06-11-2004, 03:53 PM | #1 (permalink) |
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lack of mystery
Statement: I am currently with a woman that loves to be naked all the time regardless of the situation..(meaning cooking cleaning watching tv) now i know this sounds to good to be true but i'm the type of guy that likes a little mystery in my life.
Question: Is it to much for me or bad of me to ask her to put some DAMN clothes on every now and then? Poll/personal opinion what do you all think? |
06-11-2004, 04:27 PM | #3 (permalink) | |
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Seriously though, I think it's fine to talk to her about it. Communication is always important. Don't just say "could you put on some clothes?" though - explain to her what makes you feel uncomfortable and why, and seek a compromise. There's a certain degree of truth to biljan's comment too I think - perhaps part of the process of compromising could involve you trying to see things more from her point of view - maybe you'll decide you'd like to be the same way!
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06-11-2004, 05:16 PM | #4 (permalink) |
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Location: California
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If you flat out tell her to put some clothes on, I am thinking she'll be a little hurt (or a lot, depending on how sensitive she is).
One day, you should walk out when she is naked and say: Hey, you know what my fantasy is? A more mysterious woman. |
06-11-2004, 05:53 PM | #6 (permalink) |
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Location: Edmontania
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why would it be unsanitary timalkin?
I think you should talk to her *carefully* about her nudism. Don't compress it down to one sentence, sit down with her and talk it out for a while.
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06-11-2004, 06:07 PM | #7 (permalink) |
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I'm getting images of sweat and dead skin cells falling into the food. I know this happens even when clothes are on, but man...
It also seems like you'd be more prone to burning yourself if you didn't have clothes. I think I read somewhere that the human body secretes fluid from orficies during the course of a day. Think about that next time you sit on her sofa. |
06-11-2004, 09:22 PM | #10 (permalink) |
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ask her to atleast where some when shes cooking... tell her your having visions of her spilling boiling water all down her front side...
... just talk with her... ... the answer might involve a sawzalll... you should ask clavus
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06-11-2004, 09:43 PM | #12 (permalink) |
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Talk to her about it. Tell her that your fantasy is to come home and strip her of all of her clothes, but unfortunately you can never do that because is always naked!! Lingerie is a good idea too. Maybe she'd wear that while watching tv and cooking..leaving you to image what she has hidden.
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06-12-2004, 09:51 AM | #13 (permalink) |
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If you decide to talk to her about it you could suggest having "naked days" where you both lay around in the buff This way she still gets to be naked on occasion and it becomes more of a special occasion. You could also buy her little sun dress type thingies. Tell her you got her something cute she can do things around the house in.
I find myself naked around the house quite a bit. It's just easier and more comfortable. However, when it's not appropriate (i.e. the roomies are home or we have the windows open) I usually just throw on a cute little sundress. |
06-12-2004, 10:51 AM | #14 (permalink) |
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Location: San Marvelous
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I really don't see this as a problem. Sorry, I just don't. My wife is just the opposite. Her clothes go on first thing in the morning and don't come off till bedtime. I could use some more female nakedness around my house I'll tell you for sure.
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06-13-2004, 08:33 AM | #15 (permalink) | |
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I personally enjoy how clothing 'clings' to a woman. Certain, non-public wear is nice too. An oversized sweatshirt, those short sweatpants type shorts, of course, lingerie. Yes, some mystery is good and maybe revealing clothing would be a good start. |
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