Masturbating
 

When I masturbate or get a handjob/blowjob, I have to tighten my muscles in my legs and point my toes. I can't bust a load unless I am like that. Is this a problem? Should I be able to bust a load with out tightening my muscles?

I just find it feels better, I do that too...i assume its normal...

my bf is like that. he can shoot really quickly if he's laying flat on his back because he can do "the leg thing" as we call it

I think it has something to do with the muscles stimulating the prostate and such ...

its much easier to get off if I do it.

i'd get really sore ankles and i'd have trouble running on track in gym when i first started masterbating, lol...

Yup. It helps make it more intense. Otherwise, I find that the orgasm is a bit weaker.

I used to be like that.

There's nothing wrong with it, but try to see if you can orgasm not doing that. It would probably make sex a lot easier.

I don't always have to do it but it helps. It would be nice if I could just relax instead of clenching up.

It's all mental. I used to be the same about other stances but if you get used to if you make the transition in small steps chances are you'll be able to get over it.

Mind over matter.

thats what i do i think it feels better

i never thought about that, but i do it to. thats weird.

In sex I don't have to clench-up though.

yeah, but when you clench those muscles in your legs and butt and such, the blood is pushed to a different spot in the body, and some of it ends up going into your unit. Therefore making it more sensitive, and making you come faster.

I don't know if that's scientifically proven, I just thought that I'd add my experiences to the story.

I'll go away now...

I get that, coupled with what my gf describes as "abnormally wild facial expressions." It's kind of embarassing, actually. =(

I tend to tense up like taht when I'm on my back and she's blowing me. i have a much harder tiem like that.. must be because thats the way I like to wack off.. and I'm haveing ot be a big suserviant... i have issues giving up control.. when I can it sure is great thgouh...

I do the same thing and my calves are always sore ;)

I notice that if I dont clench my leg muscles, I can last a lot longer, but i risk losing my rod if I do it for a long time:eek: