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Trisk 07-27-2004 11:06 AM

I'm not really answering your question but...
Exactly how much of a reduction were you planning on getting?
I wear 34C most of the time and I have pretty wide hips. I have trouble fitting into a lot of clothing. A lot of pants that fit my legs perfectly simply cannot get past my hip area (and if they do, they look funky). I wear a small in a lot of things and I can't wear anything with a built in bra because most don't fit me right. A lot of shirts are made for either someone with a smaller chest or someone with a larger waist. I have to wear belts on most of my pants because they slide down my skinny waist and look funny.
So I mean...people are saying "get a reduction. C is okay too!" but that still might cause problems. Then there's the issue of your hips or butt area. Is that wide as well? You might find yourself dissapointed after getting a boob reduction because you still have clothing troubles.
I just want to make sure that you're thinking past "how much of a difference will it make to guys?"...

ratbastid 07-27-2004 11:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bookerV
... you can't exactly fit your dick between an A-cup...
You're just not trying, hoss! I promise you, it can be done, and done well.

I'm not a sizeist. My wife's an A. Our girlfriend's a DD. I like both ends of the spectrum very, very much. ;)

ShaniFaye 07-27-2004 11:17 AM

I just want to make it clear....Im not planning on getting a reduction...much as I would love to sometimes hehehe I wont do it

Prince 07-27-2004 12:15 PM

Men are visually stimulated creatures.

Do you like a big cock better than a small one?

Some women say they don't care. Some of these women might, of course, be honest...but for the most part, I doubt it.

powerclown 07-27-2004 12:17 PM

Quote:

quote:
Originally posted by bookerV
... you can't exactly fit your dick between an A-cup...

quote:
Originally posted by ratbastid
You're just not trying, hoss! I promise you, it can be done, and done well.

I'm not a sizeist. My wife's an A. Our girlfriend's a DD. I like both ends of the spectrum very, very much.
Russian with an A? It seems almost.......inconceivable!!!!!

ShaniFaye 07-27-2004 12:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Prince
Men are visually stimulated creatures.

Do you like a big cock better than a small one?

Some women say they don't care. Some of these women might, of course, be honest...but for the most part, I doubt it.

you are correct men are visually stimulated....Im a woman, I am not visually stimulated....and yes size matters to me....I dont like them much at all if they are over 7 1/2 inches because if you get bigger than that they hurt when you have the kind of sex I like to have....they can be beautiful to look at no matter what the size though

Penis issue doesnt come into play in this though because the dicks are actually used in intercourse so the size IS going to come into play for some women. At least thats my opinion anyway

Prince 07-27-2004 12:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ShaniFaye
Penis issue doesnt come into play in this though because the dicks are actually used in intercourse so the size IS going to come into play for some women. At least thats my opinion anyway
That's true, good point.

toxic515 07-27-2004 02:10 PM

well, everyone's different, of course, but the theory I tend to agree with is this: It is a exposed (at least somewhat) portion of your sexuality. It's a very easy thing to see breasts and think about sex, (as well as some freudian thoughts that we probably try to pretend aren't there). Larger breasts = more pronounced vision of sexual nature. Animals that walk on all fours have exposed genitalia to indicate times of fertility, we walk upright, so our femails don't have that, and there's not so much a breeding season, so... they have boobies... and yes, I do so very much like em....animals, that's all we are... hope my answer helps at least some.

Meier_Link 07-27-2004 05:26 PM

I'm attracted to big boobs. I like to play with them, bite them, rub them around. I especially like when we're going at it and they are bouncing up to her chin. That's gotta be the best thing about them.

motdakasha 07-27-2004 05:47 PM

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Originally posted by Doos
Very insensitive on your man's side, how would he like it if you walked around looking at crotches?
Wait, I look at crotches. Is that bad?

As for the question:
One of the universal definitions of beauty is symmetry. Similarly for boobs, I think it has to do with proportionality. If you've got sexy curves everywhere else but your breasts, it probably looks strange visually. So, if a person likes big breasts, he probably also likes an overall curvy and "fertile" figure on women. I think that answers the question, but in reverse logic. :?

xim 07-28-2004 09:13 AM

I dont think this is something that can be formulaicly explained why we like them, or like them big. Yes its true that you can get your dick between some big titties, but thats not the direct reason. When men look at a pair of boobs they go into a trance, like when watching tv. Its not so much that they're big as much as the fact that they are THERE. And when they are huge then they are SUPERTHERE.

Does that make sense? Sound like a stupid reason? Men are not complicated.

Redgirl 07-28-2004 01:57 PM

I know you directed this at men, but I like women too soooo... I just like them to look proportional on the woman. The body type I'm attracted to usually means they are a B or C cup. I don't have a fascination with really large breasts, and fake ones are a definite no no generally because they are too disporportionate with tiny girls wanting DD's and shit.

I don't view breasts independent of the person they are attached to. You hear a lot of men say "I like to play with them". I have never uttered those words, I don't think of them as something to be curious about. They are something to touch to make her feel sexy and good and that's how I think of them. So they help her more than me during sex.

My 2 cents... :D

Dale Kemp 07-28-2004 03:38 PM

Our tastes are partly instinct and partly learned from experience. My experience is:
Slender girls: more athletic sex (they bend)
Fleshier girls: More visually female, so they're nice to look at.

Larger breasts are significantly more visually stimulating. But large breasted women are neither better nor worse lovers. But they do look good when they show off their cleavage(s). That's why actresses, especially porn actresses tend to have big racks. More visual stimulation.

One thing a fairly large bosom does though, is make for good titty sex. But that's a very rare thing for this guy, so I don't much care.

A handful is nice. More is visually nice, but has significant drawbacks, as you've described.

I recommend you have them tightened up and reduced a little. Make yourself happy. Your lover won't mind much, if your breasts are still fairly large. C/D cups. And he'll appreciate it if you have them lifted or firmed up at the same time. He may even thing they got bigger.

Carno 07-28-2004 03:45 PM

I don't like big boobs. Large boobs are actually a turnoff for me. I prefer B/C.

The worst is when someone really skinny has massive fake breasts. Like a flat board with two bowling balls just kinda chillin out. Looks so unnatural.

Redlemon 07-29-2004 05:40 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Dale Kemp
That's why actresses, especially porn actresses tend to have big racks.
Just for a little hijack here: I've occasionally pondered why it is that (in general) porn stars are curvy, but fashion models are flat. The un-PC answer that jumps to my mind is that most fashion designers are gay men, but did I just say that last part out loud? Oops.

ratbastid 07-29-2004 12:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by powerclown
Russian with an A? It seems almost.......inconceivable!!!!!
You're going to have to trust me on this one.

hex1848 07-30-2004 03:43 AM

There is absolutly nothing like cuddling up next to some nice, big, fluffy boobs! they make great pillows.

RelaX 07-31-2004 03:11 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by redlemon
Just for a little hijack here: I've occasionally pondered why it is that (in general) porn stars are curvy, but fashion models are flat. The un-PC answer that jumps to my mind is that most fashion designers are gay men, but did I just say that last part out loud? Oops.
Wasn't there a thread on this board that said that upper class men preferred tall women with small breasts and small hips and lower class prefers big busted women with large hips? That might explain it as I've never heard a construction worker say "This weekend? Oh I can't cause I'll be in Milan for a fashion show".
Again, all very un-PC.

As for the original question... I don't what answer you are fishing for, but men are just wired to love big breasts. I could give the answers again, but they are already thoroughly explained in this thread.

My girlfriend has big breasts and I didn't use to be a breast man before now (I like a hot butt) but she sure changed me. :)

sashime76 08-03-2004 04:43 AM

A handful is perfect, if it takes two hands to hold one, one is bound to get lonely. ^_^

basmoq 08-03-2004 09:07 AM

big boobs suck, keep girls from doing sports and such, my sis and mom both complain often due to their large size. I want a little boobed girl

Flyguy 08-03-2004 03:01 PM

My wife complains about that too when she plays softball. Everytime I see her run around those bases, thay jiggle all over the place! She wouldn't consider a reduction since she's a huge advocate of breast feeding.

Vaultboy 08-04-2004 12:09 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by xim
When men look at a pair of boobs they go into a trance, like when watching tv. Its not so much that they're big as much as the fact that they are THERE. And when they are huge then they are SUPERTHERE.

Men are not complicated.

That sounds about right. My girlfriend is a 32D. I love her breasts. (Triumph did too). I've gotten used to the fact that whenever we go out, guys stare at them all the time. I dont blame them either. Its damn hard not to stare at them in all their SUPERTHERENESS.

She's proud of her boobage, but like Shani and trisk, she says its an inconvenience a lot of the time, especially when it comes to buying tops, etc. Plus she plays basketball.

Trisk 08-04-2004 12:27 AM

I used to have lots of trouble running around with my boobs because they'd jiggle and it really hurt...but then I discovered the wonder of small sports bras. I started buying sports bras that were almost too tight for me (I basically had to stuff my boobs into them). It really helped with the breast pain and the jiggling was reduced significantly....

I'd say "definately get all those complaining girls to do it" but sometimes it causes my back to hurt (20 minutes of running almost always guarentees this). I guess the super-tight bra + heavy breasts strains my back a lot. So...my body is still something of a problem when it comes to excersize, but it's better than before. Usually lots of arching my back and stretching can relieve the pain.


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