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I like how intelligence is on everyone's list. I'm not suprised in the slightest, y'all are some of the smartest people I've ever met.

I've said it before in another thread, I want someone who feels the same way about me, as I do about them. Now I just need to learn to forgive the girls that don't.

Someone who:

- Isn't stubborn
- Realizes when I am right. (because I'm ALWAYS right ;) ;))
- Knows when something is wrong, and acts accordingly
- Weird sense of humor
- Finds me somewhat funny

Thats really all I can think of. I'm not too picky.. just about stubbornness.

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bermuDa wrote on 06-23-2004 10:06 PM:
if you have experiences you'd like to share to explain your opinion, then by all means enlighten us. "not mormons" is not stimulating conversation, and how are the other members supposed to know that:

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I was lookin more to stimulate a conversation on the subject regarding some recent expierences in my dating life.

If you're trying to stimulate conversation, it's going to take more than two words.

-bDa

It's obviously stimulating a conversation with you.

Although you have chosen to keep it a private conversation rather than a public one. I think that other members are old enough to be able to ask questions when they so desire. This isn't a lecture hall where your not allowed to ask questions. It's a forum, one in which many questions can and have been asked. I honestly didn't see why I should put down my whole history regarding the incident that has turned me off of dating someone of the Mormon religion. I figured if someone wanted to know they could ask.

If you do want to know read my other post in tilted philosophy and you can put 2 and 2 together

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=60071

Does she have a pulse? :D

Well, I think I can narrow it down to a manageable list. Here we go in no specific order.

- Intelligence is very important but common sense is also a must.
- She has to be funny, but find me funny too.
- Independent.
- Truthful.
- Kind, but not weak.
- Open minded.
- Playful.
- Loves me.
- Spontaneous

Secondary:
- Attractive (completely subjective)
- Similar interests.
- A pet person.

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Originally posted by everquestjoe
The number one thing that I look for in a 'special person' is if she can be her 100% self around me, and I can be my 100% self around her. If that isn't the case, it will never work.

A great comment, so very true.
Other things that I look for have to be a positive personality, intelligent, preferably christian, funny, sarcastic, loveable, and a great voice has never hurt :P Also someone who will put in an effort to get to know me and my friends.

Anyone ladies fit the criteria? PM me ;P