ibis

Ok-

I bought my (now ex)girlfriend and I tickets to the Civic tour (Dashboard Confessional,Thrice, Get Up Kids, and The Format). They're awsome seats in a private suite, free food, backstage passes, and vip parking.

We broke up today and I'm pretty pissed. I believe there's a chance we might get back together at some point.

Would it be wrong to invite another girl to the concert?

dirtyrascal7

i don't see why it would be wrong... it's doubtful either of you would have a good time going with each other, so go with someone who's company you would enjoy.

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Sugar&Spice

If things are going better closer to the concert with your ex and it looks like you may get back together then take her. If not, ask someone else to go with you. Decide who you would have the best time with and take that person. You don't want that night to be spoiled by petty arguements and such.

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hannukah harry

you could take me!!! i won't put out... well, okay, you talked me into it.

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skier

Get another girl, and have some fun with her, instead of being miserable spending it with your Ex.

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sub zero

Dude I wouldn't mind going...I'd put out :P...then again I'm a guy...kick ass concert though

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Seaver

Yep, you two broke up.... tough luck on her.

Bring another chick along, have fun.

SparklingDot

Funny how no one suggested you bring a guy friend. That's assuming you have guy friends... But still, there's no harm in taking someone else of either gender if your ex would make you miserable.

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oblar

i was thinking of just asking a friend of yours to go.. He doesn't need to be anything sexual. Just have a good time.

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Averett

TAKE ME!!!

Really, you need to take me. For real.

Private suite, free food, backstage passes? For a DASHBOARD show?

Seriously, take me

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la petite moi

I would ask another girl. Or if you're comfortable with this idea, ask a guy mate.

deve

ahhh I love Thrice...I would kill to go.

maleficent

Aww - take Averett - she asked so nicely...

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Bobaphat

I have never heard of any of these bands. I guess I am starting to get old. Anyway, a gift is a gift. You wouldn't take back a cd you gave her or anything.

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Blackthorn

Checking my schedule...whooooah...looks like I have an opening!

I think you should invite someone else if that's what you want to do.

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dirtyrascal7

he didn't say it was a gift, just that he bought the tickets and they planned to go together. from how i read it, the tickets are his... and he asked his girlfriend to go, but since she is no longer his girlfriend... he should be able to ask whoever he wants and go have a good time.

bringing a guy friend might not be a bad idea assuming you're allowed to bring other people into the private suite with you...then you two could go find a couple hotties in the lawn or pavilion and bring them up with you.

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raeanna74

Yeah go ahead take a bud or other girl. Gives you a chance to get out and not brood over the breakup too.

I must also be getting old or something. I've not heard of these bands. The names of a couple sound familiar but that's where it ends. I'm so out of it.

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ibis

Damn, that's a good idea!

Not sure if this will fly though, cause I don't own the suite, just have 2 of the 16 spots in it... but there's gonna be a chouch and chairs at the bar... so I guess it wouldn't matter. hmmm....

BTW, here's what the suite is like:
http://www.nokialivedfw.com/club_luxury.asp

Averett where do you live?

Averett

New York

But Dashboard... private suite... backstage... Too good to resist!

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ibis

Too bad. If you were around here, I'd say come along.

I'll take pictures for you

Averett

You'd better!

I went to the show in Niagara Falls. I was front row too... Up until 14 year old asshats decided to crowd surf and mosh Fuck that shit.

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ibis

I ended up asking a girl that lives here in the dorm with me. It was great to to hear the gasp she made when I told her I had an extra ticket... hehe...

ibis

Update:

The concert was awsome! I didn't like Thrice, but the Guet up kids were pretty good. The only disapointmant was when he had the crowd sing the climax to "screaming infidelities". I was kinda disapointed about that...

Anyways, even better then the concert was the girl I took. We got along sooo well. Everytime one of us would share an opinion, the other would be amazed cause we felt the exact same way... about almost everything. I one point I jokeinly said, "You must have been stalking me for the last 5 years. How else would you be able to say everything you'vr been saying." To this she responded with, "You're the one that called me ".

Overall it was an amazing night. Thanks for all ya'lls suggestions!

Stare At The Sun

See, i woulda just sold em on ebay...but it looks like you're opening up a nice new chapter in your life!

Congrats.

Slims

When you guys broke up, she lost all bitching rights. You can take whoever you want to the concert. Especially if you get some tail afterwards.

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dirtyrascal7

glad to hear things went well, ibis... sounds like you made the right decision.

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Uiberto

Take a different girl and tell your ex and date about it.

ibis

And what exactly would that accomplish?