Blue Balls?
 

So what exactly is blue balls? Like Ive had people tell me its when you go forever without ejaculating, and ive had others say its when youre on the brim of it, and she stops...

Im thinking its the latter.

Well does this sound like blue balls?

My girlfriend was over for about... 3-4 hours today and we were watching a movie on my bed. Weve only been dating a short time, infact just officially yesterday. But we'd start making out after i really turned her on by sucking on her neck and ears, i can feel it drive her crazy and then we start making out and grinding completely clothed.

Anyways, after awhile of this i start to get a bit of pre-cum and all that, shes my first girl friend so I'm thinking im a bit too eager, and this goes on for a few hours... Now shes gone and my crotch is like, achey. Ive masturbated after this and its gone away shortly after. But it takes effort to masturbate... like all my sex drive is gone...

Is this blue balls, and Im just way too eager to jump the gun so im extremely suseptable to it?

Blue balls happens when you have an erection for an extended period of time. Masturbation helps because you generally lose your erection after orgasm.

It happens because an erection actually puts strain on a pair of abodminal ligaments that connect to the base ofyour penis.

Yeah that deffinatley sounds like it... Its not exactly my balls but right next to my penis behind the pubic bone.. and since im wearing pants, and it generally gets pushed to one side of my pants that would explain why it only hurts on one side?

Thanks, i was a bit worried :p

And apparently i shared way too much info for a diagnossis :rolleyes:

A good friend, that was older than me, said if you aren't where you can masterbate, try to pick up something very heavy. Perhaps lifting up under the front of a car for a minute, he said he used to try to pick up the bank building!

Yeah, well how is that gonna look. Im walking back to my truck with her after some fun time and I start trying to lift it up.

"Yup still heavy!"

But actually I explained this to her and she thought it was hilarious what she was doing to me, and she lets me adjust myself now.

Blue balls is when the genitals are engorged with blood for too long of time. For the genitals to become engorged the veins constrict lowering the blood supply. After awile the lack oxygen causes pain.