with that person.

giving another guy a blowjob is pretty gay i mean if you have the ugre to give a member of the same sex head then youre at least somewhat bisexual..

I was eating this banana once, and I really got into it.
Not because it was shaped like a penis, but because I really like bananas.

That's about as close as I've ever wanted to get.

I read somewhere that *most* heterosexuals (male and female) have had some thoughts about some sort of intercourse with a member of the same sex. Don't know how true that is and I believe it would be VERY hard to get an accurate poll of such a thing. Some people are too macho (for lack of a better word) to admit they have had such thoughts - even if they would never act on them.

I have thought about it, but have never done anything...

Yeah, i agree with you in the social standard part. i mean, if you think about it, in ancient societies such as the greeks, having relationships with a man as a man is consider the purest form of love. in that aspect, most respected/prominent greeks do have boy lovers. to them it's natural. i believe this signifies that sexuality is often defined by the society. despite the "i'm not homophobic but..." it is almost innate to us (men mostly) to admit attraction or appreciation of/to a homosexual relationship. //two cents

Can't say that I have, but whatever floats yer boat.

I've thought about it but not at length. although, when I was about 14 a friend and I pulled a stunt on our girlfriends with a hotdog.. yah... if you pull a prank like that you kinda have to think about it.. oh man, you shoulda saw the look on their faces when the hotdog got bit in half...

I would never do it. I am straight, but can appreciate the male physique (since I am a bodybuilder, I like the way muscle looks on a man, but no sexual feelings whatsoever). The thought has popped into my head, but I think that every guy on the face of the planet has contemplated whether or not they are gay/bisexual. I realized; I am not. I like the womens only (sexually).

I am not interested in doing anything even remotely sexual with a guy. So no.

The thought repulses me.

Well Hal I'm sure alot of guys would fit the bill being clean and nice but as far as the other comparison you'll probably have to start looking on a farm for candidates.
LOL

alright I seemed to have gotten jumped on for my statement.

The reasons i'm saying ovenall has bisexual tendancies (which he says so himself) are:

1. Same gender sexual fantasy

2. Implied by the words "Urge" and "fantasy" I thought that this act turns Ovenall on.

3. Willingness to act upon said fantasy.

Trisk, I believe that girls that kiss/grope/go down on other girls are similarly bisexual as men that would do those acts. I think that the comfort level is just different for women than men towards same-sex sexual play. This is strongly influenced by our society, but probably has genetic factors as well.

The labels of "gay" and "bisexual" seem to be clearly defined in some people's minds from what i've read here, and are different from my own perceptions, so i'll try to explain my own point of view.

I see our sexuality as a point on a scale from heterosexual to homosexual, Bisexuality being right in the middle. Most people will fall close to the heterosexual side. Depending on what you are willing/turned on by, you can shift all the way to homosexuality. I have trouble seeing that people are born either hetero, bisexual, or homosexual and nothing in between. Or that limitations on what makes a gay man or lesbian woman homosexual.

Munku, I disagree with your statement. I love my best friend deeply because i've grown up with him and we've supported each other, but I have no sexual feelings for him, nor him for me. Male bonding would be gay under your restrictions of homosexuality. If male bonding is gay, what then seperates gay men from "straight" guys with friendships with other guys?

All i'm trying to say is that there is a lot of misinformation and plain confusion about what makes us straight or gay. I'm not saying my opinion is right, but that it's just a different perspective on this issue.

I can honestly say I have never had the desire to and even if I did I do not believe i would ever act upon it. But to each is own.

This thread reminds me of a joke from Carlos Mencia (Take a Joke America)

"Goddamnit, anybody willing to suck MY dick is a good person.

I'm not saying I'm goanna let you, I just like the thought behind what you want to do.

[Guy looking at him funny]

Sir... don't look at me funny, what if tomorrow there is a plague and every woman on this planet dies?

You're jerkin off... I got a friend!"

:p

He'd have to be really clean and really muscular.

I won't lie. I've thought about it.

I think that Orphen made a good point. In nearly every society, both before and after the advent of Christianity, shows some homosexual activity. By homosexual, I mean a purely sexual experience with a member of the same sex. I really and truely feel that humans were not "wired" to be totally hetrosexual. I feel that, to an extent, this is largly something to come out of society and religion. I think if you want to try it, go for it! The worst that can happen is you find you enjoy it, which is NOT bad.

I myself have actually done it. I only did it once or twice, but I wasn't a fan of it.

Fresh out of the shower, maybe. Of course I've fantasized about it now and then.

I don't have the desire to do it, but I have wondered what it would feel like and if I'd be any good at it. I will admit, I tried it with my wife's dildo (which is 'regular sized'), and I didn't realize just how far you have to open your jaws. I'm more impressed now that my wife doesn't mind giving blowjobs.

beejay, I have to agree with you. In theory (in a small dark corner of my brain) I have fantasized about having sex with another guy. And we're talking full blown sex, you name, I see myself doing it. The problem in reality is I must have a really high standard for what I consider an attractive male, because the guys I run across, I just kind of go "ugh, no thanks". Now women on the other hand, I don't think I have any standards....

like a few others I've thought about it, but no I'd never do it.

I have thought about it. Not all the time, just sometimes "pops" into my head. HA.

I agree with what halx said esp in regards to the similarity.

When I was about 12 or 13 a friend gave me a blowjob, which I didn't like, and I felt obliged to return the favor. I hated it. All of it. It grossed me out. For me, having sex with another guy is repulsive. Been there, done that. Never again.

yeah i kinda agree with this. I could never see myself with a man in a relationship. I dont want to kiss or even receive a bj... but for some reason i would enjoy giving one. Its totally sexual.

kinda odd, but whatever

Would it make a difference if it was with a transexual for all of you?
I think that that would make it a little easier for me, but the mindset of the person would have to be feminine. Otherwise, pretty much everyone has thought about it, (including me), but there is no interest in it.

What pocon1 said.

I know where you're coming from, so to speak. My problem, such as it is, is that I simply am not attracted to men. However, it's the secondary characteristics that make that determination for me, not the equipment. I could seriously consider blowing a hot she-male, but I don't thin I could do it with a guy (unless it were my clone, and that would be masturbation.)

/shudder

I give guys blow jobs all the time and i must say that theres nothing to frown about, i mean hey its really quite fun and tastes great. i think all men and women should do it all the time because its awesome.... I for one have no problem with one guy giving it to another guy and personally wouldn't mind watching it.

I think that's wonderful Cygnus, if you're ever in the Baltimore area I would love to let you further practive your craft further on me.

I don't care how attractive the guy is, I've never so much as even fantasized about giving a guy a hug let alone a BJ. The thought of another man's manhood anywhere near me just freaks me out.

I agree with Captain Nemo. I've thought about it (and tried it with a girlfriends dildo), but I just can't think of what type of guy I wouldn't be repulsed by. I can't look at a guy and tell if they are good looking or not. They all look ugly to me.

I cant say I've ever really thought about it, but no, I wouldnt want to do that

To be honest i think there are some very attractive guys out there. I too am a very active guy and in the gym 4 times a week. I take care of myself. I would probably expect the same from whomever it was that it was going to happen with.

Besides that I think it would be better if it was an attractive shemale.

Outside of that. never crossed my mind. I really like going down on women and enjoy it to no end.

I have been calling myself Bi-Sexual for almost 14 years now since my first experiment (first of many) I have of course given and recieved Oral sex from a man, as well as had some quite pleasurable Anal encounters as well, but....

At the same time I have never kissed a man or really seen one and thought to myself "wow...he's cute" although seeing a picture of a nice penis does get my excited. Now, for the record let me say that I have been married to a wonderfull woman for over 7 years now, she is bi-sexual as well. One of my biggest fetishes is to sit by and watch her have sex with other men or women (So its safe to say I'm "freaky" to start with :-P ) I am a great lover of women and all the beauty they provide to the world, and though my experiances with men have all been of a purely sexual nature I do consider myself to be "bi" though for the sake of my job and the area of the country I live in I am forced to live this life in reletive secrecy (though even here in the bible belt i'ts not hard to find a cock to suck...and they are ussualy attached to the most unlikely subjects)

Never. Men are filthy, I should know. Reading this thread, I had to supress my gag reflex. Hell, I can't even picture myself kissing/blowing/fucking another man. If I try, I draw a blank. I'm actually pretty thankful for that.

Thought about it... even fantasized about doing it..... i consider myself bi-sexual for all intensive purposes anyway.

I am Straight but i hav thought about giving a blow job and hav liked the idea, but i would be natural to wonder about those kind of things i think.

I've thought about it...but never seriously. Just kind of...in passing. Although I can't think of a situation where I would actually engage in such activities...I learned a long time ago to never say never.
Maybe a really hot shemale...I mean really hot.

I would under the right circumstances, haven't met a guy yet whose cock i wanted to chug, though.

I consider myself bi and have read a lot about it. I think the funniest "first time" stories I've read are accidents. The most common "accident" was a threesome with a wife and a friend, and unexpectedly there is guy-guy contact. The token response is, "I never even thought about myself even liking it. I assumed that I was straight, so I didn't even consider it."

So you could spend your whole life assuming you're straight and "miss out."

As I like to say about most apects of life, "O magnum mysterium."

To be honest, giving a bj never really crossed my mind. Whenever I am thinking about something in a sexual way, I am thinking of a woman. I mean I LOVE women.

Every guy should question his sexual prefrence, just to make sure you aren't missing out on anything you might enjoy. My test was watching a Brad Pitt movie with like 4 of my gay friends (among others). They asked, "What do you think? Would you?" I honestly thought about it. I considered what it might be like to think of another man in a sexual way (I didn't actually think about doing anything with one). I not only didn't like it, it made me really uncomfortable. "No thanks," I replied.

I am not necessarily saying that a mans curiosity to give a bj is gay or bisexual. But in my mind, it's close.

you know, I could give a long explanation as to why I wouldn't, or even think of giving, anything to another male, no matter the sircumstances or consequences.


but, instead, I'll give a simple no. I will say that I am not a homophobe, but simply confident enough in my sexuality to not be curious, not even a little bit.

I've thought about it, sure. I'm not particularly turned on by looking at men, but if a really close friend wanted to come to bed with me and my wife... maybe. There would have to be a close relationship first, though, because the sexual attraction on its own wouldn't work for me.

My wife has told me she feels the same way about women.

I can say I've honestly thought about sexual encounters with other guys. Doubt I would ever act on it but you neve know what life is going to present you with. Not really sure where my wife stands on the issue although I know she finds several females very attractive.

raging heterosexual, here. but have experimented a bit when i was in 7th-9th grade. i just like sexual things and have since i was pretty young. it was only one guy, my best friend, and i was way turned on by it back then. i think my friend and i just couldn't get any play and we were super-horny kids. and then it actually happened again a few years ago in mexico with another guy. my g/f at the time, my best (male) friend, the shower and an entire bottle of tequila were all involved. it wasn't great at all, and my heterosexuality was confirmed. i don't consider myself even bi, because i love women and their vaginas so much. and i know people who have had no experiences at all who think about it. to think about it is definitely normal as far as i'm concerned.

I've wanted to try it ever since I found I was able to go down on myself. I guess you could call me "straight yet curious", since I'm only attracted to women, only want to have relationships with them, but fun with the same side isn't 100% out of the question. ...More like 90%....

I think that's what glory holes are for...

You can give someone a blowjob anonymously. No kissing, no talking, just the experience.

Check out your local adult book store, they probably have some glory holes in the booths in the back

I'd be all for it if ever presented the oppertunity. Something about a penis that excites me... and perhaps the cumming part of it... and I'm pretty much Bi, though still a closet Bi at this point.

I personally would choose death over giving another guy head...but thats just me. Whatever floats your boat though.

I won't lie...

I would never suck another guys cock!
Judas Priest!

although I HAVE put MY cum to the tip of MY tongue and I pray to God and His Holy
minions that THAT does not make me gay!

I don't know what I would do if it did.!.!.!

:)
please smile

I think I would have to be put in that situation before I could make the call.

I can appreciate the male form. Most times from a strictly aesthetic point of view, but every once in a while. I think it has something to do with the intense sexual vibe he's giving out and I just get caught in the crosshairs. It hasn't happened too often, but it's happened.

I think if it were to become an issue, the fellow would have to be very clean and more than likely there would have to be a previous relationship there. I don't think he could be just some stranger.

I have done it. I was involved with a couple and I am coming to terms that I am bisexual. I haven't ever had anal with a guy and that's a little far fetched for me but giving and receiving head is not such a bad thing. I have never completed the act or anything but it's interesting eating a girl out while they are being fucked. Of course I don't run out and do this with any guy and it's been a long time since I've done it but like guthmund said, they have to be very clean, and very cute. It also helps if there is a girl involved. I like to take sexuality to new levels and not to be stuck in the same rut. This isn't for everyone of course but for me it's kind of exciting :)

DEATH??? Uh, I don't think so. After all, it can't be worse than eating broccoli, and I've done that.
:lol:

ive been wanting to try it for sometime now...started off as just admiring a big cock... penis envy if u will... but the more i think about it i would do it... it would have to be a stranger and definetly no kissing..... im very sexually open and i wouuld try almost anything... but i wouldnt go telling my buddies the next day at work about it like i would if it was a chick.... dude man it was awesome i met this guy and his cock was huge and i throated him for an hour it was soooo hot... so i guess im not that open

i call it kinky in the closet

Im serious, besides, atleast brocolli is healthy for you :p .

Have done it years ago. Prefer women but a hot trannie or she male I could again

Yeah I have fantasied about it. But don't think I would do it. It's only a dick attraction kind of thing. I suppose it's got to this point through admiring my own dick. :P

in one word no

nah i would not try it........but a similar question like this was asked in another board i visit. Ireally was surprised at the amount of guys that said they would go down on a guy provided it was only between them or if it was in front of their gf's

I've never wanted to give a blowjob to another guy. I can appreciate beauty or asthetics in any situation, but I could never have that sort of a physical relationship with another male. I simply am not attracted to it.

I'm curious if the thought of seeing a guy give another guy a bj would turn on any of the women here? It doesn't do anything for me but i know some of my gf's like the idea.

Not ever tempted, but curious what it would be like in an extreeeeemely theoretical sense - as in "if you could magically become a woman for 24 hours" or something along those lines.

Although if I could magically become a woman for 24 hours I have doubts as to whether I would ever make it out of the bedroom, having all those new toys to play with for a limited time - but that's a whole different thread.

I am a married male, and once gave a BJ to a pre-op transexual. I did it in front of my wife, before she had sex with him/her. It was a very memorable night. That said, I would do it again in the right situation.

yeah have had the thoughts of it. in reality, the guy would have to be like one of these cold, greek statue types you see modelling in GQ, and it would be purely sexual. kissing would be too intimate and not a pleasant thought