Ovenall

I've decided a while back that I'm sexually transfixed by fellatio. I'm straight and in my thrirties, and only have had sex with women. All my porn is hetero.

I can't shake the urge to give a guy a blowjob. I really want to do this sometime. I guess this makes me bisexual. I only want to give not recieve.

Anyone else here have this urge? I don't think I would ever do it, but the fantasy is there. I mostly fantasize about women sucking me, or me fucking them.

Anyway, the post is out there now... let me know what you think.

degrawj

i'm a straight guy, but i can admire a sexy looking guy, and i can even picture myself kissing a guy, but i seriously don't think i could ever go down on a guy. i mean, i'm obviously not homophobic at all, and it has nothing to do with being gay, i just have no interest in it. kind of like the taste of semen. i've tasted it once out of curiosity, but thought it was nasty and have no interest in tasting it again.

this is an interesting question though, and i'd like to hear what other guys think.

ruggerp11

I have never wanted to or fantasized about it buuuut I know i would be good at it, as I have a very small gag reflex.

I love women too much I guess.

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Halx

kinda funny how I'd be willing to just jump on a girl and go down on her with little hesitation, but even in my fantasies, if I were to go down on a guy, he'd have to 1) have a very similar dick to mine, 2) be absolutely clean.. fresh out of the shower and 3) be cute and very nice to me.

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NeoSparky

i could never go down on a guy.. i dont even want to see another man naked in the same room as me. at that rate I wouldn't even go down on a girl after she'd been with another guy.. thats just nasty in my opinion.

skier

Ovenall- If you are having sexual fantasies about other men, even occasionally, you are at least a little bit bisexual. It's not a bad thing, just different.

If you have the urge to give some guy a blowjob, I say go for it. He'll probably return the favor.

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brianna

not to be snarky but i don't know ANY women who enjoy the taste of semen either -- it's not exactly a taste sensation . I enjoy giving blowjobs and i even swallow but i don't sit around thinking "yum yum!"

Dawson70

I can only say this. If it was something my wife/GF/lover really really really wanted to see, I would probably comply. I'll try anything once, but it would have to be a spur of the moment. No way I could plan for that to happen. I aim to please!~

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cj2112

can't say i ever have, i guess it's just not my thing. However, i suggest ya go for it. You only get one go on this planet.

World's King

I've given one. I didn't finish or anything and it so long ago that I don't remember how it came about. I'll never do it again. Mainly because I didn't have the desire to do it in the first place.

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Trisk

I really don't agree with this. There is such a double standard in our society about this. A woman can kiss another girl, grope another girl and even go down on another girl and be completely straight if she's just "experimenting sexually". But the second a guy wants to experiment sexually, they're gay.
There is a thread about this called "Sexual Preferences" in the Ladies Lounge. A lot of girls say that they *do* want to go down on another girl but they're only interested in the sexual act. To be bisexual, for most women, it seems that you have to be interested in a relationship aspect or have romantic feelings for other girls.
Why can't men go by the same standard? I know not all guys are blind to other men's looks and I doubt that 90% of guys are repulsed by the body of another man. Saying that you'd be interested in something like that anonymously in an online community won't make your dick shrink

Dawson70

I concur with Trisk, I would do it as a sexual act only and by no means am I gay. I'm not even bi sexual, but if doing something will drive my lady crazy, hell....I'd do it. Besides, how would I ever know if I like it, if I never try it. Just haven't had any chances or requests. Unlikely I ever would. Like I said before, it cannot be a planned thing.

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DEI37

LOL...sounds like you're up to something!!!

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doncalypso

Nope.... don't think I'll ever do anything sexual with a guy.

No thanks.

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What me???? Never........

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analog

Well, i've known two who so loved the act of pleasuring me, that the ejaculate actually excited them further and made them very happy to have caused it. I'm nto sure that taste was the motivating factor, but the happiness was there.

The person you quoted said "bisexual". Bisexual is not gay. Look it up if you need to, but it does not mean gay. Gay is completely different.

repeater

I always assumed it was pretty natural to think about it. I've thought about it, even talked about doing it with people, just never had the desire to really go all the way and do it. I don't think that wanting to do it even really makes you bisexual. I think it just makes you a bit more open with your sexuality and a bit curious. If you continually think about it or actually do it, then I think you're bisexual.

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amire

It's odd, but I'm the complete opposite from degrawj. He says that he could see himself kissing another man but not giving hima bowjob.

I'm the opposite. I could definitely see myself going down on another guy (if the favor were to be returned), but kissing him would be out of the question. I think this is an odd phenomenon, but maybe it's not as odd as I think...has anyone else felt similarly?

I think it's because kissing must seem more intimate for some reason...dunno.

Meier_Link

I don't think I could bring myself to do that to another guy, however if I could reach my own dick, it'd be on!

Maybe if there was a hot chick involved and, like, my clone... But even that is iffy.

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animosity

takes some practice & effort, but it can be done... Not really worth it though.

I really have no desire to go down on a guy no matter what the circumstances.

todd

Definitly not me. Not even kissing for me.

I'm not sure if I'd do it to myself, if I could reach. Probably not. I'd fabricate a 'mouth like' object first. I've always sort of wanted to try to make something like that, but never looked into it.

freeload

HM... No kissing and no 1 one 1... but in a heated situation with my wife and another couple...... could do that, but not finish him myself.

Ultimately BJ him together with my wife (or other hot chick) or occationally "touching him" if he did my wife while we where in a 69.

Damn! Hot outside, wearing thin boxers and shorts while picturing someone entering my wife....sitting here at work with a raging hardon hoping I won't have to stand up for some time ;-)

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kutulu

I'm pretty much the same way. Kissing would be way too intimate but giving head would just seem like sex.

Anomaly_

It's not a "double standard" as you call it, it's an inherent difference in men and women. It frustrates me to no end that some people desperately must make men and women exactly the same. Reality is that women are more fluid in their sexuality and can have same-sex relationships yet be genuinely heterosexual. This is rarely true for males as sexual orientation is quite polarized. And the catch-all response of "Society! Society! Society!" is not satisfactory. Since when did nature fall by the wayside so much? Sexuality is not quite the tabula rasa that the mind is from birth.

MSD

I haven't really thought about it, but I suppose I can't rule it out completely. I'd probably have to be a situation where the possibility came up before I could really decide.

Harshaw

I would like to try, but it would have to be under pretty strict conditions. It would have to be someone I didn't know as a friend, but someone I could trust... that is pretty hard to come by.

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billwood

I'd do it if the wife was there helping. But I don't think I could kiss another guy,that would be gross

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The.Lunatic

*shudders* you are all terrible people!

I expected this thread to be 100% dudes saying no way that’s gay, but nobody did. I'd never thought about it before, but it made me think, and I gagged “ a lot “ and felt disgusted. Now I dunno why I gagged and felt disgusted, but I’m now completely sure I wouldn't want to do that just a personal preference is all!

Good luck with that. I'd be willing to place money on the idea that you'll go down on a girl that’s not a virgin sometime in your life if not you're the exception not the rule.

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Dale Kemp

I have always tried to imagine what it's like for my lover, and to be willing to experience whatever I want her to experience. For that reason, I'd probably be willing, BUT. I can't imagine having a relationship with a guy were it could come up. I have been propositioned by gay guys, and I had no inclination to try that experience. So it would have to come up in a group thing, and my wife is sure set against such every happening. So I'm pretty sure it's an experience I'll never have. But, as I said, I do try to imagine what it is like for her.

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erion

I consider myself straight, but in my youth was very experimental and therefore have given a guy a blowjob. I figured if I didn't try it I was limiting my experiences needlessly. I haven't done it in about 17 years, but I honestly can't say I would never do it again.

jmad

I'm not attracted to guys, so I'd have to say I wouldn't consider doing something like that, unless on lots of drugs :q. I have kissed another guy before, but nothing intimate, so I guess that doesn't really count either (It was to see two girls make out, definately worth it).

Munku

Having sex with someone of the same sex does NOT make you gay or bisexual. The only way you could be gay or bixsexual is if you have feelings that go beyong sex. Feelings that you truly care and want to spend your time with that person.

AfterBurn

giving another guy a blowjob is pretty gay i mean if you have the ugre to give a member of the same sex head then youre at least somewhat bisexual..

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fhqwhgads

I was eating this banana once, and I really got into it.
Not because it was shaped like a penis, but because I really like bananas.

That's about as close as I've ever wanted to get.

beejay

I read somewhere that *most* heterosexuals (male and female) have had some thoughts about some sort of intercourse with a member of the same sex. Don't know how true that is and I believe it would be VERY hard to get an accurate poll of such a thing. Some people are too macho (for lack of a better word) to admit they have had such thoughts - even if they would never act on them.

I have thought about it, but have never done anything...

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orphen

Yeah, i agree with you in the social standard part. i mean, if you think about it, in ancient societies such as the greeks, having relationships with a man as a man is consider the purest form of love. in that aspect, most respected/prominent greeks do have boy lovers. to them it's natural. i believe this signifies that sexuality is often defined by the society. despite the "i'm not homophobic but..." it is almost innate to us (men mostly) to admit attraction or appreciation of/to a homosexual relationship. //two cents

Johnny Rotten

Can't say that I have, but whatever floats yer boat.

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