amire

Hello, all. This is my first post in these forums, and I love the community I see here. Thanks for listening to me.

I am a young college freshman, and I am having a problem with my erect penis. When it becomes erect, it doesn't want to move very much at all...it's highly inflexible. I can move it in a perpendicular motion to my stomach only about 45 to 90 degrees...it lies flat on the stomach and I cannot push it out so that it points straight out...if I attempt to do this, the penis begins to hurt. The shaft itself is very inflexible, and I can't get much bend out of it at all...it's like having a pencil attached to my crotch as opposed to some sort of flexible foam.

Does anyone know what exactly this is? Am I just young, or is this a medical problem that I should have looked at?

Thank you very much!

SinisterMotives

That used to happen to me when I was younger. The first woman I was ever with would get on top and lean back, and it would hurt like you wouldn't believe!

I'm guessing it's because those two tendons aren't stretched out enough or something. It's not a medical problem. They'll stretch as you use it more.

fernweh

amire-
Just wanted to say kudos for working up the nerve to post this question... I have a feeling this is going to be one of those things that a lot of people have been wondering about but have felt too embarrased to start a thread about.

(and thanks SM... I'm anxiously awaiting some more wisdom from our older TFPers )

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SinisterMotives

If you think that's bad, when I was 13 or so, it would hurt just having an erection without even trying to move it.

bing bing

By the sounds of things, your penis is becoming too erect but i honestly don't think it's anything to really worry about. Or does it make sex difficult and restrictive?

Anyway, I think it'd be best to see a Doctor about this problem who may refer you to a urologist.

amire

Thanks for your replies, guys. I've got one question for SinisterMotives: did you do any sort of stretching exercises to help yourself loosen up? Or was it just a time thing? And about what time did you start to become more bendy? I'm 18, and I've been like this for several years, since about 14 or 15.

SinisterMotives

When you get to be my age, you'll be wishing it got that erect all the time again.

I never really noticed when it stopped being painful. Just have sex and masturbate every chance you get. That's the best way I know of to break it in.

amire

AWWW, do I HAVE to?

ratbastid

Some kegel exercises might help with this. Check google.

SinisterMotives

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Blackthorn

Oh for the love!!!! There's nothing wrong with your equipment except that you need to find a good garage to park it in

With time you will come to appreciate your current "problem"....

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xepherys

Hmmm... kjroh, one of us is misinterpreting his problem. I don't think it's a matter of a good garage... and maybe not really of a good mechanic. It's just needs to be broken in. I've heard of this "through the grapevine" when I was in high school. Since it has been several years, you may want to talk to a doctor, but it very well might not be a serious problem.

The penis should have a certain amount of flexibility, and if it does cause actual pain, then medical precautions may be something to look into. This may be akin to guys who have seriously curved penises, often to one side or the other. This can, in some cases, cause problems during intercourse and can sometimes also be corrected. Every penis is different, so the advice of the group is only a collective of knowledge and may differ from what you need or want.

THGL

I agree with the tendons just being tight.
I remember the first time a girl rode on top and leaned back, it wasn't so painful that we had to stop but I remember being relieved when she sat back up.

If you don't have a S.O. to help you with it, just work with it when you're doing "the business". Try pushing it forward as far as you can w/o being painful. As time goes by it'll move more.

It also sounds like you're inquiring about the flexibility of the shaft itself when you're aroused.. It's supposed to be hard and not like flexible foam.

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absorbentishe

You'll just need to work it out (yourself), unless you have a partner. After you take care of it, everything will be fine.

P.S. When I first read the title, the first thing that came to mind was the song, "Detachable penis". I laughed out loud.

floydthebarber

heheh

Things will "settle down" as you age.

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