Men-how do you benefit if the boobs are big
 

First off I do realize that not ALL men love just big boobs, but for those of you that do...


why?

I have had big ones all my life...started wearing a bra in the 4th grade...was a 38 dd by the time I was 17 and at 36 Im a 42 dd..for the guys out there that say the bigger the better, I'd like to know what it is about the size that does it for you. Why would you choose a big breasted woman over a small breasted?

I would LOVE to have breast reduction...there are a ton of clothes out there that I cant wear because of my breast size, and it means that I either have to have something made for me, or deal with wearing a bigger size in somethings (like dresses that are one piece) just to accomodate my chest, for example, if I had a smaller chest I could wear a size 12 dress, the way I am I either have to buy a size 16 or buy my clothes in separates (blouses and skirts/pants) I see smaller chested woman and get jealous because I know they can wear stuff I cant... but yet some of them are jealous of bigger chested woman because the guys seem more attracted to them...and I just dont understand what it is about a breast where size would matter.

Dunno, I love breasts (all breasts) had a lot of big ones. They are just great to look at and even more fun to play with. I like having something I can grab and roll around in my hands. I like having something I can suck on and not get all of it into my mouth.

People say that more than a handfull is too much. I say that I have two hands for a reason, just concentrate on one at a time.

Yay for breasts.

They are fun to look at, fun to play with. Something about them just seems more sexual. Plus you can't exactly fit your dick between an A-cup, but you can with a D-cup.

Personally though, I'm not picky either way. I'm an ass man. Some boobs look better on some girls than others. For example some girls look way better with an A than a D, and vice versa. It's case by case for me...

I love boobs, and lots of 'em. What I prefer is smaller boobs. Yes, large ones are fun to play with, look at etc., I definately prefer smaller ones. I've been with girls that had both, so I think I can compare. So you can't put your dick between A cups, big deal. If the boobs look good on the body, that's all you need to worry about.

I hate FAKE boobs, period.

now thats what I am talking about......boobs of all kinds are great...big ones are ones I want to grab and play with but I prefer small ones.

I don't have an intelligent answer; I just like 'em.

As to the breast reduction question, dropping from a DD can still leave you with generous-sized breasts. I have two college friends who did this, and can still be considered busty. One of them, after some argument, was able to get her insurance to cover the cost, since her breasts were messing up her back.

And regarding clothing; my wife finds it insulting that there is so much clothing designed to make it look like you have larger breasts, but if you already have the breasts, the sexy clothing isn't available.

Massive size isn't the only thing, shape is just as important.

I love big tits and to tell you the truth I have no idea. Might be an aesthetic (SP) thing...

I've been a boob lover from birth. I think that maybe it has to do with the fact that large breasts make a woman seem more motherly IMO. Don't ask me why, maybe it has to do with the fact that I was breastfed and big boobs speak to me on a subconscious level.

A quote from an older Irish woman who was the mother of 7 kids:

"Those boy babies never quite get weaned". ;)

I personally think anything over a "c" or so is too big.

"Anything more than a hand full is a waste"

My GF is a "b" and I think she's perfect.

OK, before this thread turns into a discussion of ideal breast size (let's face it, any Fark boobies thread can get you that discussion), please recall what ShaniFaye said at the top:

Big titties
 

I myself am a sucker for curvy women. So large breasts just adds to the total package. They're fun to hold, suck, caress whatever. My wife is 42d and she just bought some bras from lane bryant, (she calls them "super bras") and I love burying my face in the cleavage! But why do I love large breasts so much? My intelligent answer would have to be that large breasts make a woman seem more womanly, more fertile. Like when you see a woman with large hips that's supposed to trigger an instinct in men that she's able to bear lots of children and that's why more men actually go for that women. (You can actually learn something on the discovery channel after all!) Basically, it's all on instinct. Not trying to be sexist or anything, just making an observation that we humans are mammals too.

As one of those women you described.....I can actually accept that explanation Flyguy. Does your wife get as pissed off at Victoria Secrets as I do?

She hates Victoria’s Secret with a passion! Everytime she gets a catalog she cringes at the stick girls on all the pages. She's been shopping at lane bryant for a while now since we moved to WA and they have some pretty lacy stuff in there. No complaints at all!

Mommy.

I like how they jiggle and shake, I like their softness and pliability, more fun to (lightly) squeeze and manipulate. I'm not strictly a large tit-man but given two hot girls I'll take the one with the bigger tits.

My girlfriend has DD size. When they are big they are just more fun to play with and make great pillows. I realy dont know why I like them.

All my life I've longed to have large breasts.I'm lean and fit but have such small breasts that I think I look like a guy:(.It doesn't help that my b/friend very clearly prefers large breasted women
and double and triple takes on women with big racks.

It seems like little tiny short women all sport hefty nice sets of breasts and I'm really tall and got stuck with nothing up top.

I cringe when he refers to my breasts "as perky little tits" and he's got to hunt to find them during sex:(

Be grateful that nature saw fit to make you well endowed!

While I can't say why any better than anyone else has attempted, all I know is I like large(r) breasts, but as part of the whole package - the curvy body to go with the curvy chest is necessary to me. Skinny body and huge boobs just doesn't look right to me.

And of course it's easy for us to like them since we don't have to deal with any of the negative aspects of them as you note. My girlfriend is a 34D and she has problems with certain clothing, especially since she's also a petite.

In reality....it stems from our primitive nature. Large boobs=fertile woman. I myself, like a D cup, like my wifes. However, it is not the only thing that I appreciate in a woman and have dated many women with smaller.
Ok ok....I leave now.

I prefer smaller ones as well. I don't know the sizes, but i

I lost my train of thought.

Shrink those puppies, Shani. ;) I mean, breasts are great, but there is such a thing as too much; add that to the fact that you'd rather they be smaller and viola! A reason to do what you want.

My finacee says she's surprised you don't have back problems.

Very insensitive on your man's side, how would he like it if you walked around looking at crotches?

My girlfriend has 34/36 Cs and I love 'em just like that. Perfect size in my humble opinion.

No bigger no smaller. I would not mind them being smaller, but I would mind if they got a lot bigger. Big breasts are nice. Huge jugs are not. B-cup is also great for me, but A-Cup is too small IMO.

Nope they have never caused back problems, maybe its because Im not a skinny chick, but since they cause no medical problems insurance doesnt cover it because it would be elective surgery. They really only cause me a problem when I want to buy clothes and thats really the only time I bitch about them lol

About the clothes thing.. My girlfriend's size A, and she complains about all the clothes being designed for women with bigger boobs. Often the clothes she buys are loose from the chest when they are perfect from other parts.

But about boobs in general.. I like to look at big tits, I think they are sexy, but so are smaller boobs. Like said above, smaller size looks good on some girls, bigger size on others. And in an SO the breast size doesn't really matter to me. I'm an ass man too.. :)

Neither DD boobies or A boobies will be happy in most clothes since they are designed for the most common factor, which would be Bs and Cs.

breast size isn't important to me but generally, bigger isn't better.

My oh my, where do I start? Not really particular about breast size, don't really care much for ones about the size of mine, but also don't care about the ones that go to your waist when you take your bra off.

Not trying to change the subject but were I a woman, for every guy that insisted that big was the only way to go,I would tell him that I felt the same way about penis size...probably shut them up pretty quickly. The way I see it in both men and women is that you get what you get...make the most of it.

38 DD, and I hate them. I hate Victoria's Secret with such fervence that my temperature actually goes up and I steam when I walk past one.

I also have the problem with not being able to wear most clothes. I can get the tops over my boobs, but they stop a couple of inches above my belly button. And bras- well, I have been lucky shopping in the boxed bras, but other than that- NO WAY!

Let's get reductions together!

For a lot of guys I think it's just a nice feature. Like, how do you gain if the guy has a nice looking face? You're just more attracted to it. I personally like smaller women though.

I think it's just personal preference. Breasts are beautiful to look at big and small. The female figure offers so many curves that can make a man's jaw drop and eyes fall out their sockets. Big breasted; small breasted. It makes no difference. Beautiful is beautiful regardless. :)

Xeph's Boob Theorem:


Big boobs = good (not my pref, but just fine nonetheless)

Small boobs = good

Medium boobs = good

Fake boobs = not good

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. (Post removed, I'm just frustrated, nevermind)

You're not the only one redlemon.....I actually thought I'd get some better responses

OK, back to Shani's original question.... Why does size matter? Women have said it for years, where men are concerned, that it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean or whatever phrase you want to use there... Why does breast size matter when it comes to women?

I disagree with the concept that size doesn't matter. I'm a size queen - I like a big piece of meat. There are men who feel the same way about boobage.

Fortunately, people come in all shapes and sizes - there is somebody for everybody.

Wenchie
36D

Shani-

Sorry to detract from the seriousness of the post... Honestly, it's a totally visual thing, IMHO. Even if penis size were to be an arguable thing (gross square inchage), breasts have no physical affect on the act of sex, and therefore it's thoroughly visual and/or pshycological. I enjoy SEEING large breasts (of the not overly humongous variety), but I'm MUCH more sexually attracted to women with breasts no larger than a "C" cup. "B" cups are also just delightful in my book.

All in the eye of the beholder... I peronsaly have a fancy for redheads (mmm... freckles) and Asian girls. My wife is neither, but I'm INCREDIBLY sexually attracted to her. It's not love, I thought she was crazy sexy before I fell for her. Different strokes for different folks (erm, yeah...)

So, on a serious note, some guys like 'em big, just like some girls like their men hung like an elephant. Does it make it "better"? Yes and no... if they are really into it, even to the point of fetishism, then yes, it CAN make the sexual experience better.

As for you... if you have problems with your breastage, by all means get them reduced, I assure you plenty of guys will swoon after your cleavage regardless of the size.

I'm not really answering your question but...
Exactly how much of a reduction were you planning on getting?
I wear 34C most of the time and I have pretty wide hips. I have trouble fitting into a lot of clothing. A lot of pants that fit my legs perfectly simply cannot get past my hip area (and if they do, they look funky). I wear a small in a lot of things and I can't wear anything with a built in bra because most don't fit me right. A lot of shirts are made for either someone with a smaller chest or someone with a larger waist. I have to wear belts on most of my pants because they slide down my skinny waist and look funny.
So I mean...people are saying "get a reduction. C is okay too!" but that still might cause problems. Then there's the issue of your hips or butt area. Is that wide as well? You might find yourself dissapointed after getting a boob reduction because you still have clothing troubles.
I just want to make sure that you're thinking past "how much of a difference will it make to guys?"...

You're just not trying, hoss! I promise you, it can be done, and done well.

I'm not a sizeist. My wife's an A. Our girlfriend's a DD. I like both ends of the spectrum very, very much. ;)

I just want to make it clear....Im not planning on getting a reduction...much as I would love to sometimes hehehe I wont do it

Men are visually stimulated creatures.

Do you like a big cock better than a small one?

Some women say they don't care. Some of these women might, of course, be honest...but for the most part, I doubt it.

Russian with an A? It seems almost.......inconceivable!!!!!

you are correct men are visually stimulated....Im a woman, I am not visually stimulated....and yes size matters to me....I dont like them much at all if they are over 7 1/2 inches because if you get bigger than that they hurt when you have the kind of sex I like to have....they can be beautiful to look at no matter what the size though

Penis issue doesnt come into play in this though because the dicks are actually used in intercourse so the size IS going to come into play for some women. At least thats my opinion anyway

That's true, good point.

well, everyone's different, of course, but the theory I tend to agree with is this: It is a exposed (at least somewhat) portion of your sexuality. It's a very easy thing to see breasts and think about sex, (as well as some freudian thoughts that we probably try to pretend aren't there). Larger breasts = more pronounced vision of sexual nature. Animals that walk on all fours have exposed genitalia to indicate times of fertility, we walk upright, so our femails don't have that, and there's not so much a breeding season, so... they have boobies... and yes, I do so very much like em....animals, that's all we are... hope my answer helps at least some.

I'm attracted to big boobs. I like to play with them, bite them, rub them around. I especially like when we're going at it and they are bouncing up to her chin. That's gotta be the best thing about them.

Wait, I look at crotches. Is that bad?

As for the question:
One of the universal definitions of beauty is symmetry. Similarly for boobs, I think it has to do with proportionality. If you've got sexy curves everywhere else but your breasts, it probably looks strange visually. So, if a person likes big breasts, he probably also likes an overall curvy and "fertile" figure on women. I think that answers the question, but in reverse logic. :?

I dont think this is something that can be formulaicly explained why we like them, or like them big. Yes its true that you can get your dick between some big titties, but thats not the direct reason. When men look at a pair of boobs they go into a trance, like when watching tv. Its not so much that they're big as much as the fact that they are THERE. And when they are huge then they are SUPERTHERE.

Does that make sense? Sound like a stupid reason? Men are not complicated.

I know you directed this at men, but I like women too soooo... I just like them to look proportional on the woman. The body type I'm attracted to usually means they are a B or C cup. I don't have a fascination with really large breasts, and fake ones are a definite no no generally because they are too disporportionate with tiny girls wanting DD's and shit.

I don't view breasts independent of the person they are attached to. You hear a lot of men say "I like to play with them". I have never uttered those words, I don't think of them as something to be curious about. They are something to touch to make her feel sexy and good and that's how I think of them. So they help her more than me during sex.

My 2 cents... :D

Our tastes are partly instinct and partly learned from experience. My experience is:
Slender girls: more athletic sex (they bend)
Fleshier girls: More visually female, so they're nice to look at.

Larger breasts are significantly more visually stimulating. But large breasted women are neither better nor worse lovers. But they do look good when they show off their cleavage(s). That's why actresses, especially porn actresses tend to have big racks. More visual stimulation.

One thing a fairly large bosom does though, is make for good titty sex. But that's a very rare thing for this guy, so I don't much care.

A handful is nice. More is visually nice, but has significant drawbacks, as you've described.

I recommend you have them tightened up and reduced a little. Make yourself happy. Your lover won't mind much, if your breasts are still fairly large. C/D cups. And he'll appreciate it if you have them lifted or firmed up at the same time. He may even thing they got bigger.

I don't like big boobs. Large boobs are actually a turnoff for me. I prefer B/C.

The worst is when someone really skinny has massive fake breasts. Like a flat board with two bowling balls just kinda chillin out. Looks so unnatural.

Just for a little hijack here: I've occasionally pondered why it is that (in general) porn stars are curvy, but fashion models are flat. The un-PC answer that jumps to my mind is that most fashion designers are gay men, but did I just say that last part out loud? Oops.

You're going to have to trust me on this one.

There is absolutly nothing like cuddling up next to some nice, big, fluffy boobs! they make great pillows.

Wasn't there a thread on this board that said that upper class men preferred tall women with small breasts and small hips and lower class prefers big busted women with large hips? That might explain it as I've never heard a construction worker say "This weekend? Oh I can't cause I'll be in Milan for a fashion show".
Again, all very un-PC.

As for the original question... I don't what answer you are fishing for, but men are just wired to love big breasts. I could give the answers again, but they are already thoroughly explained in this thread.

My girlfriend has big breasts and I didn't use to be a breast man before now (I like a hot butt) but she sure changed me. :)

A handful is perfect, if it takes two hands to hold one, one is bound to get lonely. ^_^

big boobs suck, keep girls from doing sports and such, my sis and mom both complain often due to their large size. I want a little boobed girl

My wife complains about that too when she plays softball. Everytime I see her run around those bases, thay jiggle all over the place! She wouldn't consider a reduction since she's a huge advocate of breast feeding.

That sounds about right. My girlfriend is a 32D. I love her breasts. (Triumph did too). I've gotten used to the fact that whenever we go out, guys stare at them all the time. I dont blame them either. Its damn hard not to stare at them in all their SUPERTHERENESS.

She's proud of her boobage, but like Shani and trisk, she says its an inconvenience a lot of the time, especially when it comes to buying tops, etc. Plus she plays basketball.

I used to have lots of trouble running around with my boobs because they'd jiggle and it really hurt...but then I discovered the wonder of small sports bras. I started buying sports bras that were almost too tight for me (I basically had to stuff my boobs into them). It really helped with the breast pain and the jiggling was reduced significantly....

I'd say "definately get all those complaining girls to do it" but sometimes it causes my back to hurt (20 minutes of running almost always guarentees this). I guess the super-tight bra + heavy breasts strains my back a lot. So...my body is still something of a problem when it comes to excersize, but it's better than before. Usually lots of arching my back and stretching can relieve the pain.