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07-23-2004, 10:47 AM
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Junkie
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One initial question... what difference does it make whether she swallows or not? A blow job is still a blow job, she doesn't care less about you because she doesn't want to swallow.
She may be reacting to your reaction to her not wanting to swallow. I have a few other thoughts, but... I must get coffee first...
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07-23-2004, 10:50 AM
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Location: canada
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yeah this is like a 2 part question
-why have the BJ's stopped / no swallow......cause you guys have been going out for over 6 months now......cardinal rule.....after 6 months.....all the 'good stuff' goes on the decline! (on average...there are always exceptions to the rule) -why no more fun sex.?....see answer to part (1)....or......maybe you guys need to have a chat and figure out what's up with the relationship??? |
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07-23-2004, 11:11 AM
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BAH, don't assume that just because you're with her for some amount of time that she should keep swallowing. It's entirely her choice... Communication is key. Let her know in a subtle way that it's still ok if she does it, and she doesn't have to swallow, maybe that will encourage her? I'm not sure. Just talk it out first.
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07-23-2004, 11:22 AM
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Cautiously soaring
Location: exploring my new home in SF
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fuck, if I'm getting head then I dont' care if she spits it on the walls afterwards, I'm getting head.
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07-23-2004, 11:25 AM
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07-23-2004, 12:33 PM
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Male ejaculant has antacid properties so I would imagine it would be difficult to digest and process. If she was giving you head on a regular basis (you lucky dog you) and ingesting this stuff I would probably interfere with her digestive system.
I am not sure what will work, Perhaps she can drink something that would that would dilute or break up the semen while it is in her mouth. Otherwise maybe some sort of digestive medicines might help. Though they might have other side effects. If nothing helps. It is very important for you to comfort her about this and make it absolutely clear that you are cool with it. |
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07-23-2004, 09:50 PM
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Location: Fortress of Solitude
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If she doesn't swallow thats fine but if she no longer wants to do it because of that you may want to see why the other reasons are.
If she does want to go down on you, maybe let her know when you are about to blow so she can get out of the way so she dosen't have to even spit. No advice on why this would affect your other activities though so got nothing for you there.
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07-24-2004, 07:54 AM
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Here to Help My Fellow TFP'er
Location: All over the Net....(ok Wisconsin)
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I've been told....(by my wife), that certain foods that I eat can cause my semen to turn bitter. Including beer. I have no idea if this is true, but I have to take her word on it..
Kind of gross, now that I think about it....yuk
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07-24-2004, 08:14 AM
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Submit to me, you know you want to
Location: Lilburn, Ga
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Dawson70 it has been my experience that beer does indeed change the taste...and while I will ALWAYS ALWAYS swallow, if beer has been drunk I do need to make sure I have a glass of sweet tea near me when Im done because of the after taste.
Mtn Dew on the other hand does wonders for the taste. Dave drank it by the bottles full and I didnt realize how much it affected it until he cut himself down on the amount he drank.
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07-28-2004, 12:12 AM
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Other foods improve the taste like onions for instance. I have a book where they discuss this somewhere. Will look it up and post you the list. |
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07-28-2004, 02:12 AM
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Location: CA
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yep, your diet has a big effect on a lot of things, including the taste of your semen. whether or not it causes gas is something I don't know (but if i farted and it smelled like ejaculate I wouldn't want to swallow either
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07-28-2004, 02:19 AM
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Location: Elysium
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 Anyway swollowing has never been a problem for me with anyone else. But with loverboy it is. The first time I swollowed his sperm I became extremely sick which astonished me. I thought that it was a one time only thing so I tried swollowing it again 2 months later and this time I only had a bad stomach and felt a bit sick. I tried swallowing again some months later and the results were the same: bad stomach. It's weird and I don't know the reason but I'm pretty sure you can't fix it by refraining from eating certain things. It's more likely that your sperm contains something your girlfriend is intolerant of/allergic to I'm pretty sure that the reason why she doesn't want to give you head anymore is because she's afraid that you'd want her to swollow again. So just tell her that you don't mind if she doesn't because you don't want her to get sick (please note that you might tell her this several times before she actually belives you. For some reason women needs to be told something several times before they're convinced) 
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07-28-2004, 08:38 AM
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lascivious
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Use a glass with something to drink. She can rinse her mouth and spit it back out. Nice and easy. I know some drinks will make it very sticky while others will dilute it, I have no experience in this so experiment to get best results. Also help is if the glass was opaque…otherwise it will look like a science experiment gone wrong.
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07-29-2004, 08:07 AM
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Cautiously soaring
Location: exploring my new home in SF
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Christ kid, she doesn't even have to take in her mouth. She can suck you until your just about to cum (tell her dammit lol) and then finish you off with her hand. Now I know it isn't as nice or as tidy, but you're still getting head!?!?!
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